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I think I have a stalker!!
ok, 1st this is going to be very long and for that i am very sorry! but here goes nothing:
Ok my friend (who is a guy, and i am a girl)Always follows me. Right after lunch we have 4th and 5th together.
So in my 4th hour we are doing a lab amd he ask me if i wanted to be his "lab buddy." I said i was sorry and that i already had one. Then we had to dign up for a lab table, me and partern signed upfor table 6, then my "stalker" went from table 4, to table 6. When i say i am so sick of school, he says "don't drop out." Im not dumb, and im not going to. He has to know what is going on inmy life or he gets so mad at me.
In 5th hour me and my friend Shelby and me are always talking together, and he has to but in. He is always trying to get my attention. If im talking to someone else, he'll say my name and i'll tell him one min, but if i take to long then he pokes me. It is so annoying. My friends say he has a crush one me. And i am starting to think that it is more then that. For my end of the year solo I sang unfaithful, and he told me that he would never do that to me, as if we were going out. And we are not. I do not want to be mean to him but what do I do? Any help I would really be greatful.
~*Keri~!
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Just ask him to give you some room to breathe. Or annoy him to death. That always works!
Good Luck!
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He's probably an awkward guy that likes you. If he likes you as much as he seems to he'll be glad to give the object of his affection space if only to please her. Ask him for space. He'll be glad you're even talking to him. lol.
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hmm..
well its funny you say that becuase i have one too!
lol yah like i had to get the school involved and stuff. he asked me out like, 6 times or something and was being rude to my friends and texting me alllll the time and had my number memorized and met me at all of my classes even though i hardly knew him.
and recently he said he was sorry so i thought we were cool but then he goes and puts me on his top 8 on myspace and told my friend he loves me! and then he comments a pic and said something very offensive and i got mad at him and he didnt know why (WTF??) and so he was trying to apoligize today and our classes are next door and he was texting his friends in my class trying to talk to me like "tell her i said hi" "tell her have a great summer" "tell her i want to talk to her after class" "ask her why she isnt talking to me".
ecch.
yah just go up to him IN PERSON and tell him "Look, Im sorry if you have feelings for me, but I don't think of you like that." and if he keeps doing it then have your friend be rude haha such as "No one wants you here. Where are you supposed to be now? How bout you to back there and stop annoying us. We don't like you and never will. ok?" haha my friends done it for her sister before.
Hope it Helps!
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ooh i feel your pain! a weird guy at my school used to do that all the time, but i got up the courage to just tell him to stop bugging me like a 4 year old. i agree with your friends, he def. likes you, but that doesnt mean you have to be nice to him when he's being annoying! i think you should tell him privatly that you don't like him anymore than a friend and always will. if he doesnt get the message, tell him that it's ruining your friendship and you can't be friends with someone who acts like that. i think if he likes you enough, he'll stop. i hope i helped!
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I agree with your friends. He has a crush on you.
A stalker isn't a nice person. They follow you home and watch you everywhere you go. They are really sick individuals. He follows you like a puppy because he likes you.
Now if he should start following you home. And anywhere else you go outside of school, tell a parent. Otherwise, hes just a pain in the butt.
I'm afraid if you want to be rid of him it is going to hurt his feelings. It may just have to be done though if he is that big a pest. Just tell him you really wish he would stop talking to you...or whatever he is doing that bugs you. :)
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