I HATE picking out shoes because I can't wear anything with heels, not even small ones so people call me old lady because I wear flats. There's no shoes store around my area that has my size because all the good ones are either small or too..girly with the high heels and I can't walk in them.
I don't know how to pick shoes that matches with a dress or outfit.
go with nuetral colors to match- black, browns, ect.
as for the heels, i hate them too, try wearing casual to dressy flip flops. You can wear rainbows with almost anything, and they make pretty fancy and pretty flip flops for a fairly inexpensive price.
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19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
Help?
Think about what you're doing to Blake, now immagine it was the other way around. You finally found the perfect guy for you, he's hot, sweet and just perfect for you. Now imagine that he goes to a party, screwz up and has sex with another girl, only its not just a screw up b/c it keeps happening. When you look at it from Blake's position, who must care a hell of lot about you to keep taking you back, what you're doing is not exceptable and just isn't right. All girls have a craving now in then for bad boyz, but the truth is they usually don't want to be "stuck" with one girl, they like to play, and you'll only get hurt. You just need to quit talking or seeing Nate and focus on building a stronger relationship with Blake, and appologize and admit what you've done. And don't feel bad about Nate's history, having sex with him won't change it.
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ok, well i need to loose weight, and fast. im pretty much average weight for my age, but i seem heavier than everone else. i dont play any winter or spring sports, but i play tennis in the summer. and i have friends who play no sports, eat like pigs, do absolutly no exercises at all, and have perfectt bodies. every day i run for about 30 minutes and do about 200-250 crunches. ive been doing this for two or three weeks, i know im not going to see any results yet, but, am i doing enough to see any differnce? my weight is always on my mind, not that im all fat or anything, its just not good enough for what i want. ive been eating one meal a day with maybe one or two snacks in between, is there any more i can do? should i be seeing a differnce anytime soon?
eating one meal a day lowers your metabolism drastically, so you often end up gaining wieght like I did. I really don't have that much of an appetite anyways, and I thought I vould stand to lose a little wieght so I started skipping breakfast and lunch and just eating dinner (so my mom wouldnt freak out) and I actually gained a few pounds. A regular eating schedual of 3 meals a day, or six small meal/ snacks a day boosts your matabolism!
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i have this idea to like buy a carnation for random kids at school that normally dont get appreciated. i dont want to tell my friends and such, so they dont tell others, so that they'll expect it.. then it wont be the same. like i'll buy 1 or 2 roses for like the kids, and the people will give it to them. i read it in a book called "chicken soup for the teenage soul" or whatever, that someone did that and it like changed their life. so do you think this is a good idea? :]
I think its a really sweet idea, and im sure who ever recieves them will be very, very happy. I know I would have been, this is the first valentines day that I actually have a boyfriend, all the other years I've been kinda been depressed on Vday.
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okay well i weigh like 120 and im 5ft and im 13 yrs old.
my thighs are like flabby on the inside part, any ways to get rid of that.
&will doing cardio help too, like with my arms and stomach also?
I run track and cross country and running alone wont get rid of that flabby part on the inside of your legs, running reduces your overall bodyfat byt if you want that area to be firm and tone you need to target specific exersises to target that specific area. Lunges are usually the best way to tone your inner thighs. Check this site:
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.hydroxycut.com/WOMEN/SSI/SIDE_NAVIGATION/WORKOUT/IMAGES/ART_legs_SideNav.gif&imgrefurl=http://www.hydroxycut.com/WOMEN/WORKOUT/EXERCISES/LEGS/legs_lateral_leg_lifts.shtml&h=35&w=127&sz=1&hl=en&start=1&tbnid=Uk6R2wkxNaX8IM:&tbnh=25&tbnw=90&prev=/images%3Fq%3DLunges%2Btone%2Binner%2Bthighs%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26lr%3D%26rls%3DGGLD,GGLD:2005-18,GGLD:en%26sa%3DN
And don't be too self conscience about it innerthighs are a problem area for all women.
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ok this might sound pathetic but... so im a f/13 and im 5'2 and fairly skinny. I have medium lenght straight red-hair, and i guess you could say that im kinda popular. Im friends with a lot of popular peeps, but im not snobby or anything.. I have a lot of friends, and some are boys too. its not like i have trouble talking to guys, i mean i do, but NO one has every asked me out ever! I flirt sometimes, and ive given a hole lot of hints to the guys that i really like, sometimes my friends would practically be asking them out for me!! But no one has ever asked me out.. any sugestions?? Also to top that off, my mom doesn't think that 13 is an ok age to have a boyfriend, so i would like have to keep it a secret from her! should i say yes if a guy ever askes me out, and not tell her or what??
Anything would help!
Many many tthx in advance~
Just wait untill your in highschool, you'll get asked out a hole lot more. I like almost never got asked out when I was 13 (at least not by a guy my own age) but my freshman yr, sophomores, juniors, and even seniors(stay away form them they just want sex) asked me out. It might be flattering but it really gets annoying when you already have a bf. Freshman guys are more likely to grow up a little and ask you out too but I'd aim for grade ten when u are a freshman.
