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hi im 14 f and my bf is pressuring me into having sex but again not married ad it totally against my beliefs and i cant let him get to me wat shud i do?
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I think you are really smart because i believe that 2... now i also think it depends on what kind of b/f you want if he wont stay with you unless you have sex with him he can't love you....But if he can then he does... what i do is try and find the guys who havnt had sex yet or atleast dont any more i hope i helped
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You need to talk to him. Tell him about your beliefs and that you want to wait until marriage. If he understands, then hes a great guy and really loves you. If he doesn't understand, gets mad, and keeps pressuring you, then he doesn't love you and only wants to fuck you. And you don't deserve a guy like that.
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hello hes pressing you so maybe its time to say goodbye to him and find some one who will respeact you and if your not ready than fuck him
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tell him "no"
simple. =]
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Definitely wait!!! Just give him an ultimatum, if he wants to be with you then he needs to respect your beliefs. Tell him its making you really uncomfortable with him and you might have to break it off if he doesnt stop pressuring you. Too many risks are involved in sex just to go around giving it to guys because they ask for it. Tell him you dont want to end up getting an STD or getting pregnant, that should scare him.
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this happens to me all the time. dump him....hes using you for sex. if he really cared about you he wouldnt be pressuring you.
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DON'T LET HIM PRESSURE YOU INTO HAVING SEX
There is absolutely no good that will happen in screwing him because he wants it. If you don't want to have sex and it is against your beliefs, then I guarantee you will regret it 100% if you do have sex now. If all this guy cares about is sex, then he obviously doesn't like you enough to actually appreciate you as a person, rather than just a body. Talk to him, and if he knows how you feel, he may stop pressuring you. If he doesn't, then he isn't worth it and you should dump him. Sorry to be blunt, but you shouldn't waste your time in a relationship where you aren't respected, find someone else.
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Hey, I totally respect you for having morals. If you don't want to have sex, don't. It is as simple as that. I say, if you wanna wait, wait. It's better to lose a guy then have sex, give away something so precious, and regret it later.
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