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my stomach is like a huge curve and i hate it. where my ribs are its big then when you go lower down to my belly button my waist goes in like alot then my hips are really big and i hate it. does anyone know how to get my hips smaller? thanks. (link)
running helps burn fat.
eating healthy helps.
drinking water & exercising.
also the other girl is true... women have bigger hips and waists than men... we are the ones that give birth!


okay im not fat and inoe it. just ive been on vacation and im gaining weight. i need to lose the weight and ive been going to the gym working out a lot, pilates and everything but i cant stop eating. its not like im a cumpulsive eater or nething like that. and im not hungry all the time. jus im bored or i wanna eat something because of the taste and im not hungry. i duno its wierd. and i noe some of u are gonna say to eat snacks and stuff but have them be healthy... and i do that. but like i wanna stop eating soo much. because i finish lunch and i eat a banana and then i want something else. so i eat grapes and then like yogurt and then i go to the kitchen and eat some more.??? pleassee help me. wat are ways i can stop eatingg and cut down on my cravings because i noe its gonna get out of hand im gonna start eating unhealthy foods and gain weighhtt


help. (link)
haha i have the same problem.... i eat when im bored. it's not a good habbit but i cant help it! lately.. since the holidays.. i have been trying to run.. it works every muscle in the body and is good for burning calories. another thing is water. if you drink a lot of water... it could just be water weight. you can gain up to 5 pounds of water weight! but it's good for you.. helps keep your system running!


i am 15/f and i want those baggy sweat pants that boys wear.. but are just for girls if anyone knows what i mean...
like these sweat pants:
http://mall.novellink.com/400021/upload/product/gap203678-1.jpg
in blackk

if any one knows any good brands or where to get them, that would be great! (link)
get them from sports authority or any major sports store. lady's foot locker has them =]


ok theres this boy that i like and that i have liked for a long time and we would flirt and all like we would make bets and stuff hes a flirtnot only to me but others and he told me that he likes me as a friend but his friends and everybody around me tells me different and the thing is that he knows i like him and well sometimes he acts like he likes me more than just a friend and heres whats complicated i feel like im getting closer yet further and he knows my brothers and hes friends not good friends but friends he said that hes not scared of my brothers and he proved so on some occasions like at a party so he does act like he likes me but he never really says it or acts on it and i wonder why why act like more than a friend but not act on it and well another problem is that hes black and my parents and brother its a really really big issue like i would forever be disowened by them and the thing is that im usaually not attracted to black guys but its different with him everytime i think im over him he pops back up its like im so CLOSE BUT YET SO FAR ITS LIKE I CAN REACH OUT AND TOUCH HIM BUT YET HES UNTOUCHABLE PLEASE HELP (link)
well 1st off.. i think your parents need to look at it this way... if he makes you happy and you make him happy.. there shouldn't be a problem with race. they were brought up that way in their generation, but this day and age it's totally different. color doesn't matter.. feelings do! i would believe him.. his friends could be playing a joke or something. go to him and talk to him personally... he is the one with feelings. plus his friends could be just saying stuff without knowing if it's true or not. sometimes guys say stuff to their friends that isn't really true because they want to be "cool" and stuff. bottom line- you should talk to him!
good luck & im here to talk if needed!


how am i supposed to get bigger bobs mine jus wont grow and im getting older and nothing is there any natural at home way icould.. mmake my boobs bigger? (link)
ok, you still grow up until your early 20's... so i would say just wait IF you want to get surgery that is. a woman's body is still growing up until your early 20's and they could get bigger naturally. but besides that.. you could get pushups like the other girls said, or you can get bras with a lot of padding in them. having smaller boobs is a plus... because they won't get saggy as quickly as women who have large breasts!
hope it helped! if you need anything, im here to talk!


