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Question Posted Tuesday December 26 2006, 12:26 am

help im 10 and my bf wants to have sex with me!

i dont want to but he does he says we're ready

weve been going out for a year and he says its times

hes 11

HELP


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leLovely answered Wednesday December 27 2006, 1:46 am:
You shouldn't be on here. And plus, that's just wrong. I know that it's your own decision to decide when you're ready to have sex, but 10 is way too young. I didn't even have my first kiss until I was like, 12. Dump him, or just say no. He probably doesn't even know what the hell he's doing. It's gross because my brothers like 10 and ugh I just can't picture it. haha sorry <3

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karenR answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 1:40 pm:
This user has been banned for this question. You must be 13 to use this site.

Please, if you see one like this again file an abuse report. Several have answered but none of you filed a report on it. :(

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xomichelle891xo answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 1:07 pm:
Youre NOT ready at 10 and 11. First of all, your body is not ready. Have you even started menstruating at 10? Be honest with him and tell him youre not ready. He's only 11 so hes not going to be mature about your decision. If he isnt, thats too much pressure, Id dump him.

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xostarbrightbaby answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 12:12 pm:
woah. since your not ready you tell him no and break up with his stupid ass cause hes probally going to try to use you. does he even know what it is?

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xWACKYJACKIEx answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:32 am:
If you are ten, you shouldnt BE ON THIS WEBSITE HUN.
And thats way to young. Thats discusting, he doesn't probably even know the meaning of it. So no, don't.

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xoMarisox answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:21 am:
I am just going to say 10 and 11 is wayyy young. Most 10 and 11 year olds don't even think/consider having sex. If I found out my 11 year old cousin and her bf had sex I would die. You are clearly not ready and that's what you need to tell him. You can use your age as an excuse even, just say, I think we are too young and if someone found out (PARENTS!) then we would both get in hugeeeee troble.

Just please don't do it because there might be stuff about sex that you guys don't know about.
I hope I helped1

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AMYGWENDOLiNExO answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 10:04 am:
You shouldn`t be on this website.

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adviice_whore answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 9:48 am:
um, i dont even know if i believe this because 10 year olds and 11 year olds should be playing with barbies and playing in the playground, NOT HAVING SEX.

if this is a true story which i doubt, then the obvious answer. don't do it.

if you get pregnant then when your 30 your daughter will be 20 and thats a close age difference. your daughter could technically be your sister. haha

so yeah, you don't want to worry about STDs, pregnancy, and all of that. your very young and you have time to worry about sex with you're wayyy older. for now, just go back to being a kid because thats what you are. enjoy it while it lasts.

and if you really are 10, you need to get of this site now because you have to be 13. alrighty bye

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ductape_n_roses answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 9:24 am:
Um, DUMP HIM.

There is easily a chance of you getting pregnant and that's a bad thing. He's just really horny and if you give him consent to take away your virginity, then...wow that's just horrible. You're only 10 and he's only 11. Unless you guys want to be parents or what not, go ahead. If you do have sex with him, it's going to be spread around in school. He can't keep his mouth shut over such an "achievement"

You guys are still young and it's just weird to be going out with someone for a year and think you're ready to have sex with him. Just dump him. He's not worth getting stressed over.

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daisysmiles answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 9:00 am:
WAY TOO YOUNG! Tell him you won't do it and if he keeps pressuring you, then you need to break up with him.

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