alright. i've been told that i'm pretty by guys and i do have a good personality, but the thing is; i haven't had a boyfriend since 7th grade. which was 2 years ago. what's wrong with me? i don't want to throw myself at a guy because that would freak him out. i'm just worried about being jealous of couples holding hands and being all lovey for the rest of highschool. should i just wait it out & see what happens?
(which will be nothing at the rate i'm going:p)
charmed3fanatic answered Wednesday February 7 2007, 11:21 am: lol awh hunny.. well. you need to first find a guy that you like. because maybe guys think that your not interested in them. so you have to let them know that you are.. you shouldnt' be jealous of couples holding hands etc. because you'll get your time. so anyway if you like a boyyy. and want to hook up eventually start talking to him. but dont' push him away or come off like a stalker... play hard to get. likeee if he has a screen name don't always im him first. let him im you becausee you could start to get annoying (but my boyfriend says that he likes when i im him first because it makes him feels 'special') but i wouldn't start iming him a lot until you know he's into you ;] if you need anythign else let me know <3 [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
christina answered Wednesday February 7 2007, 7:27 am: It's not that you're not pretty, or that your personality isn't great, but maybe the guys are too shy to ask you out. Or maybe they just don't see you that way. Think about it though, there's a lot more guys in high school. And they're a lot hotter too. =) Haha. Just be yourself, wait it out & I'm pretty sure a guy will ask you out. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
orphans answered Wednesday February 7 2007, 7:04 am: Well to tell you the truth sometimes people are being polite. And to destract you from one thing they empasize on a good part of yourself.
For instance when you ask somebody "is your girlfriend hot?" n he replies like "she is a really good girl" then yo know his girl is butt ugly lolz! Because he didn t answer in the first place.
When I turn down boys I always start like this, "you are a good boy n a good friend of mine but...". Yo understand what I am saying?
Dont worry u r still young n not many people at that age have a relatioship. Just be the best you can be!
I am not saying you are ugly roflmaozzz! I am saying you are young. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
kleokriesel answered Wednesday February 7 2007, 12:26 am: Appearances and personality actually have little to do with being in a relationship. You don't have to "throw yourself" at a guy, you could just ask him out nicely. If you just sit and wait, nothing will happen. Take the initiative! [ kleokriesel's advice column | Ask kleokriesel A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Wednesday February 7 2007, 12:10 am: Nothing wrong with waiting it out. Sometimes it takes time and patience for the right guy to come along.
Better to wait for a goodie than to jump into a relationship with a real jerk. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
kiran answered Wednesday February 7 2007, 12:01 am: Well you have a good personality and you are pretty right? Well there might be a guy crushing on you right now! Well if you like a guy you should tell him how you feel, chances are he'll probably like you back. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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