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hey! I am girly (as you can see) and I love acting. i am a bookworm and I enjoy hanging out with my friends.
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OK well,
I have feeling for someone who's 2 years older, and I've had these feelings for a little while. But then on Friday, one of my best guy friends just got out of a wonderful relationship that ended terribly. And we had this party afterward for my other friend, and me and this guy were dancing. He was like you know, holding my wastes, and crap, really close, and I didn't mind it, well, because I love dancing, with guys. And now I sorta think I have feelings for him, but if we were to go out, I couldn't only because I can't get over the guy thats 2 years older. I mean the guy thats 2 years older doesn't even talk to me, but for some odd reason I still care and think about him all the time. And I sorta like the guy I danced with only because he's sweet and more my age. So I don't know what to do with both of them.
2 years older-I just super like him
my age-I have a way better chance with him!!
HELP!
The guy friend seems like he needs a coupla weeks and try. But I say the older guy is too much of a mystery to date.
Ok, so there is this guy. We are in the same grade and only have encore classes together (band/Computer class), but no other classes. I don't know why, but I like him. Hes kind, funny, and can make conversation with me making it akward. I gave him a card for Valentines day - it was a home make one and didn't have anything gussy in it. Just this peom that said like Valentines day isn't about the stuff its about the people thing. I also added this comment 'Elmo eats babies' to make it funny (I saw this Sasuake eats babies thing and got the idea =P). He knows I like him and eeryone, but ... he seems like of repelled of me. I have this other guy that sits next to me then the guy I like. He likes to joke around and be a weirdo (like me =P) He asked him if he would go out with me and he was like: O_O ... I don't know ... (this sort of got my hopes up and made me feel weird at the same time.) I tryed giving him my E-mail and stuff, but he said he doesn't have any of it (MSN and most people don't use there e-mail so ...) My friend says I should just keep on trying with this (asking the guy out), but I don't want to be as persistent as she is. I don't know what to do - I guess I want to date this guy, but he doesn't seem to like me back :/ ? or is there just sometihng wrong with me?
Maybe he sees you as a friend. Don't try so hard. Give him your number if you come across an interesting topic you'd like to discuss. But don't wait. hang out with your BFFs! If he calls and you weren't home, he'll see you're not 1 of those weird girls who only live for a phone call. Lay off 4 a week of two,don't be afraid to find other guts who ARE interested. When this guy sees that he can't have you, he may miss having a sweet girl crushing in him! What I am basically saying is: CARE A LITTLE LESS AND LIVE YOUR LIFE AS IF HE WAS JUST ANOTHER GUY FRIEND AND NOTHING MORE. He'll come around...
I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
OK, what interest do you have? try an art class or acting or sports or a book club. you'll meet people with similar interest and you won't be bored! trust me!
I have this ex boyfriend. We dated on and off for more than a year.
Recently, I caught him in some lies and minor cheating stuff. I don't really trust him, but I consider him a very close friend.
We talk about once a week, and eveyrtime we do he nags about wanting to get back together. I don't want to right now, but its not because I don't trust him.
I mean, he's a great guy, but I want to be single right now.
So I need some more reasons, even if they are made up, to keep him off.
And if I happened to havea thing with one o fhis friends, how could i break it to him without hurting him?
He's really sensative.
He's hurt you before, he's hurt you before, and oh yeah he's hurt you before!!! If you don't trust him, don't date him. your relationship would fall apart anyways. So build your trust, then go out with him.
I get chappd lips a lot. I use lipgloss/moisturizer.
And lately.. when my lips are dry.. the dried parts ..are kinda purple. It looks like my lips are bruised.
What is with that?
If your lips are unnaturally dry and you can't seem to fix it with Chap Stick or any others than see a doctor to be safe
After a brutual breakup with my boyfriend
(one month ago)
I've noticed I haven't had hardly any of the
self-confidence I had before our realtionship.
Now a days, I find myself skipping meals,
complaining about my looks, and drowning myself
in wishes to be prettier. I'm actually
a decent looking person, I used to have
self-confidence. I hardly cared what people
said or thought about me, I was always crazy
and outgoing, doing something to make people
laugh.
Now, I spend hours infront of a mirror
complaining about my looks. I compare myself
to prettier people, I think twice before
I dare do anything funny, and I'm ALWAYS
of afraid of being embarressed!
How do I get my old self back?
Well if someone insults you, you'd probaly defend yourself, so do the same when you have these wishes. If you need support tell your friends. Have a "spa" day and have fun. Just remember that if you felt beautiful before then you are now. It may be breakup stress.
im only 13 and im so set on going to UNC (university of north carolina) ive had my hearts set on it since i was like 8.
to make sure that wen it is time to go to college that i get into UNC, what subjects should i start focusing on??
i got good grades so far and im a stellar athlete.
my 2 sports are basketball and soccer. which is also the sports there mostly known for.
