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Hi im 13/f and i have a BIG problem..... ok my boyfriend wants to have sex with me..... and i kept holding it off .. but now i have my period and i DONT want to do it... he got pissed and made up a rumor about me and him having sex.... well my parents found out and i was is big trouble.... ok now its like 1 yr l8ter and my periods are gettin bad and they are really uncomfortable.. so i found out that if i went on the pill they would be easiaer and i would have less of them.... but now how am i soppused to get them without my mom fnding out because i kno if i aske he she will automatticly assume that i would be having sex..... i live peretty far away from a store and i would need a ride....... ok how would i bring this up and how do i not make my mom freak out???
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Hey, I don't know if you'll get this, but I re read your question, and I'm very very sorry for misreading that. My big mistake. You didn't have to rate me a 5 though, but thanks a lot, and I apologize for that!
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Well, if you honnestly think your mom will react badly and freak out, then find a Planned Parenthood somewhere near you, figure out a bus route, and go yourself. Its completely confidential and they are not allowed to say anything to your parents unless you want them too.
Id recomend getting a depo shot instead. It costs the same, and all they do is give you one shot and then you go and get another three months later, and so on. Much easier, and you wont be able to forget to take it, like the pill. Do some research, find out what would be best for you.
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You should play more on the pains of your cramps when you get them...show her that they hurt. Then...one day at school go to the nurse and complain about your cramps...call your mom to check you out. Bring it up as if the nurse told you about the fact that Birthcontrol helps with the cramps on younger girls. Or..you could be honest with her.
*WovenLynx*
hope I helped.
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you should be honest with your boyfriend & tell him how you feel. dont have sex if you arent ready. a lot of people that i know had sex before marriage and totally regret it, plus its against their religion. no offense, but 13 is way young. you still have so much time & you probably wont be getting married until your at least 20. you dont wanna have sex & regret it the next day. you'd want to have sex on your honeymoon, w/ your husband, maybe fiance, but it should really be after marriage. you probably wont marry him anyway. it was wrong for him to make up the whole sex thing. what if he breaks up with you after? what if he tells everyone? it seems like he would do that & thats totally wrong. if you need pills, you need an adult to come with you, so like..a parent has to. juss explain to your mom that you want to be extra safe.
good luck!♥
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