Member Since: February 7, 2007 Answers: 23 Last Update: March 28, 2009 Visitors: 2014
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i'm 14/f. theres this one guy i've been best friends with for almost 3 years. especially this year we've grown apart. we barely talk and i always feel like his last priority. and also i don't feel comfortable asking him for advice anymore because he yells at me and makes me feel worse. i really want to go back to how we used to be. and i've talked to him about it but it hasn't done much good. what should i do? (link)
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you should just let him go if you dont think he wants to be friends anymore because things cant last forever and it might be better of if your not friensd with him anymore if he just makes you feel worsee, sorry!! i know its hard to lose a friend but you will be fine, im sure you have plenty of other friends!! hope i helped=]
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i have a guy that i love soooooooo much, for 2 years now, iwould do absolutly anything for him. i pretty much have giving up my entire llife for him... i stayed in town when i had offers to move away and have everything paided for me,have all my expenses paided for me, to basically life for free while i went to school... but i passed it all up to stay here for a guy.. who isnt even my boyfriend..., he says he loves me..but he never proves it or even acts like it... he is not my boyfriend but more like a friend but more... well i have come to realize after 2 years that he and i will never be more.. even though i pray for it! but i will not be ignorant anymore.... nowi really do love him so much and cant imagine my life without him... but lately i have been thinking maybe i should take up the offers to go to school in another place... to get away.. to start over... forget about him and find someone that will love me the way i should be loved.... but i dont know..im afirad to leave him... do you think i should stay here with the boy i love so much even though i know we will never be "real", or should i move and start over and get a real life.. and start being happy... (link)
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if it will make you happy move...
if i were you i would. this is why:
-you dont believe you and him will ever be real
-it will be free to live in the other place
-you can start over and find someone who loves you and that you love
and last but not least
-you will be a lot happier getting away from him and starting over because if he gets a different girl it will hurt you like hell!!
hope i helped :)
Maeve :]
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okay i am going out with a guy named alex and i used to call my last boyfriend jeremy, jer. so i was wondering is there any thing like AT ALL that i can get from alex. and i kno i can call him babe and baby. but i want like something for his name (alex!). like i had for jer. (jeremy!) mmkay. thanks in advancee! :D (link)
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here are some suggestions:
-Al
-if his name is really alexander call him and or andy
hope i helped :)
-Maeve :]
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so like, what would you consider the limits while being on a break?
my boyfriend of over 13 months & i are takin a break as of last night bc in a nutshell im startin to like this guy, and i figured it wasnt fair to my bf, so i explained the situation so now were "apart" but we still love each other and kiss and stuff, and i know for a fact we'll end up back together, so its kind of an open relationship i guess. but idk i guess it jus seems to me to be like cheatin if im seein other guys.. although im definitely not committing to anyone else! so does it defeat the purpose to still hug & kiss & love my boyfriend?
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you shouldnt still be hugging and kissing him what you should do is tell him i really think we should just take a break for a while and see how it is seeing other people and if it doesnt we'll get back together but for now we should try to see other people, not that i dont like you but i also kind of like another guy and i dont think it would be fair if i stayed with you and still liked (other boys name).
If this boy you speak of saw you and ur boyfriend kissing and hugging he probably wouldnt feel comfortable seeing you and vice versa
hope i helped :]
-Maeve :)
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okay, this might be kind of long but i really want this guy and really need some help.
so my parents are good friends with this guy's parents. there was this 4th of july party this summer and he was there and he's kind of shy so he didnt dance or anything but sometimes i would look over and he would be watching me. but i get shy and so i didnt talk to him that night, which i really wish i would have. but the other night i went to this youth group city thing and he was there. he's so cute but like i said he's kind of shy but i saw him looking back at me but he didnt say anything until later when we talked a little bit but not much. i really really like him but i dont have any clue in how i could get to be better friends with him and maybe him start to like me.
