Okay , this is the thing.
I have this boyfrind we've been dating for almost a year- we're pretty close. His bestfriend hits on me ! Not just a little flirt but a lot. He always has his hands on me... and gets me in trouble durning class. HE also tickeles me , sometimes and makes me laugh a LOT ! AND WAIT FOR IT.. WAIT FOR IT.. He's dating MY BESTFRIEND ! ITs all a big mess, you see i would never leave my boyfriend for his friend.. its just i dont know how to approah this situation. My boyfriend deffinetly suspects something. How can i settle this without runing my relationship and my bestfriends?? Thanks in advance. xoxo
the_sweeter_heart answered Sunday December 17 2006, 10:52 pm: Tell your best friend. It'll be hard. She might not believe it. A similar thing happened to my friend and my other friend. It was so twisted up, but if she was really your best friend, she'd believe you. It's up to your best friend what to do with her ever so 'loyal' boyfriend. Leave her alone with that problem.
Before you talk to your friend about this, though, show this annoying boyfriend's friend that you really don't like whatever he's doing: flirting or playing or whatever. Whenever he tickles you, tell him to STOP. Show him your annoyed by pushing him away and rolling your eyes. In front of him, act extra affectionate to your boyfriend. You have to show that guy that you're only sticking to one person and you're not going to levae your boyfriend or betray your best friend.
etnies40210 answered Sunday December 17 2006, 10:39 pm: Tell a friend to tell your bestfriend about what happens in class, either she dumps his ass or just controlls him. You have your friend and your boyfriend. and then if your lucky... your boyfirend's friend is not hitting on you anymore!
hope it helped
nathan (good luck!) [ etnies40210's advice column | Ask etnies40210 A Question ]
idgurl572 answered Sunday December 17 2006, 10:38 pm: I think that you, your boyfriend, your bestfriend, and your bestfriends boyfriend all sit down and have a talk. You need to be like this is my boyfriend at thats yours, you are my best friend and thats it. If any questions arise anwser them truthfully.
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