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Kissing Problems
Female; 14.
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for one month, we've done everything that leads up to a kiss, but we haven't kissed yet. If were hanging out with people they`ll like tell him to kiss me. Its totally embarressing, and he`ll kiss me on the cheek or the head which is super weird.
So, I tried to kiss him on his lips, so he'd get the picture. But he didn't like lean into the kiss back, he just kept his lips the same.
What should I do?
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It's very rude of your friends to tell you two to kiss each other. The next time they say something like that tell them that you're not going to do it just because they tell you to. There's no reason for you two to have to kiss for them especially if it makes you feel weird. It probably makes your boyfriend feel weird too and he'll silently praise you for being the one to stick up for yourself.
Do you really want to kiss him or do you want to do it just to please your friends? If you really do want to, just do it. Make sure you do it in private. It's always going to feel awkward the first time. I don't get where people come up with how the first kiss is so wonderful and special. However, it leads to better ones to come so it's necessary to take that step, if you're ready of course.
There's a chance that he's not ready for it yet. After you make your move, hold off kissing him more until he is the one that initiates it. By going in and just doing it, it lets him know that you want to kiss and you are very ready for it. If you let him do it the second time you'll know that he is ready too. In all probability, he doesn't think that you are ready and are waiting to show him that you are. Good luck! :)
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haha thats definately a bit strange there. that happened with me and my now ex boyfriend. he was so nervous because he'd never kissed anyone before. finally i just asked him why he didnt want to kiss me and he told me he didnt want to mess anything up and then we kissed. of course after thats all he wanted to do whenever we hung out so be careful the way you say things because then he might think you want to kiss all the time. hope it helps!
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Ahh thats kinda odd.. I know its gonna be hard but if you have the courage to kiss him first then you have to have the courage to ask him whats wrong? just be like..umm do you not want to kiss me? Or just slap him.. haha just kidding. (:
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