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my story
On saturday, this boy Chris asked me out. I liked him a lot, so of course I said yes. We only got to talk online, but he said he wanted to hug me after school, kiss me, and he invited me to his hockey game. I fell for him as soon as he said he wanted to hug/kiss me. I felt like this was the right guy for me. And then on tuesday morning, he randomly broke up with my online. I was really sad that he didn't do it in person and I thought it was low of him to tell me he'd NEVER break up with me but then 2 days later, break his promise. I asked him why he broke up with me, and he goes " I dunno I just think we should be friends." I was really sad. I never even got to hug him or even talk to him in person while we were going out! He broke up with me in the next 2 days. And I couldn't believe it because I spent hours talking to him on the phone and flirting with him, I thought we would last forever. For the past 2 days I've been crying and telling him I still like him, but he said "I'm really sorry but I only like you as a friend." As soon as he broke up with me, he asked out my best friend who was his ex-girlfriend. She said no because she knows I still like him and he's mad at her for saying no. I still love him SOO much. And when I fall in love, it takes a long time for me to fall out. Do you think he's a player? And should I waste my time liking him? I need your advice, and what I should do.
I rate high.
And if this helps, when he was going out with his last girlfriend, he told me that he liked this other girl and he was going to break up with his girlfriend to go out with her, while they were going out.
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forget this guy, he's a loser, find someone else who gonna want to go out with you for as long as you wanna go out with them
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Well, this really has to suck for you, but it will always take a lot of time to get over someone for everyone-so it isn't just you.
I'm not sure what came over this guy, but the best that you can do is remind yourself that he couldn't even tell you in person that he wanted to break-up and the fact that he went after your best friend makes him just plain wrong for a boyfriend.
I know it's hard to think about him and know that it's over, but everytime you cry over him, it's just another baby step to getting over him. So don't feel like things are getting worse when you cry because it's getting better from there. Crying is our way of draining our emotions and feelings out and it truly helps because when you stop crying finally, you feel better than before. And if it doesn't, then that's alright too, some days you'll feel better after crying and then there are days where you just can't seem to feel any happier.
You aren't wasting your time liking him. It's not your fault that you have feelings for this guy, so don't feel ashamed that this guy truly treated you wrong and you still like him because it's normal and it happens to everyone.
Whether he's a player, a jerk, or whatever you might be thinking-it doesn't matter. He is now out of your life and you don't have to or need to find out why he ended it or what kind of guy he is. I know you might be curious about his life, but do whatever you can to stay out of it. If he's still on your buddy list online, take him off of it or start a new screen name and never check if he's online. It will make you go insane and upset if you keep trying to wait for him to talk to you or if you read his profile a lot or a Xanga site that he might have. Don't stay updated with his life, stay updated with yours.
Don't try to find out about his exes or anything about him anymore. Besides, you have a great best friend by your side whose willing to take care of you. She turned down this guy for you and he truly deserved it and that's something you should really think about.
-TheTeenGirl
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wow thats basically the story of my life. lol
yeah, hes probably not a good guy. YES YES I know hes a sweetie...WHEN HE WAS A SWEETIE, now he used you to try to get closer to your best friend. sweet? not so much. He is definately a player. He needs to get his head out of his penis and head for someone that cares. but he is male so I would not count on that happening so I would try to move on.
Hope it Helps!
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Definate player.
Hun, boys don't deserve to treat girls like that. He is one serious jerk-off. Trust me, it would be much better to move on.
Any guy that would make you cry, isn't worth your time. He is usually either A.Shallow B.Cocky C. Just a plain old ass.[Pardon my language]
There are so many guys out there, and you have so much time. Don't waste it on this guy. The right guy will come around. Trust me :]
Yours Dearly,
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