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i dont exist anymore
ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months, but we've been close friends for about a year. when we first got together, everything was great.. we were so happy together!!! but then over the summer i went on a family vacation for alomost a month (i kept in touch with him as much as i could while i was gone, but i was overseas and it was hard) and when i got back (on his birthday! wouldnt think that was a good present? lol) he acted like he didnt care about me anymore. and it gets worse.. im a senior and he graduated last year, and he works two jobs, so it makes it hard to see him. when hes not working he "forgets" to call me and goes fishing or some other manly thing with his friends. now, i dont have a problem with his friends, but for some reason, his friends dont like me. whenever my boyfriend is with them, he acts like he doesnt like me either. for example, the other night he called me when i got off of work, and then in the middle of my sentence i could hear his friends come over and hes goes "look b!+<# i dont have time for this" and hung up on me...
i want to break up with him, but theres always that little piece of me that thinks he'll change and that one day he'll ditch his friends for me because he loves me enough. i just dont know what to do anymore. i love him, but yet i hate him with a passion. please help me decide what i need to do!!!
THANK YOU!!!
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Break up with him! He sounds like jerk that cares way to much what his friends think. When you break up with him don't talk to him for a while because if you do it too soon you'll think he's changed- and maybe one day he will but you shouldn't have to sit around and wait for him to realize what he's losing.
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You really need to dump him because if he really loved you he wouldnt care what his friends think. Im really sorry to tell you this but he is a jerk and i understant that you care about him but he will never change no matter what.
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I think that you should dump him. He is treating you very badly. No person should be treated like that. I know you love him but i bet there is a bigger part of you that hates him. You will find someone else that treats you the way you want to be treated and this guy is not the one. He is never going to change. If you has been constantly like this for a awile chances are he will going to stay that way at least until he gets rid of his friends. Friends have a way of influencing you to not be yourself.
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Explain to him how you're feeling. If he says he's going to change, or try harder, give him a couple days. If he doesn't react to that, or says he's going to change then doesn't, you need to end things. You deserve someone who will treat you right nomatter who they're around. (= Hope it works out!
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hey i would say explain to him how you feel and if he dosnt give you the reaction you diserve dump him and if there was any or is any chance of him changing hell ask you back or so on but if he isnt going to want you back his not going to change for you and the fact is that you shouldnt love some pone because you hope they change its not right and its not far on you and them just look at the facts liston to them not your heart itll hert for a bit but its better then herting for longer if you stay in the realatonship
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Aww Im sorry. This is the hard truth: When a guy calls you a B---- then it is over. His friends are influencing him a lot. What would your parents think if they knew you wanted to be with someone that called you that? or ditches you, or ignores you, or doesnt make time to spend with you? Guys dont like breaking up with girls...so they act like cruddy boyfriends. Let him go. and find someone that will throw you a party on his B-day just b/c you got back, or someone who will tell his friends to back off if they are saying stuff about you, or will take a sick day to spend extra time with you. Your boyfriend kind of stinks.
Hope it Helps abd Good Luck!
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