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what to do..
Okay..I just broke up w/ my ex like 2 days ago and we were together for about 4 months.I went to a party last night and i met this guy and hes a 16 (im 13) and we like kidna hooked up and now i feel really bad since i just broke up w/ my ex..But I like the guy i met and me and him like eachother and everything but like my ex still likes me a lot and I dono if i should just worry about my feelings or be nice and worry about me ex's!Cuz i like this new guy a lot and he wants to go out and stuff.i dono..PLEASE HELP!
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I think you should wait just a tad bit longer before you go into anymore dating. 4 months is a long time. N if your ex still likes you and is trying to get over losing you, then see's you with someone else, he'll be totally heartbroken. So, jus wait a little bit longer, then yah, sure, why not. Go out with the kid.
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if its over-its over! u shouldnt have to worry about it cuz if u really like this guy then u should go for it!! i know u feel bad for ur ex and all...but maybe this will teach him how to just let go u know?
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ya kno wat ur obviously over ur ex so go wit the new guy its always good to date older guys .... and if u dont llike ur ex anymore then def go for the new guy u met ... jst go with wat ever will make u happy ..
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I think that u broke up with him so ull or through... i think that you should do what ure heart tells you to...but i would go out with whoever i meet..
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stay with the guy that your with if u like him ... your ex can move on dont put your life on hold just because your ex likes you
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Okay. Calm down. I see that you like this new guy that you met, but make sure that you dont just ignore outside feelings other than yours. You have to remember that your ex is still in love with you and eagerly wants you back. Im not saying to give up on your hopes with being with this new guy. I am just saying when you start dating this other guy (if your not already)..make sure that your ex knows. Because if you dont tell him straight up he'll find out from someone other than you and the pain will multiply for him. Dont just forget about him, take the chance with the guy you met at the party but also stay great friends with your ex. In the begining he will want to me much more but just explain to him that you just dont like him like that and you just want to be good friends. He'll understand. And after awhile he should understand that you have moved on and he will give up. Good luck hun. :)
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you are only 13 and you already broke up with ur ex so chances are u werent meant to be . u should try to see different guys so u know what u like and dont like. so stick with the new guy n see how things go
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Well, honestly I think if your hooking up with other guy`s just days after you broke up with your boyfriend, you might have not really cared about him at all. And in the nicest way possible your a little young to be hooking up with guys and going to party`s. It could really destroy your future. Take it from someone with experiance. I think if you really did care about your ex boyfriend you should give it time. Tell him your sorry about hooking up with the other guy. And if everything`s healed near the end, go for exactly what makes you happy. I hope I helped.
xO.Carrie
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Okay..you broke up with your ex. for a reason, right? well if you dont like him dont worry about that he likes you cause why would you want to wait around for him until he doesnt like you..that's jus how things are. He'll get over it eventually and move on. So go for. Best of luck.
xo,
jackie<3
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you and your ex are done with. you aren't a couple anymore and even if he still likes you, both of you have to move on at some time or another. i'm 13 too, so if you need anymore help, or just need to talk, send me a message.
xo K
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ok first of all you only live once so live it the fullest.
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Since you and your ex aren't together anymore - it's done. You don't have to worry about if he still likes you. <3 Steph
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unless you still have feelings about your ex then why would it matter to you how he feels. he has to move on and so do you. if this new guy likes you and you like him then you should give him a try.
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ok if u broke up w/ ur ex and dont have any feelings 4 him anymore then i think u should be free to go out w/ other guys. be nice n stuff to ur ex but dont pretend like u still like him or anything! hope i helped! drop it in my inbox!
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Sweetie, if you and your ex broke up, it's final..over...done. The both of you need to move on and meet new people. You're free now so you can hook up with whoever you want right now, don't feel bad about that. If you like the guy you met recently, then go for it...only if you think you are ready. If you feel like you should maybe wait a week so it doesn't look like you were desperate or whatever the case may be then do that. Your ex still likes you a lot, so that's normal that he would get disappointed about it, but if you guys were serious about the break up he will have to realize that he needs to get over you too. Eventually he will meet another girl just like you met another guy. Part of breaking up is getting over the guy/girl and the things they want. This is a time when you finally have no one you are with right now, you can go out and meet people and even go out. Just do want you want hunnie!! There are no rules, make yourself happy. If you like this new guy, try it out and see how things go! Just make sure you are ready for another relationship, if not you can slow it down a little! Take care!!! Love Always, Mandee
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even though es only 16, i think youre a lil too young for him. well, i guess youre okay with that.. so ill just mind my business. i think you should worry about your feelings, cuz your happiness comes before everything else
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hmmm... are you sure this new guy doesn't just like you because y'all hoooked up?? I mean he might just think you're an easy girl and he likes that type of thing.. I mean it sounds like this guy is just interested in really one thing. I dunno, though, since I'm not you or the guy. If you like the guy, go for it, but guard yourself closely. Because if you get in to deep, chances are he's gonna hurt you in the long run.
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