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How do I fall out of love?
I've been in love with the same guy for almost a year. The thing is he's one of my good friends. I love him but i really only want to be his friend but its like i can't help but to love him like that. How can I fall out of love with him?Its kind of wierd too because I'm only 13.
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Basically your heart is going to go with who ever its attracted to. In reality, you really can't force yourself out of love. There are certain circumstances where you may end up growing apart from someone or finding someone else who you like better.
My thoughts are that you can control yourself more by differing friendship from love. Maybe if you kept reminding yourself that he's just a friend and any further relationship could cause damage along the line, it might set in your mind enough to change your opinions.
Are there any qualities about him that wouldn't be good for what you're looking for in a boyfriend? You should come up with your ideals qualities of what you look for in a guy. Then look at his qualities truthfully, and set them apart from one another.
You're 13 and there's going to most likely be a lot of other guys in your life. The best thing you should do is follow your instinct and do what you feel is best for you.
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Yeah its real hard to fall out of love. You both are friends right? And you want to keep being friends and nothing more? I say you just keep liking him the way you do and just act like friends sooner or later you'll like someone else. Or you can tell him how you feel and say you just want to keep being friends but that might turn out a little ackward. Third you can tell him and be his girlfriend. If you'd rather start liking somone else then talk to other boys and get to know them and then you might be falling for one of them! Good Luck!
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Sometimes you just can't stop loving people! I've been in the same situation too...but I got advice from my 15 year old cousin who told me that sometimes you can't stop loving people because its just impossible...I guess its ok to love him but just act like his friend
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