ok well me and my gf just broke up and well i really really liked her. well she dumped me because she said that all she saw herself getting out of this relationship was a friendship. and that wasent an excuse because the last couple days she has actually been trying to be a good friend. so im really sad and all being my pathetic self. but then the next day she was telling her best friend that she was having second thoughts bout doing it and that she dosent know if she made the right decision(i got the forwarded message from aim)
ok well my question is
is there anything i can do to influence her to come back to me
i really really like her and i dont want to loose her as a gf
my best friend is going through this. she broke up with her bf and she felt really bad for him because hes like in love with her and she told him it was just a break and then told him that they were just going to wait till drama settled and then get back together so he thinks that theyre still going out even though she really really doesnt like him and likes someone else.
and its cute but sad because finally last week she was like saying something about how they broke up at the lunch table and hes like "we broke up?"
mucho embarrassing.
so pretty much hes WAY annoying now to everyone because no one likes him anyway (not that no one likes you) but now hes always fawning over her and telling people to tell her stuff that he still loves her.
also he texts her mom about her personal life.
OK SO THE POINT IS
that you should move on. it sounds like you are capable of really really liking someone genuinely and i know there are a lot of girls looking for someone like you.
best of luck! sorry i talk a lot. :D
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ok i used to go to school with this guy in like grade 5 and im now in grade 12. I never spoke to him but i found his email and added him and we've been talking casually. The thing is i always remember liking him and i found we have a lot in common now that we've grown. I dunno what to do though...i know we have to meet in person and we live in the same town, but i dont know im kinda afraid lol, i dont know what to say and i would love for this to grow into more, help me and my shyness! Hes invited me to go visit him in the mall where he works and i went and i saw him but i was stupid and i didnt go in lol, i really dont know what to do or say cause im SO SHY! Help, thanks:D
awwwww thats adorable! well its cool that you know that he doesnt think youre weird or annoying or anything because then he wouldnt want you to come see him.
take a risk. just do it and jump in head first. you might hit your head a bit but guess what? people float back up and that guy can be your lifegaurd. long analogy for ya lol
listen to a pump it up song like do somethin by britney spears or i got nerve by miley cyrus (hannah montana lol) and just go see him. he'll probably will be just as excited to see you and nervous too.
also maybe surprise him. guys like surprises.
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which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
thanks for reading
ehh its weird but i LOVE when a guy has strong back muscles and shoulders when he turns around and you can tell hes just got that strength. also arms and pecs. abs are good too. pretty much just muscles everywhere haha.
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Female; 14.
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for one month, we've done everything that leads up to a kiss, but we haven't kissed yet. If were hanging out with people they`ll like tell him to kiss me. Its totally embarressing, and he`ll kiss me on the cheek or the head which is super weird.
So, I tried to kiss him on his lips, so he'd get the picture. But he didn't like lean into the kiss back, he just kept his lips the same.
What should I do?
haha thats definately a bit strange there. that happened with me and my now ex boyfriend. he was so nervous because he'd never kissed anyone before. finally i just asked him why he didnt want to kiss me and he told me he didnt want to mess anything up and then we kissed. of course after thats all he wanted to do whenever we hung out so be careful the way you say things because then he might think you want to kiss all the time. hope it helps!
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ok, 1st this is going to be very long and for that i am very sorry! but here goes nothing:
Ok my friend (who is a guy, and i am a girl)Always follows me. Right after lunch we have 4th and 5th together.
So in my 4th hour we are doing a lab amd he ask me if i wanted to be his "lab buddy." I said i was sorry and that i already had one. Then we had to dign up for a lab table, me and partern signed upfor table 6, then my "stalker" went from table 4, to table 6. When i say i am so sick of school, he says "don't drop out." Im not dumb, and im not going to. He has to know what is going on inmy life or he gets so mad at me.
In 5th hour me and my friend Shelby and me are always talking together, and he has to but in. He is always trying to get my attention. If im talking to someone else, he'll say my name and i'll tell him one min, but if i take to long then he pokes me. It is so annoying. My friends say he has a crush one me. And i am starting to think that it is more then that. For my end of the year solo I sang unfaithful, and he told me that he would never do that to me, as if we were going out. And we are not. I do not want to be mean to him but what do I do? Any help I would really be greatful.
~*Keri~!
hmm..
well its funny you say that becuase i have one too!
lol yah like i had to get the school involved and stuff. he asked me out like, 6 times or something and was being rude to my friends and texting me alllll the time and had my number memorized and met me at all of my classes even though i hardly knew him.
and recently he said he was sorry so i thought we were cool but then he goes and puts me on his top 8 on myspace and told my friend he loves me! and then he comments a pic and said something very offensive and i got mad at him and he didnt know why (WTF??) and so he was trying to apoligize today and our classes are next door and he was texting his friends in my class trying to talk to me like "tell her i said hi" "tell her have a great summer" "tell her i want to talk to her after class" "ask her why she isnt talking to me".
ecch.
yah just go up to him IN PERSON and tell him "Look, Im sorry if you have feelings for me, but I don't think of you like that." and if he keeps doing it then have your friend be rude haha such as "No one wants you here. Where are you supposed to be now? How bout you to back there and stop annoying us. We don't like you and never will. ok?" haha my friends done it for her sister before.
