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virgin at 17!
ok so im going to be 18 in about 9 weeks time and im thinking all my friends well apart from a few have all had sex even ones who are younger than me am i getting to old and whats the right age to have sex?? I would have had sex but my bf says he loves me but i do not trust him its like when we are away from each other he never contacts me or cares about me my question is shall i wait until the right one comes along to lose my virginity? thank you in advance.x
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you should wait.. when the right one comes along you will know. is doesn't matter what your friends have done. its matters about you. don't do it just to do it.
-AManda
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To me you are so brave me I plan on being a virgin until I am married because then I have something to give to my husband when we are married if I were you I would stay a virgin you came all this way why give it up now once it gone its gone.
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Hi there,
Losing your virginity is something that you will never forget. It's a major milestone in a person's life, young or old.
When I read your question, I realized that you have pretty much answered it yourself. Your bf says he loves you, but I can tell you with 100% certainty that when you love someone, you make a point of talking to them as much as possible, you miss them like crazy, and you NEVER doubt if they care about you.
You're a smart girl and you know that you need to wait till the right person comes along. Sex is a very special, intimate thing, and you don't want to have it just for the sake of having it.
As far as all your friends go....just because they've made that step, doesn't mean your time is running out. You're young, intelligent, and you have plenty of time to make that step. Good luck to you and whatever you choose to do.
Just remember...think of yourself first, and don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. If he doesn't understand, then he's not the one for you.
Take care.
Brenda
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I'd wait because if you were really inlove with your bf you would have already and I wouldn't do it if your not sure if you can trust him. I mean unless you really are madly inlove with him and want him to be yur first or w/e but I wouldnt suggest it. sorry Hope it helped.
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No, you are not too old to be a virgin. If anybody ever gives you a hard time for being a virgin, they are probably just jealous because they wish they had waited. Your waiting makes them look slutty... but if nobody else they know is a virgin, they get to feel "normal" and can "justify" their decisions. You have Free Will and you can choose for yourself... Don't buy into the whole thing that says you have to lose your virginity by any certain age or you are an old maid. That's BS.
It's smart of you to not throw your virginity at your current boyfriend. It's not a hot potato to be gotten rid of as fast as possible, like everybody these days seems to think. And as you probably know, 99% of guys will say anything you want to hear for sex. Your virginity is a gift that you can only give once. You can't take it back.
As far as age goes, I was 26. (and it was on my wedding night.)
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There's no specific age at which you should have sex. It's more a matter of comfort levels. Since you say you're unsure of your boyfriend, I would suggest waiting. When it's the right time and the right person, you'll know it.
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uhm...how bout you ignore your friends telling you to do stuff. its better than getting pregnant or an STD. and also it sounds like he isnt going to care about you and might just be using you for sex. he can say he loves you all he wants but does he show it?
*muah*
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First of all, you're not too old... I was nearly 18 when I lost my virginity, and I think that it was even too early then, based on my experiences since then.
Sex is a HUGE responsibility, and you want to be sure that you're sharing with someone you really care about. It's an amazing connection you get when you're having sex with someone (especially your first time) and you don't want to waste that.
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The right time is ALWAYS when you and ONLY you feel ready. It is your body and your responsibility, you're never too old but you can be too young. Also, the younger you are, the more risk you are at for developing cervical cancer.
If you don't trust your boyfriend with the usual things like contacting you, do you really want to trust him with your body? Wait until you are really happy and comfortable with someone you would trust completely otherwise you will always regret it. The first time should be a memory you can cherish, not be embarrassed or unhappy about.
Don't listen to your friends, listen to yourself. You don't trust him, so wait, it's not going anywhere! Good luck.
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The right time to have sex is when YOU are ready, not when your boyfriend wants to, and not when your friends are, but when YOU are ready.
When I say ready I mean that you feel the time is right, not when someone tells you they want to so you do.
I think you should realy just wait for the right time to come.
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