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older guy and my dad=not good
ok so i'm a freshman(girl) and this kid is a senior(boy). we are dating, although my father doesn't know that or i'll be dead. but anyways, my brother is a junior and he's tellin my parents he's a crack pot and a drug dealer, which he's not his friend is, so they don't like him. my mom is more leanent on this situation but my dad is horrible. the kid called the other night and my dad was like DON'T CALL HERE YOUR A SENIOR GET SOMEONE YOUR OWN AGE. and so yeah he hasn't called back. so he doesn't have computer so he told my friend that we needed to talk. so i call him up and we were talking about what to do with my parents and i said blow them off. and my dad walks down and gets on the phone and screams at him and is like I'M GONNA TELL YOUR FATHER AND SEE HOW HE FEELS IF YOU CONTINUE TO TALK TO MY DAUGHTER I ALREADY TOLD YOU ONCE NOT TO TALK TO HER. then he gets off the phone and is screamin at me and is like I DON'T WANT YOU TALKING TO THAT KID HE'S TOO OLD FOR YOU. IF THIS KEEPS UP I'LL EITHER BEAT HIS ASS OR GET HIS PARENTS INVOLVED. so my question is, WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!!!! i don't know because i really like this kid and he really likes me and i don't wanna end this but i don't want anyone getting hurt
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You know that your dad was once his age at a time also and knows all about his game- senior in high school with a girl 4 years younger than him who would be infatuated that she has a boyfriend who is older....any clear thinking person (especially a father) can see that one from a mile away. My advice is to have some respect for your father and be thankful that he at least cares who his daughter associates with. Break it off; save everybody a whole lot of heartache and drama...you don't want to put yourself, your boyfriend or your father in any position that could be bad- especially if it could be avoided.
It's not the end of mankind...there's plenty of other guys in the world who are your own age.
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Does he have a cell? you can send messages from a cell to a PC or from a PC to a cell! use that and tell him that ur dad will kick his ass if he keeps calling. or tell him to go to wait training (Joking) But if he doesnt like the idea then get a BF your own age. Option two Ask how old your dad is. then ask how old your mom is, I bet they are 1-3 years apart, tell your dad that and tell him see, it didnt stop you
hope it helped and good luck
nathan
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Parents get in the way alot when it comes to dating, especially older guys! Your dad doesn't want this guy presuring you into sex, or getting hurt. From what I've seen, any Senior willing to date a Freshman girl only wants one thing, sex. I'm sure that's why your Dad's so uptight. If he keeps getting in the way, which he probably will, your relationship probably won't work out. I dont know how serious your relationship is with this guy but you should probably just move on. sorry, parents suck!
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