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my friend has been leaving me out a little lately. liek usually if i go somewhere, i invite her. well this weekend she is going to this girls house (her friend) i don't really know this girl and i dont' mind her but.. i just feel left out. i can't tell her i feel that way though cause its complicated. but what can i do to get over this feeling or something?
that sucks.
maybe she doesnt realize shes doing it. i was doing that to my best friend ever once. she confronted me, a little to agressively, but it worked and now we're closer. i try to hang out with them equally and get them to combine. it doesnt work sometimes, but im pretty sure we're all good now. try it. it might work :D.
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Ok so on friday, I am going on my schools 8th grade trip to Six Flags Great Adventure. Im going to be spending my time with a boy that asked me out during november, but then we lost contact with eachother for a while until a few days ago when i found his #. I have a feeling he is going to kiss me, and I have never kissed anybody before. What do I do? How do I act? Please help!!!
13/f
kissing is fun :D
remember that. go along with it.
if he tries to french you, depending on if you want it or not, just go with it and go slow. my first french the guy was going so fast i thought he was going to bite my tongue off or something. haha
good luck! (and how cute ;))
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On saturday, this boy Chris asked me out. I liked him a lot, so of course I said yes. We only got to talk online, but he said he wanted to hug me after school, kiss me, and he invited me to his hockey game. I fell for him as soon as he said he wanted to hug/kiss me. I felt like this was the right guy for me. And then on tuesday morning, he randomly broke up with my online. I was really sad that he didn't do it in person and I thought it was low of him to tell me he'd NEVER break up with me but then 2 days later, break his promise. I asked him why he broke up with me, and he goes " I dunno I just think we should be friends." I was really sad. I never even got to hug him or even talk to him in person while we were going out! He broke up with me in the next 2 days. And I couldn't believe it because I spent hours talking to him on the phone and flirting with him, I thought we would last forever. For the past 2 days I've been crying and telling him I still like him, but he said "I'm really sorry but I only like you as a friend." As soon as he broke up with me, he asked out my best friend who was his ex-girlfriend. She said no because she knows I still like him and he's mad at her for saying no. I still love him SOO much. And when I fall in love, it takes a long time for me to fall out. Do you think he's a player? And should I waste my time liking him? I need your advice, and what I should do.
I rate high.
And if this helps, when he was going out with his last girlfriend, he told me that he liked this other girl and he was going to break up with his girlfriend to go out with her, while they were going out.
wow thats basically the story of my life. lol
yeah, hes probably not a good guy. YES YES I know hes a sweetie...WHEN HE WAS A SWEETIE, now he used you to try to get closer to your best friend. sweet? not so much. He is definately a player. He needs to get his head out of his penis and head for someone that cares. but he is male so I would not count on that happening so I would try to move on.
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I got a bad test grade and I promised my mom this wouldn't happen again this school year. If I get it signed, then I get extra credit and an A. Because of that, I want and need it sighed. Any good ideas on how to tell her without her being like super mad? 13/f
be like
"hey mom. ok, I have some news, but dont worry, I can get it handled, but I need your help."
just explain the situation to her as best as you can. be sure not to mention that you tried because I dont know about you but I can hear my mom going "Well you obviously didnt try hard enough! Look at these grades!" And then she would lecture. Just try to be as diplomatic as possible :D
*muah*
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one of my labia's is about 5 times the size of the other. not only does it cause me emotional discomfort, but it hurts after sex or after my boyfriend fingers me... and sometimes even during. is this normal, and what should i do?
try to visit the doctor. I saw a Dr. 90210 where he fixed that issue with a simple procedure. But you cant have sex for a month sooo....make sure your bf is fine with it first.
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i'm a guy, and is it wrong to just want sex? honestly now, its what everyone wants
of course not! its a human urge! just dont mmk?
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ok so im going to be 18 in about 9 weeks time and im thinking all my friends well apart from a few have all had sex even ones who are younger than me am i getting to old and whats the right age to have sex?? I would have had sex but my bf says he loves me but i do not trust him its like when we are away from each other he never contacts me or cares about me my question is shall i wait until the right one comes along to lose my virginity? thank you in advance.x
uhm...how bout you ignore your friends telling you to do stuff. its better than getting pregnant or an STD. and also it sounds like he isnt going to care about you and might just be using you for sex. he can say he loves you all he wants but does he show it?
*muah*
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um....ok im 14 and im pregnant! my mom keeps on asking who the dad is but i dont even know....ive had sex 3 times and with 2 different guys...the first one was some guy i met on the internet about 24 AND the other guy i had sex with twice and he is 49 yrs old....i know there is tests to figure it out....but i dont know where to get that...at a hospital i guess....how do i tell my mom who the guy is anyway is what im asking...its either a 24 yr old or a 49 yr old....what should i do!!!!!???? please help... i will rate with anything
ew.