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What is the point of dropping a huge ball in New York worth thousands or millions of dollars? What does it symbolize? Whats the history of it? Thanx
-anohome-
Check this site:
http://www.timessquarenyc.org/nye/nye.html
Yeah it seems pretty rediculous when you think about it, but its a tradition and as Americans we enjoy wating billions of dollars in a few minutes for the fun of it; but hey why worry about that now, its new years eve, chill out and have fun, Happy New Year!
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help im 10 and my bf wants to have sex with me!
i dont want to but he does he says we're ready
weve been going out for a year and he says its times
hes 11
HELP
WAY TOO YOUNG! Tell him you won't do it and if he keeps pressuring you, then you need to break up with him.
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well this question isn't really about dad problems more about jail problems. Here's where the story starts, my dad is in jail for a DUI, he didn't go on house arrest well I tried to go see him yesterday at the jail and there are all these regulations and stuff. Like you have to get there an hour early. Anyway we get there and wait in the line for like an hour and get up to the desk and they said that it was all filled up for the rest of the night. It was my grams b-day so she wanted to see him. anyway what should I do if I get put in that position again? Thanks in advance.
Call ahead and make sure you know about the regulations and rules, and get there an hour early so it doesn't happen again. I'm sorry he's in jail, especially durring the holiday. I hope you and your family still have a wonderful Holiday season in spite of all this, it shouldn't be long-term, at least and you'll get to visit him. Merry Xmas!
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I just got one, this is my first pet, and I have the food. The container says feed once, and the food says feed twice, so I dont know what to do. Besides that, how do i care for this kind of fish?
http://freshaquarium.about.com/cs/anabantids2/p/betta.htm
Check this site; By the way another name for Bettas is Siamese Fighting Fish to clear up any confusion. Make sure you don't get another Male Betta unless its in a separate bowl or they will kill eachother and keep the bowl away from mirrors, I put mine on my dresser infront of a mirror and fed him before school, when I came home he was dead because he thought his reflection was another fish and rammed the bowl until he died :^(. Anyways, Bettas are great, and soo beautiful! Merry Xmas/ Happy Holidays!
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christmas always stresses me out...I have two moms(gay and separated) so me and my older sis who's 16 go back and forth. She spends more time with one mom than the other, but she loves both familys. I stay equal time at both.
anyways, she's really picky although not materialistic or greedy. at christmas I'm worried that the mom who she doesn't live with as much got her some presents she won't like. It's hard because she doesn't spend as much time with her and also doesn't have as much money. So basically what i'm worried about is that my mom will get her feelings hurt because my sister isn't really enthusiastic when she opens her presents, and she'll think she didn't get as good stuff as our other mom.
should i talk to my sister to make sure she acts really excited or thankful? or talk to my mom? i don't know wht to do, but this always worries me cuz i care a lot about my family and my mom
thanks soo much
If your really worried about it, and it seems like your kinda stressin, then you should just kinda talk to your sister, not so much to make her fake excitement, but just tell your sister that she may really need to SHOW her gratitude with Hugs, Thanks, ect. because she may feel hurt or less important otherwise. Hope I helped and Merry Christmas!
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so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl
It could still work out, my boyfriend went from failing every class to honor roll; if he really likes you, he may eventually change. I haven't gotten my boyfriend away from drugs, but if you pretend you don't care, why should they assume otherwise? Tell him that you don't go for that shit, and that if he's going to do it, don't expect you to.
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I'm 20, female. My psychologist informed me that I have EDNOS (Eating Disorder Not Otherwise Specified). I can see where she's coming from, but at the same time, I think she's wrong.
I know I have eating issues. I stay under 600 calories per day, lately it's been under 500. I think about food a lot. I've lost almost 60 pounds (but I'm still overweight--I was obese to begin with).
But I've only been doing this for five or six months. I AM still eating. So it hasn't been that long, and I haven't restricted that much.
First of all, can a psychologist actually diagnose an eating disorder, or is it unofficial unless it comes from a doctor?
Second, is it unfair to classify me as eating disordered? Does it not take away from those who are more severe, for longer? Did my therapist jump the gun?
I know what I'm doing is unhealthy. I just don't think it's as severe as everyone is making it out to be.
Your psycologist belives it to be an eating disorder because she thinks you are doing it, not because you aren't hungry, but that you are greatly cutting back on your food intake to lose wieght.
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Hi. I got this lil problem i can’t stop thinking about. one nite I was at this party. I hooked up with this girl I went back to her place and I said to her this is my first time with a girl she goes that’s all right. But me or she did not have a condom lol so we did not have sex. so I stayed over her house for the nite her lil sis came in the room and saw us so I snuck out of the house and I heard a lil story around town saying I got chased form her dad but thats all shit.. now its my brothers 21st party in 2weeks and my family is going to be there and if I see her lil sis at the party I no she will say ha ha you got chased form my dad and I do not no what to do......and I do not no what to do if I see that girl I hooked up with
Yeah, that sucks! If you still like her, which it sounds like you do, when you see her, just stay calm, act like nothing happened, Im sure its akward 4 both of you. Just be like Hey and start talking to her. As for the little sis, if she starts saying that shit just act like you aint got no idea what she's talking about and keep your cool and it'll all work out.
