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worried about christmas
christmas always stresses me out...I have two moms(gay and separated) so me and my older sis who's 16 go back and forth. She spends more time with one mom than the other, but she loves both familys. I stay equal time at both.
anyways, she's really picky although not materialistic or greedy. at christmas I'm worried that the mom who she doesn't live with as much got her some presents she won't like. It's hard because she doesn't spend as much time with her and also doesn't have as much money. So basically what i'm worried about is that my mom will get her feelings hurt because my sister isn't really enthusiastic when she opens her presents, and she'll think she didn't get as good stuff as our other mom.
should i talk to my sister to make sure she acts really excited or thankful? or talk to my mom? i don't know wht to do, but this always worries me cuz i care a lot about my family and my mom
thanks soo much
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If your really worried about it, and it seems like your kinda stressin, then you should just kinda talk to your sister, not so much to make her fake excitement, but just tell your sister that she may really need to SHOW her gratitude with Hugs, Thanks, ect. because she may feel hurt or less important otherwise. Hope I helped and Merry Christmas!
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