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love or a life....
i have a guy that i love soooooooo much, for 2 years now, iwould do absolutly anything for him. i pretty much have giving up my entire llife for him... i stayed in town when i had offers to move away and have everything paided for me,have all my expenses paided for me, to basically life for free while i went to school... but i passed it all up to stay here for a guy.. who isnt even my boyfriend..., he says he loves me..but he never proves it or even acts like it... he is not my boyfriend but more like a friend but more... well i have come to realize after 2 years that he and i will never be more.. even though i pray for it! but i will not be ignorant anymore.... nowi really do love him so much and cant imagine my life without him... but lately i have been thinking maybe i should take up the offers to go to school in another place... to get away.. to start over... forget about him and find someone that will love me the way i should be loved.... but i dont know..im afirad to leave him... do you think i should stay here with the boy i love so much even though i know we will never be "real", or should i move and start over and get a real life.. and start being happy...
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It doesn't sound like this guy cares about you very much. I'd leave him. And I know you love him a lot, but he's probably not for you if he doesn't even care. Even though it'll be hard I think you should move on. Go to another school, start fresh. But just because you're moving away from him doesn't mean you still can't talk to him. Email him or call him once in a while. If you move away he might realize that he really does care.
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if it will make you happy move...
if i were you i would. this is why:
-you dont believe you and him will ever be real
-it will be free to live in the other place
-you can start over and find someone who loves you and that you love
and last but not least
-you will be a lot happier getting away from him and starting over because if he gets a different girl it will hurt you like hell!!
hope i helped :)
Maeve :]
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