so what are some good things to do when i see him wed. and say and i need like total help! sorry this is kind of long but i need the best advice i can get! thanks ahead of time! (link)
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Just talk to him a lot and then he'll start to talk to you and see where it goes from there
hope i helped :]
-Maeve :)
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hay i dont know what to do... i want to lose weight for the summer coming. im not fat and i just put on a couple of kilos over winter.(that i want to lose) so how can i keep away from the wrong foods and modivate myself? oh and whats the best way and quickest way to lose weight on your tummy and thighs?????!!!!! (link)
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what i would do is go to a local track once or twice a week and just watch what you eat and just think if i eat healthy what ill look like in the summer you can eat junk food just healthy food to and not a lot of junk food
hope i helped :]
-Maeve :)
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okay so i'm gonna try to make this as short as possible, but i'm sorry if it gets long.
so basically, i was best friends with these two girls [let's call them sue and marge] since freshman year of high school. but during sophomore year, all this drama happened and we weren't friends anymore, but marge and sue remained best friends. i don't know what to do because i still care about them, but i know they've moved on and stuff. and i feel like such a loser coz i can't move on like they did. sometimes i think it's normal that i feel that way coz they're the ones that left me, and they have each other, so it makes sense that they can move on so quickly. and i don't understand why i still get jealous when i see them hanging out and stuff. i feel like i'm a weak person for being so attached to them.
sue actually started talking to me though, but i know it's not gonna be the same. me and marge spoke, but i feel like i never really got the closure from the whole situation because we never really talked about it since we fought. i want to stop having hope that we could be friends again though and i want to move on. i have other friends, but because of all the clicks we have in school, it's hard to find that tight group you want to be in. like i was in a "group" i guess but it was with sue, marge, and other people. so now it's awkward hanging out with them because theyre there too. so yeah.
i don't know if i should talk to marge or sue about the whole thing because i dont know if they want to bring back everything that happened in the past. but i feel like if we got things straightened out, it would help me move on easier instead of hanging on to them. so what should i do?
again, i'm sooo sorry it got long. (link)
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i think that if i were you i would totally tell them how i feel and say we dont have to be BEST friends again but just to get things straightend out and see where it goes from there. and they will most likely be feeling the same thing just tell them how much you like the friendship when you used to have it just tell them what you told us
hope i helped :]
-Maeve :)
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I wanna loose weight, but I don't do many active things. Does meditation and yoga help loose weight? I'm a 13/f and I weight 119. I wanna loose 20 pounds. Yea, i know that's a lot of pounds to loose. I skip breakfast(I don't believe in eating breakfast), I stretch every day, I'm cutting down on the calories I eat. Is there anything I can do to loose weight in a spiritual type way? I'm kinda spiritual so... Plz help, any advice will do! (link)
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you can try cutting down all the junk and yoga helps when in a hot room they have hot yoga
hope i helped :]
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I'm going on a ski trip tomorrow and I have ski pants and a ski jacket...but i've never been on a ski trip so what all should i bring. I need like a list before I leave. Anything that will come in handy will be GREAT! Thank You! and Yea I do rate according to your advice so if you give me everything I need you'll get the rating you deserve! (link)
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under armor(leg and shirt)if you have it...or somin to wear underneath ur jacket
hat
gloves
goggles
towel(for the shower)
soap
shampoo and conditioner
clothes
toothpaste
toothbrush
hair brush
deodirant
clothes
underwear/bra
tampons/pads ( IF NEEDED haha)
shoes
boots
money
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Ok, so there is this guy. We are in the same grade and only have encore classes together (band/Computer class), but no other classes. I don't know why, but I like him. Hes kind, funny, and can make conversation with me making it akward. I gave him a card for Valentines day - it was a home make one and didn't have anything gussy in it. Just this peom that said like Valentines day isn't about the stuff its about the people thing. I also added this comment 'Elmo eats babies' to make it funny (I saw this Sasuake eats babies thing and got the idea =P). He knows I like him and eeryone, but ... he seems like of repelled of me. I have this other guy that sits next to me then the guy I like. He likes to joke around and be a weirdo (like me =P) He asked him if he would go out with me and he was like: O_O ... I don't know ... (this sort of got my hopes up and made me feel weird at the same time.) I tryed giving him my E-mail and stuff, but he said he doesn't have any of it (MSN and most people don't use there e-mail so ...) My friend says I should just keep on trying with this (asking the guy out), but I don't want to be as persistent as she is. I don't know what to do - I guess I want to date this guy, but he doesn't seem to like me back :/ ? or is there just sometihng wrong with me?
