so like, what would you consider the limits while being on a break?
my boyfriend of over 13 months & i are takin a break as of last night bc in a nutshell im startin to like this guy, and i figured it wasnt fair to my bf, so i explained the situation so now were "apart" but we still love each other and kiss and stuff, and i know for a fact we'll end up back together, so its kind of an open relationship i guess. but idk i guess it jus seems to me to be like cheatin if im seein other guys.. although im definitely not committing to anyone else! so does it defeat the purpose to still hug & kiss & love my boyfriend?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? craziihaylsx3 answered Sunday August 26 2007, 7:35 pm: you shouldnt still be hugging and kissing him what you should do is tell him i really think we should just take a break for a while and see how it is seeing other people and if it doesnt we'll get back together but for now we should try to see other people, not that i dont like you but i also kind of like another guy and i dont think it would be fair if i stayed with you and still liked (other boys name).
If this boy you speak of saw you and ur boyfriend kissing and hugging he probably wouldnt feel comfortable seeing you and vice versa
Advice4uBTFT answered Sunday August 26 2007, 7:32 pm: its kind of hard for me to understand your situation of why you would even take a break if your in love with your guy but since your taking a break your guy might also be seeing other girls just as your seeing guys so be careful with that, but as far as you still kissing and loving your boyfriend while your on a break its kind of weird because if your trying to take a break why would you still be kissing your boyfriend and everything it kind of sounds to me you and your boyfriend never really needed a break and you both really love eachother. but if you think you need a break you probaly shouldnt do more than hugging your boyfriend because usually when you take a break you actually stay apart for awhile but if you cant stay apart then call the break quits and just get back together [ Advice4uBTFT's advice column | Ask Advice4uBTFT A Question ]
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