Member Since: September 25, 2005 Answers: 32 Last Update: October 21, 2005 Visitors: 1970
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ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months, but we've been close friends for about a year. when we first got together, everything was great.. we were so happy together!!! but then over the summer i went on a family vacation for alomost a month (i kept in touch with him as much as i could while i was gone, but i was overseas and it was hard) and when i got back (on his birthday! wouldnt think that was a good present? lol) he acted like he didnt care about me anymore. and it gets worse.. im a senior and he graduated last year, and he works two jobs, so it makes it hard to see him. when hes not working he "forgets" to call me and goes fishing or some other manly thing with his friends. now, i dont have a problem with his friends, but for some reason, his friends dont like me. whenever my boyfriend is with them, he acts like he doesnt like me either. for example, the other night he called me when i got off of work, and then in the middle of my sentence i could hear his friends come over and hes goes "look b!+ (link)
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hey i would say explain to him how you feel and if he dosnt give you the reaction you diserve dump him and if there was any or is any chance of him changing hell ask you back or so on but if he isnt going to want you back his not going to change for you and the fact is that you shouldnt love some pone because you hope they change its not right and its not far on you and them just look at the facts liston to them not your heart itll hert for a bit but its better then herting for longer if you stay in the realatonship
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is there any websites where i can learn how to speak fluent spanish?
and also is there any websites that teach you how to play football?
either answer will do:)
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how to play football? just entrree that queston in to google and youll prob learn alot good luck..............ebby
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ok, i just recently had a baby and i need a way to loose about 45 lbs. becuz i was chubby before i had my baby, but now im bigger than before. HELP! (link)
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just diet and exersise thats the healthy and good way to loss wait but mainly exersise its hard but you have to do it good luck ...........kiss kiss ebby
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Okay I tried to ask a specific columnists a question and it said sorry this columnists is not receiving questions to their inbox right now. etc etc. Why wouldn't they be accepting questions? What are some reasons you could give me? Thanks in advance! (link)
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i dont know why but a good coumnists would always take questons you should think of switching thats always a thought good luck..............kiss kiss ebby
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FOr hoemcoming I want to get my nails done. I bite my nails and they are short n stubby n ugly ( i kno i know, terrible habbit) Which would be better? acrylic tips or full acrylics? any advice on either of them or which one i should get? thanks
p.s. i want to get them french manicured too
how much would all this cost do u know?
THANKS!! (link)
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i live in aus and i bit my nails and i got tips and they look good and natral but i dont knoe the cost over there but it cost me around $60 good luck im shore they will look great eatherf way..............kiss kiss ebby
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how long would u say u should wait to have sex!!! (link)
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well i i have sex and im 15 i wish i had have waited till i found the right guy dont go wastein something youll never hyave agian on just any one ,los it with some one you truly love and make shore he feels the same.
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Alright, I liked this guy for the past three years and now I am over him. I don't want to be around him, I don't even want to see him. He plays around with me too much and I can't stand those games of his. It's games like his that hurt me so much. I don't want to be around him yet I want to show him that my feelings are changed . When I get off my bus in the morning, he's there at the table sitting there with my other friends and then he avoids eye contact. Then I do the same and say hey to everyone and put my bookbag down. He'll give me one glimpse and then I'll head to the restroom or to the cafeteria. There have been plenty of times that I have come back to the table to prove that I am over him and that I can be around him because I used to couldn't. But now , he's hitting on my friends around me, and I told my friend to go for it but she won't b/c she says that he's too hot for her. Why is he doing this in front of me, why won't he let me be, why does he have to act as if he is everything, why does he avoid eye contact, and how comes he's at the damn table every morning? I've moved on but this makes it way too complicated because I like to sit in the cafeteria in the morning but he's there and he's hitting on my friends in front of me and I don't want to be there. Oh what should I do. Please, please , please, please help me. Oh and I asked a guy and he said it's probably another game to see if I'll come back as I did all those other times before. Is this true? (link)
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i would say you friend is right he is just trying to see your reacton to his games he thinks he has it over you and he is seeing hoe far he can push you i say just do wat you do every day but just be yourself act like he is juust another boy and dont give him the satiafaton of trying to get a reacton if he dosnt get one then hell probly just drop it when he gets the point hes got nuffin
good luck.............kiss kiss ebby
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I put on my application that I was a stay at home mom, is that a good idea to put that on the application or not. (link)
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well you should have rote that you were a stay at home mum not is a stay at home mum so that way the empleier will think you are out looking and you are devoted on geting a job and also it may not be relivent to the employer to know wether you are or not so its realy your choice
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ok im 14 and i was curious to see what it was like to smoke a ciggaret. And so i tried one and my parents found out, now they dont trust me to be home alonr cause they think i will try it again and i told them that i didnt like it and it wont happen again. plus alot of my friends do it so i wanted to see what was so cool about it. What should I do??? i rate high... (link)
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well just explain to your perants what happened and you will just have to give your perants time to regain there trust of you it may not be that there so much not trustworthy of you it could just be there shocked
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ebby
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hello,
Before I say my question I would like to say thank you for people who are reading this now and I need advice FAST!!!!
