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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and 1 week he wants to have sex im 14 hes 15 have we been going out long enough
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Usually boys at that age always want sex! I would wait a little longer than 5 weeks! You have to feel comfortable about these things and if he is pressuring you, you need to get rid of him! Your virginity is a precious thing, make sure he actually wants you for you and not your body. Be careful darlin'
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amber lynn
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That is a question only you can answer. I lost mine at 15...but I was ready. In my opinion...if you have to ask if you are ready online...then the answer is no most likely...or else you would have no doubt in your mind. I lost mine at 15, yes...I became sexually active after about a month and a week...also...but...now I'm 17 and me and that boy are still together...I'd be sure before anything...and I dont think you are.
*WovenLynx*
Hope I helped.
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no no no no no! sex doesnt work where if you have been going out for 1 month its 'OK' and soomething expected to happen. Sex is something you have when your ready..so ready you wont have to ask..i mean it could be on the 4th date or like a year from now. its all a personal choice. whatever you decide, make sure your ready...you use protection..and you wont have any regrets.
-meliss
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definitely not. if he is asking for that already you may need to start questioning his intentions..
this is my rule to figuring out if his intentions are okay:
when he asks you for more, say no. if he really cares about you, he will respect that and not pressure you. if he doesn't, he will either pressure you or pressure you and then dump you. this same thing actually happened between my ex and i..he ended up breaking up with me. you think you will be devastated, but you really feel like a stronger person after.
please, wait. if you don't, your heart WILL be broken more, no matter if you break up soon after, or a year after. you also risk feeling used, or completely humiliated.
usually i like to have both a positive and negative side to my answers..but i can't really think of anything positive on this one...if you choose to do it, i wish you luck and happiness.
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nope.* but its not really the length of time that you`ve been together. it`s if your ready.--
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no. you havent been going out long enough.
plus, is that a decision you want to make at 14? if thats all he wants out of the relationship you should end it. thats just wrong. you guys are really too young for that. (not that im older than you... its just you should wait until you are POSITIVE its the right time and decision.)
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i would say know it took me and my g/f alot longer i say hes just a horny boy like all guys i know im dissing myself but hey what can i say but any way he is proly horny and you should pobably wait til your older smart idea
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A month and a week? That's hardly a relationship.
In my opinion, you are WAYY young to have sex. At least give it a few more months.. Like 6 or 7. A month and a week is WAY too short of a time to be even thinking about having sex with the guy.
So to answer your question, no, you really haven't been going out long enough. Wait for at LEAST 6 or 7 months.
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NO not unless your a slut you'd be stupid to do taht know it could ruin you rlife
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NO! You have not been going out long enough! You are 14 years old! You should be thinking about other things besides having sex.. Do you know what kind of diseases are out there now days that you can catch that you cant get rid of? I know you never said anything about wanting to do it.. but Im gonna tell you... Dont have sex with him if your not ready! or at all.. you are tooo young in my opinion.. Do you want to end up being 15 yrs old and having a baby!? Protection and birth control pills don't always protect you from pregnancy.. and surely not from STD's Or HIV.. So think hard about what you want to do in this situtation.... If I were you... I wouldnt... Your just too young..
*Jackie*
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no way.
~Maegan~
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No I don't think you have been going out long enough, and I also don't think you are old enough. And let me say this also. Before you are ready to have sex with a boy, and one that you haven't not known for a lllllooooonnnnngggg time.
Then you must also be ready to be
DUMPED
LIED TO
EMBARRASED
HURT
DEVASTED
TALKED ABOUT
USED
and feel like sh*t when he doesn't call you after he got what he wanted. It takes a lot more time than one month for love to develope. And usualy more wisdom than you have at age 14. You may believe that you are in love, but boys that age, usually don't feel "love" they feel lust, and yes many times they call it love, but it fades real fast, and the girls are left behind wondering what to hell happened......?????
That's my age old advice to you. Wait, you'll be glad you did.
Michele
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It is not about how long people have been dating. It always about being responsible, knowing how to protect yourself and doing it because you want to. Boys at this age will promise you anything to the first person into your pants. If he is applying pressure on you to do this then DON'T. Knowing someone for only a month means you do not really know them. Odds are he's the get sex and dump her type. You can also get pregnant here. If you are asking question such as do I know him long enough? Odds are you know the answer is no and it is not time to form a sexual relationship. Why give it up to someone so easily that you knew for a month and have no idea how sincere? THINK!
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is not a question of how long you guys have been together....but if you feel comfortable enough to be with him and have sex with him then yes its ok...just remmeber there are lots of consequences and to be safe.....and it will probably be different after you guys have sex....like your relationship will change...could go far the worst or best but good luck
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I think you guys are rushing it. you're so young and people these days, even me have rushed into things we shouldnt have. take you're time experiment with other things. you should wait for someone you love and considering you're only 14 you probably don't know what love is yet. if there is even a doubt in your mind you probably shouldnt becuase that means you're not ready. if he really likes you he'll respect your decision.
follow your heart.
-kristen
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No, I don't think you have been going out long enough. If you have to even ask, the answer is probably no. Wait until you know each other and trust each other a lot. Wait until 6 months at the VERY least.
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In my opinion, if you had sex at your age..that would be wrong. You are so young, and there are so many consequences that you could have to face if you had sex. Think about it. STD's, getting pregnant..not to mention if your parents found out you would probably get in a lot of trouble, and the list goes on! You will have plenty of time to worry about having sex, when you get older! I don't think that you have been with this kid NEARLY long enough to even be THINKING about CONSIDERING having sex! It's a REALLY big deal, and it's something that you have to take seriously! If you have any doubts about having sex, then you definitely shouldn't do it. Don't feel pressured into it by your b/f either..I don't think any 14, or 15 year old could be ready to have sex.
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