Look up the college. what do you wanna major in? If you are making good grades and you can write a good admissions essay and make a great grade on the SATs than you should not have any problems!
Saturday nights are getting boring for me. I usually hang out with friends, go to movies with them, and go bowling with them. Those are pretty much the only things to do around here (I live in a small town where there's not much to do.).
Any ideas of what to do? I was thinking of having an "Apples to Apples" party at my house (if you've never played that game - definitely play it!) but I can't have too many people over.
By the way - most of my friends are guys, so the makeover thing etc. is out of the question =P
If you can answer this by this evening that would be great - otherwise, it's still good to know for weekends to come. Thanks a lot =D
-Adri
try having a boared game night. sounds lame is fun. you can bring snacks movies and try to lay out games for three or more. compete for prizes that are lame but cute... i tried this with my friends they thought it was lame at first... then they started to compete for candy! take tons of pictures and play all night. everyone would get a little more relaxed becuz you showed them a hilarious time. while playing turn on fuuny movies and eat snacks. after developing pictures, use them as part of an invite for another party or for a thank you note. invite a few friends like 5 or 4 and make a scoreboard listing games and partygoers. prizes can be tons of candy or a movie.
my mom and older brother constantly tell me how i was a mistake and how i was the worst one and im only here because the condom broke. my mom even said if there was a chance to save my life, and the 2 dogs life, she'd save the dogs. my brother is constantly calling me names, ugly, etc. and when i was younger he used to hit me when my mom went to work. not like little hits, like punching. now he just verbally abuses me. my real dad isnt in my life, the memory of him is fading in my mind considering i only saw him one time. my stepdad is extremely lazy and is annying. i used to just accept what they said to me, and how my brother hit me but i cant anymore. i fight back-ish. i'd rather have my mom hit me than talk to me like that. i kinda edge her on to. such as her: "dont get that attitude with me, i'll back hand you across the face." so i just say "do it". she has a couple times.
everytime i hear my friends talking about how mean they're parents are by calling her "weird", but she really is weird. so im thinking "shut up." or "ohh. howww horrible" and its annoying.
after my mom usually says mean things to me and same with my brother i got in my room and cry secretly and listen to music. then like i think about everything and my wrists feel extremely weird like they are screaming "CUT ME" but i dont. i usually hurt myself some other way to release everything, but something that doesnt scar, like scratching, hitting myself, i just cant help it.
is it bad/mean how i cant stand my mom, and brother? and is it like bad for me to hurt myself other ways to relieve everything?
i cant talk to my mom about it, i dont talk to her at all about anything. same with the rest of my family. and its not like im a horrible person. my family doesnt really even know me, like at all besides facts like birthday, etc. and i get really good grades and try my hardest, im not doing drugs or anything or even in a bad crowd.
i mean like, do u blame me?
sry it was long, ANYTHING could help.
you need to talk to a school counselor. i really don't know what qualifies as abuse but my friend treid to kill herself several times and it begun kinda like your situation did. ask your mom why she is so mean to you. if you stopped her from achieving something and why she can't show a little affection.
I really like this guy and have for going on 2 years now. We've known each other for a while but we didn't really get to be friends until 3 years ago. He was in the hospital and I and another friend of ours went to visit him, but he was in surgery so we just left a note and our present for him with the nurse. Today my friend Lisa told me that when she saw him this afternoon, he told her he was glad he was in surgery when we came. Am I wrong to be completely offended by that?
no, you like this guy & it is probaly a little envy. if lisa is his friend then why is it wrong for him to be glad to see her? i don't think you were wrong i think you just feel as if he is rightfully yours in a sense and you dont like that he "likes" other girls. does lisa know you have a crush on him? are you going out with the guy? have you two flirted?
My boyfriend and I have been having a lot of relationship problems lately. All of his family doesn`t want him to be with me. Two days after Christmas he broke up with me, then he felt bad for breaking up with me, so then he got back with me. =]
We decided to start to take things slow, because we were so dependent on each other. Last night I got upset because he didn`t answer his phone and I was worried. I started crying and he broke up with me again, claiming that I made him feel guilty all the time.
So today, we saw each other. He felt bad so we made a pact. We`re dating, but we only see each other on weekends and only talk on the phone two times a day for ten minutes each.
Mutually, we both think that this will be good for our relationship because we`ll be able to spend more time alone. But, do you think it`ll really help? Thank you!
why are guyz scheduling ur relationship? u seem dependent so instead of picking up everytime he calls, let the machine pick up. go out w/ friends more. soon, he'll want 2 spend time w/ you& wont think you are way 2 attached.