okay hear is the story
I REALLY like this guy A LOT and i talk to him about everyday even though we go to different schools. ( he is one year older) and I was talking to him yesterday and he said ( on the internet) that he was going to ask this girl ------- at his school to be his gf and they made out a bout a day before.. But I almost like broke down when those words popped up!!! But he leads me on ALL the time and says " ur soo hott" and " i cant wait to i see u " and stuff but, I do not want to be competing against a grl for him because what if I am ending up hearting him if he likes ------ a lot?? So.. I do not know what to do?? Today is the day I find out if the girl says yes or if he didnt ask her.. soo please give me advice befor I say something stupid!!!
thanks xoxo (link)
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well for starters you have to look at it from all angles he may just be telling you this to hert you or what notm but talk to him about it tell him how you feel and how you felt because what if your ment to be with him not her and if he realy likes her he will just explain it to you and help make you understand what has happened and how the lines got mixed but i dout it he probly just wants to get you jeleouse or thinks its a waste of time becasue he thinks he has no chance guys seem to get the rong msg alot so just tell him plain and cleart how you feel about the hole thig good luck i hope i have helped you kiss kiss ebby
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There's this guy that live in WV and I really like him but he already has a GF. I really want to be with him but guys here are asking me out. I want to be with him not the guys here. What should I do? (link)
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talk tot he guy about it maybe he feels the same but you dont want to go breaking up cupples that are happy just simply explain howyou feel and that solutions with him he may help you out alot and atlest itll settle your mind eather way
good luck hope it all works ouy
kiss kiss ebby
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Girls only!!
I have had started to get pubic hair in like 4th grade and it's been getting bad. I don't know what to do because it like sticks out a little in bathing suits. What should I do??
I'll give 5's for good answers (link)
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you should trim or wax dont shave becase its bad for the cells in that area hope i have helped good luck kiss kiss ebby
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ok i'm 14..turning 15. Im a freshman. homecoming is next next friday and i dont have a date. i dont understand why a guy wont ask me. i am NOT ugly. i am actually really pretty. i used to model. i am NOT mean. i am a really nice person. i like this guy but i dont get why he wont ask me. any ideas? i dont think he likes anybody else. should i just ask him? is that weird? i really dont want to do that cause i think is akward. (link)
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the reson they mey not have asked you is coz you are to good for them and they dont think they have a chance so they dont try it may not be you it just could be a simple missunderstanding ask him what he is doing and sugest you should go together not ask just suggest good luck kiss kiss ebby
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guys i need your advice--what are some like flirting thing(signs) that really turn a guy on and let him know that you like him with out actully telling him just sending the signal---i rate high~ (link)
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im a girl and i kinda have an idear that normaly works i like to get a guy that i ahve to chase cos i hate easy guys so i do alot of it just flirt and just so you know guys normaly just sense these things this guy probly already knows you like him and you just dont know act like you want to get to know him as well that helps alot
kiss kiss ebby
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So i'm not the type of girl who has gone out with a lot of guys in high school....actually i have went out with zippo boys....but recently one guy has been acting strangly towards me. He and his friends keeps telling me his phone number and acts somewhat flirty around me, but the REAL thing im confused about is weather or not it's some joke with his friends to see what i do.....should i call him or just forget it? (link)
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you should call him and act distant like you dont realy care you just called coz you were board then see where things go from there hop it all works out weel kiss kiss ebby
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okay this might sound dumb to some of you, but i have a friend named well lets say kristen well shes the type that if you like the guy she likes shes alright with it intil you start to go out with this guy then she like hates you and thinks your trying to ruin her life so shes pretty emo, well the other day she told me that this guy that is really hott that ive been watching named josh that he liked me, well she thinks i like this other guy but actually i like josh, i dont know if i should start talking to him and go out with him since we like each other or should i back off since kristen likes him?
