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me and gf broke up is there a chance?
ok well me and my gf just broke up and well i really really liked her. well she dumped me because she said that all she saw herself getting out of this relationship was a friendship. and that wasent an excuse because the last couple days she has actually been trying to be a good friend. so im really sad and all being my pathetic self. but then the next day she was telling her best friend that she was having second thoughts bout doing it and that she dosent know if she made the right decision(i got the forwarded message from aim)
ok well my question is
is there anything i can do to influence her to come back to me
i really really like her and i dont want to loose her as a gf
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my best friend is going through this. she broke up with her bf and she felt really bad for him because hes like in love with her and she told him it was just a break and then told him that they were just going to wait till drama settled and then get back together so he thinks that theyre still going out even though she really really doesnt like him and likes someone else.
and its cute but sad because finally last week she was like saying something about how they broke up at the lunch table and hes like "we broke up?"
mucho embarrassing.
so pretty much hes WAY annoying now to everyone because no one likes him anyway (not that no one likes you) but now hes always fawning over her and telling people to tell her stuff that he still loves her.
also he texts her mom about her personal life.
OK SO THE POINT IS
that you should move on. it sounds like you are capable of really really liking someone genuinely and i know there are a lot of girls looking for someone like you.
best of luck! sorry i talk a lot. :D
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Just tell her that you still have strong feelings for her and that you miss her.
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Convince her that boyfriend and girlfriend are supposed to be best friends. Friendship is a very important part of a relationship. If you can't be good friends with each other your relationship isn't going anywhere. What does she want for you to be enemies? Acquaintances? Just try reasoning with her. It sounds like she is having some trouble with committment. Good luck.
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I think there's still a chance.
If she's having second thoughts, obviously she's somewhat regretting it, which means there's still some hope of her becoming your girlfriend again.
If she says all she felt out of the relationship as friendship, show her you can be a boyfriend, and not just a friend. Just be sweet to her ; hold the door for her, kiss her, hold hands with her, just show her you really care for her, and you're honestly trying to be the best boyfriend you can be.
If she still gets friend vibes from you, just know it's her loss.
But just keep showing interest in her and show her how much she means to you! And don't pressure her into answering anything too soon. Let her gave some time to think about it and think of her feelings and everything.
I hope I helped.
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