16/f
I met this one of a kind guy and i love him with all my heart( he treats me like any girl in love should). weve been together for 2 months now and it seems that he may not be interested in me anymore and honestly i cant tell him what it is that bothering me because im afraid hell get mad at me if i do. GRRRR is it just like a phaze? .... am i worrying toooo much? im not sure . im so use to getting my heart broken i dont want this to end its too perfect... (link)
straight off.. you need to talk to him. dont let things sit.. because right now they are sitting there and building up. they could get really bad, so the best thing is to ask him what's up and if he's ok. just dont blame him, or anything like that (that will make him defensive and mad at you if you do). the best advice i can give you is to talk to him, make sure you bring it up nicely and make sure you know your main points or concerns you want to bring up.
good luck =]
im here if you need to talk!


I'm a 15 yr old sophmore and i like a 13 yrold 7th grader, is this wrong? I skipped a grade so i dont think its that weird but im afraid my "friends" would if they found out. (link)
it doesnt matter what they think. if they are really your friends, they will understand. two years isn't a big gap anyways =] my boyfriend and i are almost 3 years apart. age shouldn't really matter (unless its like a huge differnece)... the feeling you get with that person is what really matters!



What are some good websites for myspace layouts? I don't want emo or preppy layouts, just kinda random. Thanks. (link)
www.purelayouts.com
www.ultimatemyspace.com
www.groovymachine.com
www.mycutespace.com
www.123mycodes.com
www.whateverlife.com
www.createblog.com
www.loveablelayouts.com

good luck =]


Hi, for the longest time I have trying to get more volume in my hair. everything I try just falls flat in the first 10 mins. I use volume shampoo and conditioner. I have tried hairspray, I have tried teasing it. I have tried volumnizing spray and gel. I have also tried blow drying it upside down. Nothing seems to hold. Does anyone have any ideas of what I could try or do to get more volume? Any products or techniques that would help. (link)
hey there! i know this really good volumizing stuff for your hair. i use it myself and it works great! ooh, and it smells fantastic too!! it's called "superstar" by bead head. it's basically for thick hair... but it works for both thick and thin hair. hope ya like it =]



What makes the perfect kiss? (link)
how you feel when you are kissing or being kissed. how the person treats you. the setting where the kiss takes place. and mostly... how you feel when you are with that special person =]


Well I dumped my four month boyfriend
today and I'm fine. But the thing is I
did it through a text message because
he texted me telling me he loved me
and I didn't want to lie to him.

The problem was we never saw each
other so I wouldnt be able to do it
in person, he's ALWAYS busy.
Now I feel guilty because I know doing
it through a text is bad, should I call
him or something or just forget about it? (link)
i would probably call him back & tell him why you guys need to break up. that is letting him know and see that you are the bigger person... that you have control and can handle the situation without playing games that little kids play (aka not telling the person to their face or on the phone). it's more personal to talk on the phone or in person. you also get to see & hear their reaction towards what you are saying. don't feel guilty, but you should call him and talk about it.
good luck! im here to help if needed!


Okay, this is what is up. I was in a relationship with a 46 year old man...I am 20. Is that weird? I can not get him out of my head. We were dating, according to him, this summer, but broke up around September. He occassionally calls and asks if he can see me, etc. and I would really like to, but I don't know...How do I get this man I love out of my head, because right now a relationship is not possible?

Thanks for your answers in advance.

Jenn (link)
if you think about it... alot of people who marry have a huge gap between their ages. my aunt and uncle are 20 years apart... shes 24 and hes 44. i dont think that really matters... yes it is kind of weird to you or atleast it seems to be. but i think that if there's a connection and feeling with that person, it doesn't matter and shouldn't. hope it helped!


