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My ex bf
To start im 13 and im a girl.
Ok well I was really good friends with this guy. We will call him C. So he was like my best friend, then I started to like him a little. so after i startedto like him I was determinded I was not going to go out with him cause it would ruin our friendship. But he was always playing with my hair and flirting with me then one day he wrote me a really sweet note about how he had always like me because Im nice and Im easy to talk to and stuff like that. The next day when we were on thanks giving break he asked me out over text message so I said yes.
Then later it was so weird going out with my bestfriend that i dumped him after only a week by writing him a note. It made him mad that I didnt say it to his face even though he asked me out by text msg. Well I moved on and forgot about him, but it has been a month since we broke up and he is still writing things about me on his myspace about how he only went out with me to make someone jealous and how im annoying. He wont talk to me anymore either.
what does this mean? what should i do?
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he is still upset with you for breaking up with him, so he dealing with it on his myspace. write to him telling him that you are sorry for what happen and that he is so much of a good friend that why you wanted it to stay that way. if he doesn't respond to your letter than you move on or even forget about him.
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He is acting this way because he can't face rejection, cant face the fact that a "a girl" broke with a boy and in boy world it should always be the otherway round.he still feels something for you he just can't deal with the fact your friendship had gone as well.But what you need to do is stick your chin high in the air.Forget what he saying and if anyone asks what's going on you tell them!You tell them you broke up with him and he can't handle the break up and whatnot.Don't be bothered by his myspace and stuff.You've moved on.And if you like someone go for it and even write on his myspace to get over it.And text him tell him your sorry annd you want to be friends, because he will read the text I know he will but dont go grovelling if he still dosnt talk to you, he wasnt that friend you had in the first place, forget him.
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well this one is a toughy !!?? ok well first of all hes probably mad bout the brakeup for one you didn't tell him to his face i mean it is okay for an ask out but not a break up that is just the way it works , and he is probably only righting those thing to make you jeleous !! also it is probaly his way of trying to forget sorta like when you joke bout something sade to keep from cryin!! (may want to try that it works) !!!! also it is acward going out withsomebody you have known forever but don't let that one little down ruin yalls friendship expecially if yall have been friends for along time !!! Try and talk to him and make it up to him i am not saying go and ask him out but try and explain to him what happened about hwo it was odd to have known hou for a long time then now all of a sudden yall were closr than normal !!!! HOPEFULLY HE WILL UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!!
Sincerily your friend
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It depends on your feelings about this guy.
Do you still want to be his friend (as in, just a friend)? If you do, tell him you were sorry but you just didn't feel any sparks between you and him. He's just hurt about how you dumped him. Tell him you like him, but just as a best friend, which lasts longer than being a boyfriend. Tell him being a best friend is better than being a boyfriend, because it is.
Do you hate this guy? Then don't be sorry, if you really can't stand it any more. It's not your fault that your heart didn't beat for him in that way. Tell him that you want him to stop and if he hadn't overreacted about the situation, you two could've stayed as friends. Tell him how he should move on, and go out with that "girl he was trying to make jealous." Ask him why he's acting like this if you're so "annoying". You're not much of a loss if you're annoying, right? Obviously he's upset over losing you. He's just trying to get over it. Don't be too harsh. Try to be understanding, but be firm and to the point.
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Pull him aside one day in private and just tell him that its really immature what hes doing. Theres no reason to say anything about you, its normal for people to breakup and its so stupid when guys get all embaressed cause they got dumped. His feelings are probably just hurt so either talk to him or just give it some time. Good luck!
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that's what all boys say. he's probably still hurt that you broke up with him so he makes up excuses and stuff. i think you should just talk to him and be like "what's up with you, you NEVER acted this way towards me and it's been a month and your still sayin stuff about me"
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