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Ok, so tomorrow I am trying out for my school's cheerleading squad. I know the cheer and the dance really good, but I always get nervouse while performing in a group less than 5 people. We audition 2 at a time. Plus, my friend who was supposed to audition with me has decided not to try out at all. Now, what can i do to make it less intimidating? And dont say ignore them because I have to look straight at the judges and smile! please answer quickly!!! BeLLa DaNieLLa
Haha, you are trying out this late in the year? I tried out in May! Haha. Well I made it, and I can tell you right now is just to be nice and confident. I messed up twice and I said really sweet "Oh gosh Im sorry, would you mind if I tried again?" And when you come in, you just have to own it. Beleive in what you can do and you can make it.
:)
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There is this Halloween dance at my school and my friend is not sure what to be! Could you help me out? Pictures would be really nice too! So would detail! Thanks for your help! I will rate high on good answers!
I was going to be a gypsy and get a cute vintage top and a loose swirly skirt and just go shoeless. However I am grounded. Lol.
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ok this is my dilemma.there is this guy called rick in both my english and history clases.he looks at me a lot.and when i say something in class.he at times smiles at me like his proud of me or something.its wierd cause now am thinking about him A LOT.him and me as a couple and am not really sure if i even like him.DO I LIKE HIM OR DO I JUST LIKE THE ATTENTION HIS GIVING ME OR BOTH./AND DOES HE LIKE ME ANYWAY
i am so confused.help me out here guys.
i rate 5
OMG ME TOO!!! only his name is steven.. yeah this guy has like, abercrombie model good looks and all of a sudden i cant wait to see him. But I think he is just being nice. However, you never know with these "boys". haha. I think you might like him, if you guys have ever talked before. And if not (never talked I mean) then why not give it a shot?
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okay this is kind of embarassing, and it may seem like i`m worrying over nothing .. but i need help in figuring this out.
All my life i`ve been scared of being alone with guys for some reason.. and ive always had this HUGE fear of getting raped by guys and stuff...like i get petrified if i have to be alone in a car with a man i don't know.. and im also terrified of getting locked into rooms which is also kind of weird..
another thing, when i was ELEVEN years old, i had a girl doctor, and all she did was stick her hands up my shirt for a physical, and i mean it was no big deal, but i started BALLING MY EYES OUT, saying "you didnt ask me first!" and stuff, and i mean i could understand myself just getting a little pissed, but i was crying and everything, and i felt so violated and used, and i dont know why because it wasnt a big deal at all!
I`ve always questioned myself like if i was raped or touched in my past somehow.. but it never added up ,i mean my mom wouldnt ever do that, and my dad is AWESOME and he`s really protective so it wasnt him, and i have no siblings...so i just brushed it off...its so weird though like i have this weird obsessive feeling inside me that something happened to me as a kid, which is why i react to things the way i do now..
Well, recently my dad said to me "Did anything weird to you happend when you were at Montessory Pre-school ?" and i said "I dont remember, why?" and he said "Because a long time ago on the news when you were 4 we had to take you out of that school, they closed it because something weird was going on there..like someone was doing sexual things to the kids" and when he said that i just thought to myself "holy shit, i wonder if thats why im like this.. i wonder if that happened to me" but i just asked him "well what else happened" and he said "they dont really know, they just closed and the woman went out of town.. something weird was going on in there though, and they all of a sudden closed"
So.. I was just thinking to myself.. is there a possiblity that maybe i was one of the kids who got touched in weird ways? and even though i dont remember it..could it still be affecting my life now? like if something like that happens to you as a child.. can you conciously feel it sort-of even if you dont remember it?
please help me, i feel so confused.
Woah that is really weird! (FYI I am like that only with short guys. Like this one short guyw as talking to me and I just felt like I HAD to get out of there, so I think it is normal...). In Seventeen Magazine, a Real Life story from one once was kind of like this. Like their parents got a divorce. And then like, her sister came up to her one day and was like "Hey I think Dad may have raped me a long time ago and I just remember it now" And then the girl started having nightmares and memories of sitting on her dads lap and him getting an erection and then having him finger her and stuff. You might want to tell your family.
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what can i do to make my room warmer because when the heat is on its still cold.. any ways? and no i cant put the heat on any longer
hmm, that is difficult. When you close your door, try to put a blanket under it so it can keep the heat that is in there from escaping. Also trying wearing sweaters. Other than that I am sorry I dont really know what to do.
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How can I make holes in my jeans? With straight lines and all? Scissors dont seem to work..
I use a razor, just get a hard surface and put it in your jeans (a dvd box usually works for me) and scrape the razor on whatever area you want done!
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so i want to gain some weight..but what should i be eating/drinking to stay healthly? i'm 5'0, 14, and I weigh 85. (high metabolism, yo)
holy frikin cow you are lucky! lol. Hmm, I dont know WHY you would want to gain weight...but if you did there is always staying up late, eating junk food, and the all important SONIC.
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