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hi im 14 f and my bf is pressuring me into having sex but again not married ad it totally against my beliefs and i cant let him get to me wat shud i do?

I think you are really smart because i believe that 2... now i also think it depends on what kind of b/f you want if he wont stay with you unless you have sex with him he can't love you....But if he can then he does... what i do is try and find the guys who havnt had sex yet or atleast dont any more i hope i helped

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is it possible to get pregnant if u get raped?

Yes it is, its the same as if you where 2 have sex.

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okay well, honestly, im seriously thinking aobut killing myself. my life is horrible. i swear half of the world hates me. i have the absolute worst life that anyone could ever live. i dont want to kill myself but its the only way everyone will stop being rude and making fun of me and everyone will be happy if i am dead. i know that i need to talk to someone about it but i just cant. please help me.

I think I can help you I really do I no what its like to feel this way and I know what to do about it do me a big favor and please im me if you have aim allinpink101 and if you have myspace trina_rox_alot@yahoo.com and we can talk ok you don’t have to rate me at all but I know what its like when people are just cruel and ignorant to you and I will never acted like that so im me k.

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I'm usually an opinionated person. If the class is talking about something, I usually state my opnion even if I'm not asked. One of my teachers said that people shouldn't give their opinons if it isn't asked for. Is that true?

If it is a rhetorical question then no you shouldn’t but when you are talking about a subject and everyone is stating an opinion there is no problem with it even if he/she didn’t ask you so yes and no but mostly no I hope I helped.

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hi
ok so out of suriousity.. is there a way to make your own myspace layouts without photoshop?? not like layout generators but like something original??

hey dont share this with anyone cus they have like everything i love this sight if it doesnt work request me as a friends trina_rox_aot/myspace
i have a link on my page.....
skem9^, browse the myspace layouts,^

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Hey i am 13/f and i am pregnant my baby is due in a week. No im not a slut or anything i would have kept my virginity until i was married but i was raped by my older sisters ex boyfriend. And I dont believe in abortion... my family is 100% supportive of this pregnancy and any decision i make. I just dont know if i wanna give him or her up for adoption. I really love the baby and i want whats best and i know that would to be with me because we have a good family and we have enough money to support the baby but i dont know if i will see the baby's dad in him or her and if it will scar me... I know its not the baby's fault. But anyway I could use support oh and baby names could help too! idk if its a boy or girl but i like names like nevaeh (nuh vey uh its heaven spelled backwards) and savannah and jayden, cayden, and skyler... anything else???

please help!!!

Well first if you want to do what’s best for your baby then you have to ask yourself questions about your environment is it clean, do you have enough money to take care of it, can you take care of it, you are only 13 years old, have you talked to your parents about adopting it maybe that would be a good choice, I don’t believe in abortion either so I would ask your mum or dad if they will adopt it if you think you wont be able to take care of it. And you can love this baby with like everything in you and sometimes that isn’t enough for the baby to grow up properly but I do no one thing is for sure the baby is not its father and yes it has some of its fathers genes but I believe good overcomes always so there is more of you in the baby then him I hope I helped.

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yesterday i went to my friends house and she pierced my ear with her earring. well, we did sterilize it by putting the earring/earring back in a little cup of that ear alcohol stuff..

well first she used a sharp earring (sterilized) to pierce my ear, and then she took it out like 5 minutes later and put in a regular earring. my ear is fine, no infections or anything- just a little blood at first.

um, so, i was wondering if you can get AIDS or anything by using somebody else's earring to pierce your ear. idk, cause i would think it's like a needle or whatever. im assuming my friend doesn't have AIDS, but who knows for sure?

also, does anyone know if there's a test for AIDS besides getting a blood sample?

please.

if she does not have aids then you cant get it but if she does then you can get it from that the best way would be to go to a health clinic to be sure or try donating blood they will run a test there i hope i helped

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Why is it always me that ends up with the no girlfriend at the end of the year I am 14/m and I am in a wheelchair and not sure if that is the problem or what but it has always seemed I end up not with the girlfriend and don't get me wrong I have had them but the last one I had was going on for 6 monthes but she just left me for one of my best friends and it was like a shocker to me and I just went into a deep depression and I was just hoping you could help me out

ok i no this might sound harsh but mabey the reason why people dont stay friends with you is you might feel sorry for your self a little to much i am not comparing you to him but i no this guy who is in a weel chair and he has it 12 times as bad as you. and he does not feel sorry for him self you need to be a soldier about this and make the best of it mabey you are not ready for a girl friend they are to much truoble any way besides the hole point in having one is because your looking for the one you are going to marry and its not like you are getting merried anytime soon it is fun to have one though when you are old enough. you need to find a friend that is going to stick by your side but when you do dont tell them all of your problems right away that will skare them off you are a nice guy you just need to start having fun and be a kid i no you are not christian but lots of churches have small groups were you can just hange out and be a kid and if you go i promice someone will talk to you and befriend you and you can talk to them about any problem you have. good luck k i hope i helped

