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Just dumped him
Well I dumped my four month boyfriend
today and I'm fine. But the thing is I
did it through a text message because
he texted me telling me he loved me
and I didn't want to lie to him.
The problem was we never saw each
other so I wouldnt be able to do it
in person, he's ALWAYS busy.
Now I feel guilty because I know doing
it through a text is bad, should I call
him or something or just forget about it?
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Call him and ask him to meet you somewhere. explain to hom why you dumped him and just tell him what you would want 2 know if u were dumped.
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i would tell you not to worry about it, maybe if you actually get the chance to see him in person you can apologize for dumping him over a text message. hope i helped
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i would probably call him back & tell him why you guys need to break up. that is letting him know and see that you are the bigger person... that you have control and can handle the situation without playing games that little kids play (aka not telling the person to their face or on the phone). it's more personal to talk on the phone or in person. you also get to see & hear their reaction towards what you are saying. don't feel guilty, but you should call him and talk about it.
good luck! im here to help if needed!
<3 Amanda
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my bff dumped her bf through text. he got over it pretty quickly. id forget about it
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I say call him if you don't see him often. Just tell him the reason why you broke up with him. Then he should understand why you did.
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If you guys go to the same school or have someplace in common where you are going to be seeing him i suggest you call him and explain to him the reason why you broke up with him. Make sure you tell him why it ended up being through a text message because yeah, a text message isnt the perfect way to brake up with someone but you had no other way.
If you wont likely see him then you dont need to. But calling him and explaining to him would make him blame you and hate you less for baking up with him.
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Well if it was me I would either call him or try to schedule a time to talk to him in person. Just tell him that you didn't want to be in a relationship where you weren't feeling the same for him, as he was for you. And instead of wasting his time you wanted to be honest. I would call him and tell him you need to talk to him about it and that you didn't want to be mean by doing it through texting...you could tell him that its just hes always busy and you didn't know what his plans were and that you're sorry you did it through texting and you want to be friends still (unless you dont then leave that out!) ok! hope I helped!
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