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ok im 14 and i was curious to see what it was like to smoke a ciggaret. And so i tried one and my parents found out, now they dont trust me to be home alonr cause they think i will try it again and i told them that i didnt like it and it wont happen again. plus alot of my friends do it so i wanted to see what was so cool about it. What should I do??? i rate high...
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there is nothing you really can do...you made a mistake and now you have to suffer from your actions, you have to ask yourself what would i do in their position. they are only trying to protect you because they dont want to see you hurt. if they didnt care they wouldnt have done anything about it, they love you and they wont let you hurt yourself.
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Okay, i know exactly where you are coming from. My mom alwais tells me that she cannot trust me and dosent let me stya home alone alot either. She has caught me smoking four times ((the difference is that i do it and you just tried it, dont do it again, it sux)) well any ways... you ahve to elt them know they cna trust you! if you ever make a mistake like fail a test or dont do a progect or try a knew drug or drink, tell them rite away! make them feel like you tell them everything and that you are being mature and brave enough to let them know what is going on in your life. The third time i was caught, it was because i told her. We got i ahuge fight just b4 and i had to tell her. She gaind alot of trust in me just from that. I do alot of bad things that she dosent know about and when she catches me then i wish that i had told her in the first place. i get in trouble all the time and i never hear the end of how she dosent trust me any more and how im such a bad kid. She says if i told her all the stuff i did and didnt hold it in or lie that i would be in a lot less trouble and she'd be able to trust me, so just tell them everything up front good and bad. hope i could help, drop one in my box if i can hepl yah with any thing else! bbye x3 hannah
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well just explain to your perants what happened and you will just have to give your perants time to regain there trust of you it may not be that there so much not trustworthy of you it could just be there shocked
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It sounds to me as if you were pretty honest about your reasons. It may take a few days but I think they will soon realise you meant what you said.
Its kind of difficult being a parent these days. There is so much out there for kids to get in trouble with. They just want to make sure you get the message. Don't be to hard on them. :)
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There isn't really anything you can do now but wait and try to earn your parents' trust back by being on good behavior. It sucks that you got caught and are now in trouble, but it happens. At least you know now that it's not worth it to do it again... Just make sure you do well in school and maybe when report cards come out you can use good grades as a bargianing tool. But honestly, just because your friends do it, isn't a reason to. If they jumped in front of a moving semi, would you do it?
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dont smoke. you tried it. jsut dont. unless you dont enjoy breathing. then go ahead, smoke.
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it might take a while for you to gain their trust again..but heres an answer that might help:
mom, dad, I know you dont trust me about smoking. I was just curious what it was like...I made a mistake. I learned from the mistake. I will never smoke again. I understand that it might take a while to gain that trust back, but i am truly sorry and I will do anything to gain it back.
o and dont yell when u say it lol
hope i helped! =)
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