my name is Alanna(girl)and i am 14 years old. I havent had a boyfriend in a while;i have had offers, but i feel like guys only like girls with good looks. how can i feel like guys like me for the right reasons?
snowwalker69 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:46 pm: Hey Alanna. Your pretty smart for a 14 year old, but I think that u should let your guard down just a tad. Some tips on how you know your guy isn't only for your looks are:
1. He looks in your eyes when he talks to you. Some guys don't do this because they are shy, so this isn't always the best one to be going for ...
2. Look for a gentlemen. A guy you've known for while who has always been nice. I mean the real kinda nice, not the, I'm-just-being-nice-to-get-with-you-nice. lol.
3. If you meet a new guy, give him a chance and get to know him better.
That's all I can think of right now. If you know a guy has got a bad rep or anything like that, stay away. You just don't want to get your heart broken. Good Luck with the guy thing though. [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:31 pm: You gotta take a chance. If it doesn't work out,oh well,then you'll learn what to watch out for. If you're interested in a guy,you need to give it a shot. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
MizAdviceGurl_04 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:55 pm: juzt go out w/ them.. if they only like u 4 ur lookz then they wont last with u 4 long if they dont like ur personality or w/e. soo juzt try going out w/ a guy..and sum1 will like u for who u r evenually even if they dont at 1st..soo good luck!
Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole [ MizAdviceGurl_04's advice column | Ask MizAdviceGurl_04 A Question ]
SmoothiesFknRock answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:28 pm: If the guy sweet talks you alot, and compliments you on other things besides your looks- then you know he's a keeper. If he's willing to go out of his way for you thats a good sign too. =] <3; Jenn* [ SmoothiesFknRock's advice column | Ask SmoothiesFknRock A Question ]
Jane answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:12 pm: *At least the guys think you have good looks. Dating is not serious until you're like 18, so just have fun with the guys and they will like you for the right reasons after they get to know you =)* [ Jane's advice column | Ask Jane A Question ]
JuStAsKmE answered Thursday August 5 2004, 9:55 pm: OMG! i kno a grl named alanna.. l0l.. but yea,... uhmm.. u shuud be able to tell if a guy likes you for you if he talks to you and cares about you.. :-D [ JuStAsKmE's advice column | Ask JuStAsKmE A Question ]
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