please help. it might be dumb but plz
no mean answers
btw: 15.f
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you should talk to your friend first because the boy is worth a friend ship and then see what your friend thinks becuase you dont want to lose 2 friendships in the mean time because you feel bad(your friend and the boy)good luck hope it all works out for the best you seem like a responsable girl and a good friend keep the good work up
kiss kiss ebby
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My boyfriend recently broke up with me & now we're friends. We're not the kind of friends that don't talk, but we actually hang out & stuff. He's not telling ANYONE (even me) the reason why he broke it off with me. I want to start dating him again & get things back to normal but I'm not sure how. Any advice?
By the way, I know that part of the reason he broke up with me has to do with his parents but they said they liked me so I'm not sure why. (link)
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he oviously has a reason why he broke it of with you it just must be hard for him to tell you or any one else because he may think its silly or hes worryed of what ppl think males tend to try hide there feeelings alot because its a sign of being the dominate one and the only way you are going to get him back is to have an open convo with him tell him how you feel but dont put him in the spot just drop little hints and it will all work out good luck
kiss kiss ebby
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i'm going to be 15 october 3rd, and i've never had a boyfriend, a kiss, anything close to a boyfriend. i have a TON of guy friends, i'd like to think i'm pretty popular, i have gorgeous friends, i think i'm pretty well-liked...but i'm just not that pretty. i'm a 'prep' (in other words, i wear american eagle, aero, etc...i straighten my hair and do my makeup) but i wear like a size 12-14. guys think i'm 'cute' and they like me as a friend. i really want to get a boyfriend before formal which is january 19th. what to do??? (link)
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i ahve had bfs and there fun but there not as good as there made out to be you have to look at it this way do you want to rush in to things with some guy thats just the boyfriend you want to be with for you big night or do you want totshare your first kiss with a guy that realy means somthing to you i would say just wait it out the right guy will come and youll know who he is when he comes along good luck
kiss kiss ebby
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sorry this is long, last night i dumped my bf, john, after 9 months of going out and i said that i didnt want to go out with anyone for a while, later that night i was with my friends and they called the hottest guy in school and he said he wanted to go out with me so now im going out with a hottie but i love john so much i dont know what to do i want to go out with john but im already going out with the hottest guy in school, i think im having a problem with letting go
please tell me what i should do i rate 5s for any answer (link)
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well you have to choose whitch you would like to give yourself do you want the hottie you dont realy like or do you want the x bf you like ;lots its a matter of you and weather you want your head or your heart to be happy no one can realy help you on that you just have to look at the ups and the downs of both and itll work out
good luck
kiss kiss ebby
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well im 16 and im a gurl and im still a virgin in every way but what i want to know is ,is ok to masterbate and when you have sex for the first time does it hurt also when you masterbate does it feel different when you acually have sex or does the pleasure feel the same please help iam i disuging or normal
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no it isnt a bad thing you are curriouse about your body masserbating dosnt feel the same and all ppl are different so i guess your just going to make your mind up of what you want to do
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