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theres nothing wrong with you but not evry guy you like will like you back and you have to accept that...if he really likes you he'll ask you out but dont try to hard...you'll look desprate. keep your head up and look for another guy that you like and likes you.
hope i helped :)
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What does an optomotrist do? (link)
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A person who is professionally trained and licensed to examine the eyes for visual defects, diagnose problems or impairments, and prescribe corrective lenses or provide other types of treatment.
thats what i got when i looked it up on www.dictionary.com
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How old do u have to be to get ur belly button pierced & how bad does it hurt?
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i think you can get it done at 18 or 16, but i never have.
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Does anyone have the myspace to someone who was on Sweet 16? :] (link)
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nope sorry, i don't think they give them out, look it up on google.
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I was just curious if you are someone close to you hads a b.day that is on february 29, how do you celebrate it and just what day to you call your b.day during leap years. Is it odd or what? (link)
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thats a great question i guess your birthday would be on the first of march.
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okay this is particularly aimed at blacks but the white community is welcome for their imput.We were just talking about assimilation in the black community and assimilation is making oneself like a nother race.Our teacher feels that perming hair and other things we do in the black community is taking away from what we really are.He believes that we make ourselves like european culture because that's what we feel is beatiful.Now if a women with an afro came into a predominatly black school- she would be teased,right?So basically i am asking what do we as a race find beautiful?IS it permed hair or natural hair?whatever! what is beautiful in our eyes? (link)
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its not what you think as a community but as an individual.
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wat should i get my man 4 valentines day im stuck and i want it 2 b under 20$. (link)
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well thats kind of hard. if you really love him try to spend at least 30 lol
it depends on what your guy is into, why dont you think of some fun times you've had together and base your present on one of those, or just get him a hat with a team he likes.
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I'm crazy about the Friendship Ring Books. Are there any other books that are similar to these? (link)
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they also have books that teach you how to make friendship bracelets/anklets out of string, those are fun too.
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I was looking for a screen name with "lax" or "lacrosse" in it or something! For example, some of my friends have screen names like "laxattack" and "reLAX"
Does anybody have any cute ideas I could use?
I also play field hockey...
THANKS! (link)
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livelovex3lax
hope i helped:)
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Hey.
I know this is pretty basic, but on iTunes, how do you make it so it only downloads checked songs to your iPod? I had it like that before, but something got reset, and I forgot to do it :/
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well when you put in the cd and the list of songs your gonna download come up just uncheck or check the little boxes next to the songs you want or don't want then press import and it will download the ones you do want, or the ones you check off.
ps
checked=you want it
uncheck=you dont
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alright. i've been told that i'm pretty by guys and i do have a good personality, but the thing is; i haven't had a boyfriend since 7th grade. which was 2 years ago. what's wrong with me? i don't want to throw myself at a guy because that would freak him out. i'm just worried about being jealous of couples holding hands and being all lovey for the rest of highschool. should i just wait it out & see what happens?
(which will be nothing at the rate i'm going:p) (link)
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it takes awhile to find the right guy, or in your case for the right guy to find you just take it easy. If you're right and your pretty and have a good personality just wait and soon the right guy will find you. for now just stick with hanging out with yourr friends.
hope i helped =)
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