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lately the past like 3 times i've gotten my period (i've only had it like 4 or 5 times though) it's been like REALLY heavy, and lasts like a week. it's sooo annoying, especially in school.. and it is always getting on my underwear and ugh it's just bad. what should i do?! how can i make it shorter and lighterrrr. ugh i have it now and it's really bad. in school i always feel like it's going through my pants and everyone can see it :( what should i do?!
Sorry girl, you cant make your period lighter. If you're a virgin, stay one or you'll really get a heavy period, and painful ones too, Ouch! Use better tampons, or thicker pads, what ever you use.
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I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you.
I accept ur appology but don't see why it's such a big deal, I half agreed with you. But you were pretty harsh, especially since there's people on this site who really do give good advice (not all, but some)
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ok so i'm a freshman(girl) and this kid is a senior(boy). we are dating, although my father doesn't know that or i'll be dead. but anyways, my brother is a junior and he's tellin my parents he's a crack pot and a drug dealer, which he's not his friend is, so they don't like him. my mom is more leanent on this situation but my dad is horrible. the kid called the other night and my dad was like DON'T CALL HERE YOUR A SENIOR GET SOMEONE YOUR OWN AGE. and so yeah he hasn't called back. so he doesn't have computer so he told my friend that we needed to talk. so i call him up and we were talking about what to do with my parents and i said blow them off. and my dad walks down and gets on the phone and screams at him and is like I'M GONNA TELL YOUR FATHER AND SEE HOW HE FEELS IF YOU CONTINUE TO TALK TO MY DAUGHTER I ALREADY TOLD YOU ONCE NOT TO TALK TO HER. then he gets off the phone and is screamin at me and is like I DON'T WANT YOU TALKING TO THAT KID HE'S TOO OLD FOR YOU. IF THIS KEEPS UP I'LL EITHER BEAT HIS ASS OR GET HIS PARENTS INVOLVED. so my question is, WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!!!! i don't know because i really like this kid and he really likes me and i don't wanna end this but i don't want anyone getting hurt
Parents get in the way alot when it comes to dating, especially older guys! Your dad doesn't want this guy presuring you into sex, or getting hurt. From what I've seen, any Senior willing to date a Freshman girl only wants one thing, sex. I'm sure that's why your Dad's so uptight. If he keeps getting in the way, which he probably will, your relationship probably won't work out. I dont know how serious your relationship is with this guy but you should probably just move on. sorry, parents suck!
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my ex-girlfriend called me " a whiffy" she said thats not how it is spelled and won't tell me because she loved to just annoy me.
so anyone know a word that sounds like that in another language and it's translation
possible it is
french
german
spanish
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One of ym friends said it means old man.
In English, it means you stink. http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/whiffy
Yeah, you rated me a 3 and messed up my average, but i did look up whiffy, did you mean to rate that other girl a 3 she told you wifey
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I Have Been Working With This Girl Now for 10 Years,Everything I do she copy's from me, from my Nailpolish ,to the same exact kind of car and the same color too....I Cant do anything without her doing the same thing,I feel like i cant be myself
because she is always doing and saying the same things as me.I have said something to her before and it still hasnt stopped.What can i do to stop this annoying behavior?PLEASE HELP ME CAUSE IM GOING CRAZY!!!!!!!
Usually copying would be a form of flattery, but , with the car, especially, that's a little xtream! She needs to get checked out by a physcologist or something cause somethings not right upstairs. I think you should flat out ask her why she does it and that you want her to grow up and be her own person.
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Hello, first I would like to say that I am a 16/m and I started smoking weed every weekend and some weekdays since August. I went off to go hotbox my friends truck tonight and we did, and we had a blast. I was out from about 4-9, and we didn't smoke til about 6. Anyways, when I came home about 30 mins ago I said hello to my mom and then I started eating. My mom was like "What's wrong with your eyes... oh my gosh.. what have you been doing?" And I said "What!? Nothing! What do you think I've been doing? I stayed up really late last night watching a movie and then I woke up early and then I drank an energy drink so I'm really tired!" well then my mom was like "then go look in the bathroom mirror." and Oh my God. My eyes weren't TOO bad, but they were still hella glossy and a bit red, and wow were my pupils dialated. I simply said Mom, I DONT do drugs. I'm really tired... that's all... and she was like "whatever. take out the dishes." What I'm wondering is how do I deal with this? My mom will probably think that I have smoked before and then she will get mad, even though she used to smoke weed when she was my age. Thanks for any input, sorry for the long story :P
You call that long, some the girls on her write novels!
Anyways, yeah your already caught, and especially if your mom did it when she was younger, I dont think she's niave enough to buy any of your excuses. For right now, I'd avoid any conversations about it. Just kinda chill and try to act normal. If you dont make a big deal out of it, maybe she wont. But no more lame excuses, you're caught and lying to her if she does confront you will only make her mad. Come clean, kinda, anyways, if she confronts you about be like yeah, I took a couple tokes just to see what it was like. Make her think you didnt like it that you felt sick so that she doesnt worry about you doing it again.
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