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desprate for advice
ok theres this boy that i like and that i have liked for a long time and we would flirt and all like we would make bets and stuff hes a flirtnot only to me but others and he told me that he likes me as a friend but his friends and everybody around me tells me different and the thing is that he knows i like him and well sometimes he acts like he likes me more than just a friend and heres whats complicated i feel like im getting closer yet further and he knows my brothers and hes friends not good friends but friends he said that hes not scared of my brothers and he proved so on some occasions like at a party so he does act like he likes me but he never really says it or acts on it and i wonder why why act like more than a friend but not act on it and well another problem is that hes black and my parents and brother its a really really big issue like i would forever be disowened by them and the thing is that im usaually not attracted to black guys but its different with him everytime i think im over him he pops back up its like im so CLOSE BUT YET SO FAR ITS LIKE I CAN REACH OUT AND TOUCH HIM BUT YET HES UNTOUCHABLE PLEASE HELP
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well 1st off.. i think your parents need to look at it this way... if he makes you happy and you make him happy.. there shouldn't be a problem with race. they were brought up that way in their generation, but this day and age it's totally different. color doesn't matter.. feelings do! i would believe him.. his friends could be playing a joke or something. go to him and talk to him personally... he is the one with feelings. plus his friends could be just saying stuff without knowing if it's true or not. sometimes guys say stuff to their friends that isn't really true because they want to be "cool" and stuff. bottom line- you should talk to him!
good luck & im here to talk if needed!
<3 Amanda
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I think it's family over guys, especially your parents because they usually know more than you do. But for this though, it's just plain racism.
Personally, I'm not sure if this guy is right for you. He might seem flirtatious and everything, but if he's like that to everyone, then he's obviously just a player that just happened to think you're a little cuter than the rest. Don't get your heart broken over guys like that, just saying for future possibilities.
I really don't think he's worth your time. This guy didn't even ask you out yet, so I'm not sure why you're really worrying. It's not like you're in a situation where this guy asked you out.
If you're really THAT crazy for him, then I suggest you go for this guy, because I don't know how you feel, and it's wrong for me to go, "Seriously, back away from him because I don't like him so you shouldn't either." It's your life. Start flirting with this guy if you like him that much, but if you get hurt because of this guy, remember that you're a better person and he's the one who's missing out on something good, okay? =)
If he asks you out, ask for advice on how to deal with family, okay?
xoxo
-Jenny C
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try calling him and asking him to go to a movie with you. (don't say anything like "OMG I LIKE YOU SO MUCH I HOPE YOU LIKE ME TOO" or anything that has to do with your feelings for him)
he'll get the message that you like him- and if he says yes it will be a good opportunity for him to see if he likes you romantically too.
(i was in the same situation with my current bf- hadn't seen the guy in 6 months but i just randomly called him to ask him out and he said yes) :D
anyway- good luck and tell me how this all works out!!!!! (seriously i want to know)
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