Hi, I'm having troubles with my BFF. Every time I make plans with my other friends, and then she calls and asks me if I can play. Then I say I already made Plans with (Friend). She gets all mad. Sometimes I have to lie to her! What should I do!
P.S Write as soon as possible because I already made plans with one of my friends, and she might call me later!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:) :)
Well then she is kinda being a party pooper so you should talk to her about how you have other friends and if she wants to hang out with you then sometimes she may need to try and get along with your your other ones. If you don't like the idea then try and have a friday or Saturday that on;y you and some mutual friends or just you 2 hang out. If she doesn't like your other friends, talk to her about her attitude and tell her you want to hang out with her AND your other BFFs!!!
I'm really skinney (size 1) but I have really fat, blubbery,nasty looking legs and thighs. Any workouts that would help slim it down? it's making me self concious in my bikini
Running, jumping jacks, and other leg based exercises.
ok i have been going out with my bf for 5 months now. and we love eachother liek crazy. he has been thru the worst because of me! but my parents dont like him because hes 19 and im 15. but he is the best guy ill ever meet. trust me. idk what to do because i rarely get to see him and i miss him...it hurts.....i dont wanna break up because he would do something stupid...itz happened before....help me please
If he would do something stupid then he may be the wrong guy. You should know that until you are 18 you should NOT have sex with him. Think about the reasons that your parents don't like him. If they are wrong then show them. Talk to them and prove them wrong. If they see you truly care about him. If you aren't in love with him, he may not be worth it. if he is gonna do something crazy you need 2 be very careful. What did he do last time? My inbox is always open, plus I always answer almost immediately.
Alright...Im a 15/f
I have a boyfriend of almost 4 months now. and known eachother since 7th grade.
I love him....
i just dont know if i like him.
When i talk to him....Sometimes i get pissed off and he hasnt really even done anything im just sick of talking to him. and then theres times where he deserves me to be mad at him and i just cant be.
I have no idea what to do!!!
Break up or not?
Think about what triggers your anger. but if you just can't stand to be with him, you shouldn't be with him.
how effective are they?
is there a good chance that they can be wrong?
how long after becoming pregnant can pregnancy be detected? and the later you take it, is there a better possability that it will show?
help plz!!
i am pretty sure they are like 99% effect. they are like the ones they use @ the doctor's office. i am not that sure, but you should go t o your local PLANNED PARENTHOOD. if you are pregnant, then talk to your parents ASAP.
I'm trying to get in better shape and I'm very far from athletic. I don't do sports or gymnastics or dancing, nothing physical and I rarely exercise but I'm hoping to change that in order to get involved with sports. I'm 16 and about 5'3", 100lbs. I want to gain weight and muscle and improve my lungs but I really don't know how. How can I put on healthy weight and improve my overall fitness?
eat healthier and pick a fun hobby, like dance or swimming. like, hip hop. i mean just getting a job that you run around a lot in. I read a article about this girl who was running around so much, you know to classes and work, she lost weight. if you get a job with running around like waitressing you could shed off some pounds. Personally, you seem skinny to me. if you don't want a job, then maybe just 5 jumping jacks and eating healthier.
Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?
Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :)
You just have to be as careful as possible. If you are afriad something else will happen than try to stick to kissing because if he respects you and gets carried away then set boundaries for him. tell him your thoughts too. When you feel you are ready for sex than ask your mom to take you to the doctor to get the pill and always use protection when you do.
Well I dumped my four month boyfriend
today and I'm fine. But the thing is I
did it through a text message because
he texted me telling me he loved me
and I didn't want to lie to him.
The problem was we never saw each
other so I wouldnt be able to do it
in person, he's ALWAYS busy.
Now I feel guilty because I know doing
it through a text is bad, should I call
him or something or just forget about it?
Call him and ask him to meet you somewhere. explain to hom why you dumped him and just tell him what you would want 2 know if u were dumped.
umm there is no way i can talk to my mom or anyone.. she will literally like KILL me. should i just go to like a pregnancy center and do it confidential first?
okay, I know that you are scared, but i read this story about this girl who didn't tel her parents until she was about to be in labor. she could've killed her baby and seriously hurt herself. your mom would be upset that you waiteed so long to tell her. if you wait too long to say treat cancer it gets worse. tell your mom. that way it is safer for you and your baby. not only that but you won't have to face the pregnancy alone. i know that you are scared, but would you want to endanger yourself and your baby? tell her so you an get advice, help, and so you can feel safe. if you need advice, you know where to get advice. tell your mom and get it over with.