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does anyone know any ways to get over someones death that you were close to? weird ? i know
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Like others may have told you that people handle deaths differently but talking to someone you trust and rely on can help alot. Just knowing you have someone out there that you can talk to when needed helps a ton. Try thinking about all the good times you had with he or she that passed away. This is something that you cant just get over. It takes time and pacients and its really hard. I been to my uncles, and 2 cousins of mine and each one were differently handled. I hope this helps a bit.
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yu reallii cant get over suttin liek that... its hard to believe that they are gond nd everything.. jus let it take its toll...
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I don't think there is a way to get over the death of someone you care about, at least not in the way you might say you wanted to 'get over' an ended relationship.
It sounds trite, but time really does help. Time has a way of overlaying the pain with the good things - the way they looked when they laughed, things you did together, important moments you shared. Those are bittersweet feelings, because they bring both pleasure and pain, but eventually you'll feel more happiness in the memories. One day you'll find yourself smiling and know it's okay.
Until that day comes, let yourself cry. It's okay to grieve. Write about how you feel. Read a book about someone who went through this. Talk to your friends. Be honest about your feelings.
Know that sometimes, in order to be strong, you need to let yourself admit you feel weak. You'll make it through, because that's what we humans do.
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My cousin died too and we were really close. Everyone has a different way of handling peoples deaths and you cant really get over it. What you can do is sign up for sports or go out with friends to keep it off your mind for awhile. Its kinda hard to give sum1 advice like this because not every1 has the same way of dealing with death.
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Just take it slowly. There's no need to rush things like that. It may be hard to get back to normal, but it will happen eventually.
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remember the good things about them, share stories about them that make you happy to remember...time heals things
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Cuzin..
There is no easy way to get over someones death..you just have to know that whoever has died is in a better place and that GOD just needed another angel in heaven..
P.S if you neeed more advice email me at big_blake08@yahoo.com or add me on yahoo as big_blake08
Hope to hear from you soon!!!!
Blake08$
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talking to people actually helps. my dad died when i was 9 years old, i spent many nights crying myself to sleep and now im 15 and some times ill think about him and cry but i also think about him and smile. everyone has their own ways of getting over a loss of a loved one but i would suggest talking to someone close to you and crying.. it gets a lot of feelings out. hope i helped! write me back if you wanna talk -jMe
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Well... i have went through a hard death too a year ago my dad died... some wayz i got through it was i would write in a journal and say wut i feel and just let it all out (that helps a lot) another thing i did was i remembered all the things me n him used to do and all the good memorys i used to have with him and then talk to him like he was there.Its really hard the first like 6 months if u were really close but then you just think of him/her and kno he/she is lookin down on you and they just want you to b happy it takes time tho dont rush nething n its ok to cry. I hope I helped drop one in the inbox to tell me how ya r kk
xO Crystal xO
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No, I mean you cant just get over someones death you kinda just have to wait for it to pass by, Its ook, and really normal! x0x-Stephanie im sorry bout your cousin*!!
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Personally I don`t think it`s possible to get over someone`s death, and especailly not quickly. I know you`re probablly really upset and i`m sorry. Just give it a good cry and a few months and you will recover shortly. You`re most likley depressed about this death and just need time. The best of luck. Please don`t do something stupid. Hope I helped.
xO.Carrie
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ignore the suicide kids. for your sake, and mine. You can't really get over it, but you can deal. Find things that make you happy, don't think about it ALL the time. Go on with your life. Find songs that make you happy, or whatever. All you can do is keep living, like they would want you to.
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you can't get over it. all u can do is deal. it's hard but you'll make it. what you have to do now is be there for the ones that the person left behind. but go thru the mournin process. don't keep it bottled up. i was in a carwreck and my grandparents died in it and i kept everything bottled up inside and it hurt worse. so talk wid ur mom or dad.
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