16/f

What are some good bras for A cups I am a 32 A and i prefer ones that are pushup and comfort. (link)
i like victoria's secret bras... they are really comfortable!! and they give you just the right amount of cleavage and push up. also, target has good bras =]


14/F

okay, so there was a guy who used to go to school with me a few years ago, but then he moved to san francisco. i don't know anything else other than his first and last name. i don't even know if he still lives there. i want to get back in touch with him becuase we were really good friends. I just don't know what to do. can u help please?!?!? (link)
i'd try to look him up online... like everyone has a myspace nowadays. if that doesnt work, i'd say try to get in touch with one of your friends that knows him and see if they might have his number.
good luck!! =]


Ok so the deal is that i had this boyfriend that i truly loved and we broke up,and he is a liar and its really not worth going back with him.The point is that i still love him.I have another guy who is really nice and wants to get to know me,even though it has been 5 months since my ex and i broke up i still have feelings for him and im afraid that jumping in another relationship is bad.I feel that i might end up hurting this new guy or maybe im just afraid of getting hurt again but im also afraid of letting a good guy go...Should i take the risk and give this new guy a chance because he is really nice and does make me feel something,or should i just be single for a while more until i dont have any more feelings for my ex? (link)
well, i'd say move on with that old ex. you just said how rude and mean he was too you.. by lieing. you also said it wasn't worth getting back with him. he may lie again to you, worse than before.
the other guy seems nice.. and he wants to get to know you =] i would stay friends with the new guy.. until you are 100% sure you are over your ex. i have been there too.. same situation.. i had a guy that wanted to go out with me, and i went out with him (to try and get over my ex.. rebound i guess). i pretty much thought that i was doing good with him, he really liked me alot. then i started feeling guilty for being with him, when i had my ex on my mind constantly. i ended it right away because i wasn't ready for the relationship. i thought i was but i was wrong.
my advice is to keep that new guy.. as a friend for now. he seems nice, but i wouldn't go out with him until you are ready and over your ex because you will hurt him and yourself. if he is a good guy he will understand why you don't want to be in a relationship and will wait for you until you are ready =]
good luck! im here if ya need to talk!!



OKAY i need help..im thinking about dieing the tips of my hair black or purple or some color..but im not sure how it would look..or how to do it by myself/with moms help....soo could you maybe send me links with pics and derections on how to do it...thanks you (link)
hmm.. i think you need to go to a drug store and get the semi permanent color... to test it out. it will wash out with a few shampoos or so =]
google the hairstyle/coloring style and you will get alot of different cool styles =]


what is the website that you can see all of your aim conversations. i know there is one because one of my friend's mom checks her conversations online and i dont want that to happen to me. i've never saved a conversation but i know you can still access them so what is the website called. high rating please help (link)
i think it's like aim.com or somethign like that!


Well, my boyfriend was over the other night and he had his finger like almost up my......yeah. And he was like rubbing it and feeling it and stuff, but it felt realllyy good. I wanna know if it still counts to be fingered if you still have your pants on and stuff? Cause i did the same thing to him(he had his pants on too) thanks! (link)
yeah it counts. he is entering it isnt he?


Ok i have a kitten he is a cyco!!Hes always really hyper.Are kittens supossed to be hyper and
cycos?I give him a slap when he doesn't behave.So please help me to calm him down or something!


Thanks (link)
haha aww sounds cute! yes, kittens are really hyper and crazy! i wouldn't slap him... just tell him no.. and pick him up nicely and look at him. I'm not from PETA but no animal deserves to be slapped or hurt. he'll grow out of it eventually.. just have fun playing with him =]


well i was starting to like guy cause we were talking all the time and then he asked me for a picture of my.. yeah and i said no thne he got all crazy on me and started calling me prude and telling me he would never want to be with someone like me. im like okay i dont rly care anymore what you think then yesterday when i woke up i had a text msg on my phone and was like ilove you and always will. i know hes trying to get action. what do i do. (link)
he doesn't love you... he just wants sex. alot of guys use those kinda things like 'ooh baby i love you.. and if you really loved me.. you would do this for me'. that is sooo wrong. you did the right thing by not sending him that picture. don't get together with him. he sounds like a jerk that just wants 'some'. you are so much better off without him =]




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