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masturbation questions


Question Posted Monday September 26 2005, 2:54 pm

well im 16 and im a gurl and im still a virgin in every way but what i want to know is ,is ok to masterbate and when you have sex for the first time does it hurt also when you masterbate does it feel different when you acually have sex or does the pleasure feel the same please help iam i disuging or normal


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alisonmarie answered Monday October 3 2005, 11:16 am:
It IS okay to masturbate. It's normal and healthy.

Sex for the first time may hurt, may feel uncomfortable, or may feel fine. It's up to your individual body and the circumstances you are having sex in.

Orgasms are not always the same. They may be big or small, but there's no set way to guarantee that masturbation orgasms will always feel exactly the same - or that sex orgasms will, either. Orgasms depend on your level of arousal and a varity of factors....but however they feel, it's generally acknowledged they're a good feeling!

You aren't disgusting at all. Many people have questions like these and are probably relieved that you've asked - so they don't have to! You're perfectly healthy and have nothing to worry about. Curiousity is part of being human.

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moggiebear answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 7:25 am:
no it isnt a bad thing you are curriouse about your body masserbating dosnt feel the same and all ppl are different so i guess your just going to make your mind up of what you want to do

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soutatov answered Monday September 26 2005, 10:27 pm:
Well, if you finger yourself every day for a month before having sex, it shouldn't bleed as much. Masturbating girls are more natural than non-masturbating girls.

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lil_hershey5 answered Monday September 26 2005, 10:13 pm:
ok it is normal to masturbate. Alot of people do it.Some time it hurt if oyu have a small hole or he has a very large dick.yes it does fel differnt cause the feelin is from someone else.Your normal!

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QueenCece answered Monday September 26 2005, 9:29 pm:
Yes it's perfectly fine to masterbate it's a very good feeling if you pleasure yourself right. I do it and i feel it's a good feeling to me. It does sting a bit and some blood comes out (just a little drop, no big). If it's with the right person at the right time or at least with the guy you wanna get down wit it won't feel that bad. Nore it's more of a sting, but a sexual sting. Now if you do it right it can feel really good at the point where you feel you have to go to the bathroom, but not exactly that kind of feeling. Just a sexual one. See what you do is with your finger you can feel the top with the hard ridges at the top rub back and fourth. Look it up on the internet they give you many ways to pleasure yourself. No your touch and someone elses touch is completly different things, trust me i know! HOPE I HELPED!

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SomeKid answered Monday September 26 2005, 9:24 pm:
ur normal i like u

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karenR answered Monday September 26 2005, 5:28 pm:
It is perfectly normal to masturbate. I have some websites for you on both subjects. They will probably help you better than I could, and probably have more info than you really want to know! :)

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sbloemeke answered Monday September 26 2005, 5:07 pm:
Yes, it is fine to masturbate. 60% of all females do before they are 18. It is considered healthy, and is considered to relieve stress. Sex usually will hurt a little from what I hear, but not much. Sex is warmer than masturbation, and it's a different than masturbation in pleasure only slightly.

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WovenLynx answered Monday September 26 2005, 4:54 pm:
*Smiles* Masterbation always feels different when you do it yourself. It still hurts when you have sex, but it will not hurt as badly as it would. The pleasure will most likely feel a lot different, especially if you are into the guy (that always helps). He may not do everything right but the pleasure will also be placed ontop of your nerves, feelings and everything for him.

It's normal to be worried or scared or just curious.

*WovenLynx*
Hope I helped

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XoxBroKeNxoX answered Monday September 26 2005, 4:40 pm:
I dont really know cos i dont but..Umm its okay to do that, alot of people feel that way that they are weird cuz they masterbate. Its a natural thing that sexually mature humans do. Sometimes having sex for the first time hurts, only if hes too big, or something along those lines. I think that the feeling when you have sex is different instead of when you masterbate becuase is sex and it probably feels alot better. well i wouldnt know..yet xD. I hope i answered all your questions!! have fun lol.

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