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I am a good person. I really am--yet I have so little. However, a person I know is conceited and they are just NOT NICE--yet they have EVERYTHING handed to them. Seriously, any car, any clothes, ANYTHING. How come good people get nothing good in return but RUDE PEOPLE get EVERYTHING. Why? I am treated like CRAP every single day and I'm always compared to this person..and i'm not even close.

I think the reason why you are a good person is because you have so little people who have everything don’t realize what they have. they don’t appreciate anything there for making them mean. and people that are mean are very intimidating and people will kiss up to them. good people who are sweet are taken advantage of and dont get as much and people think that they are week but it is up to you to show them that your not and stand up and tell them to stop treating you like crap. I hope I helped you get back to me and tell me if I maid you feel better

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im 15/f, who is straight, and ive never been on a date or had a boyfriend or had a first kiss! ive turned guys down before so its not like i havent had options but none of them were someone i could picture dating! so is something wrong with me, is that a turn off for guys that i have almost no experience? please help, will rate 5's!

Nothing is wrong with you; you are probebly just not ready for a relationship there is some one out there for you I think you should keep it going until you find some one you like.

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i have hazel eyes.. they change colors focusing on what i'm wearing.. what colors should i wear to bring the green out of my hazel? 5 for anything answering the question =]

i have hazel eyes and aqua green and light and dark blue look good on me i have blond and brown hair i hope i helped you get back to me

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okay, well im on my mom's laptop which is her work laptop. and i was just going on cartoon doll websites like, pixlebee, cartoon doll.com and stuff like that. and all of a sudden this porn pop up came up! and idk what to do! what if someone finds out? i cant have my mom think i look porn because i dont! ah oh my gosh, i seriously cant have this happen! please help!

if it comes up just tell your mom the truth or tell her that she needs to get a blocker for that type of stuff

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What can I do to get rid of acne on the back?

try not to touch your back wash it with zest and leave it alone

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15/f. i like this guy, i told him i like him, but all he said was thanks for being honest. Later on i asked why he wasnt honest to me, in telling me that he didnt like me, and he said i never said that, i cant tell you an answer because i dont know how i feel yet and it takes me awhile to know about these things. what does that mean in guy terms, and btw all my friends think he likes me and hes always acting like he does, soo im confused!!!

he is probley telling the truth give him some time to answer your question if he likes you he will tell you

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Hey y'all. K so as you know SUMMERS ALMOST HERE!!! I need a bathing suit REALLLLLLY bad and i can't seem to find a cute one for a reasonable price. I can spend probably around 50 maybe a little more. Does anyone have any websites that have cute ones? The stores around here have nothing: pac sun, target, aeropostal, filenes, macys, jcpenny etc.

Thanks! EVERYONE GETS 5s!!

yes yes yes go to http://www.hollisterco.com or victorias secret they got hot ones

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Hey Im almost 14 and I still havent gotten my period yet. Is this normal?

yes that is very normal the ones that get there period at like 11 12 are way to young some girls dont get it till 17 dont worry you will be fine

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Where are some good stores that a 13 year old girll can buy bathing suits? Like not serious ones for swimming, just ones for hanging around the beach or whatever. Like tankini's, maybe bakini's, whatever. THANKS

hollister or taget or koles they all have cute stuff

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im scared about starting my period because i dont know when it will happen. i need to know the syptoms and what it feels like - not trying to be nasty, im really scared.- k thanks in advance.

its not nasty you are a female it is natrual some of the signs are discharge and crapms if that starts you need to carry a pad around with you in a perce or somthing not a tampon you are sapose to wait at least a year after you get your pirod to wear one i hope i helped get back to me

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when or after you start your period do you have to wear a pad, or tampon all the time after you start it like everyday do you have to wear one. sorry. i dont know. i haven't started mine and im scared. lol.
thanks in advance
=D

it is totaly normal to be skared onley when you are bleeding is when you have to wear a pad or tampon you will need to wearit untill you are off your period

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so i LOVE rap and some rock and country and ive run out of songs to download on my ipod?? any ideas??

i ratee high by the wayy!!

thanks mucho

lils

micheal jackson (thriller) or beat it
ice, ice, baby i for get who is is bye though
aqua (barbie girl)
and any thing by blondy or elvis (lol old fashion chick)

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