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Guy Problems.
Ok, so there is this guy. We are in the same grade and only have encore classes together (band/Computer class), but no other classes. I don't know why, but I like him. Hes kind, funny, and can make conversation with me making it akward. I gave him a card for Valentines day - it was a home make one and didn't have anything gussy in it. Just this peom that said like Valentines day isn't about the stuff its about the people thing. I also added this comment 'Elmo eats babies' to make it funny (I saw this Sasuake eats babies thing and got the idea =P). He knows I like him and eeryone, but ... he seems like of repelled of me. I have this other guy that sits next to me then the guy I like. He likes to joke around and be a weirdo (like me =P) He asked him if he would go out with me and he was like: O_O ... I don't know ... (this sort of got my hopes up and made me feel weird at the same time.) I tryed giving him my E-mail and stuff, but he said he doesn't have any of it (MSN and most people don't use there e-mail so ...) My friend says I should just keep on trying with this (asking the guy out), but I don't want to be as persistent as she is. I don't know what to do - I guess I want to date this guy, but he doesn't seem to like me back :/ ? or is there just sometihng wrong with me?
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Maybe he sees you as a friend. Don't try so hard. Give him your number if you come across an interesting topic you'd like to discuss. But don't wait. hang out with your BFFs! If he calls and you weren't home, he'll see you're not 1 of those weird girls who only live for a phone call. Lay off 4 a week of two,don't be afraid to find other guts who ARE interested. When this guy sees that he can't have you, he may miss having a sweet girl crushing in him! What I am basically saying is: CARE A LITTLE LESS AND LIVE YOUR LIFE AS IF HE WAS JUST ANOTHER GUY FRIEND AND NOTHING MORE. He'll come around...
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oh what a pickle ^_^
you're so lucky you have the guts to ask, im so...shy around guys. at least your tried asking, right? =]
i dont have advice for that second guy, but for the first, i know EXACTLY how you feel. im in the same situation, we dont really know each other that well, hes in one of my classes, hes really really weird, but he's fun! all you have to do is get to know him more, in a non-persistant way. guys hate it when you shove things in their face. you kinda have to just play it low, and start a conversation, and then kinda pretend you just slowly got un-interested in it. dont be a bitch about it though. once you get to know him more, ask if you can write on his hand, ruffle his hair when you walk past him and DONT look back. and if you do, make it like a sort of breif over your shoulder smile, just things like that. it'll work. tell me if anything happens.
and no, there's nothing wrong with you. you're just human. ^____^
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theres nothing wrong with you but not evry guy you like will like you back and you have to accept that...if he really likes you he'll ask you out but dont try to hard...you'll look desprate. keep your head up and look for another guy that you like and likes you.
hope i helped :)
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