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lovelife dilemma
ok, i met this guy at a competition for debate and he is a junior and im a freshman, he lives an hour away but has a car and his license. those are the problems. i really like him and there aren't any other boys in my life right now and i want to see him but the last debate competition this year is 180 dollars and i dunno if i can do it or if he will. so my question is should i even bother still liking him. i mean i know he hasn't forgotten about me but i can't help feeling that this is pointless. i also kind of feel like he doesn't know me that well. i spend three quarters of m life being angry or depressed and only one quarter happy. he has only seen that happy side and i feel like he likes only a part of me. should i tell him what im really like? how do i approach this topic. im just so lost and confused.
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Well i definately know what your going thru. You probably feel like even if you pay 180 dollars for the debate, you dont even know if he is going and if he doesnt go then your hopes will be crushed. BUT if he is there and your there then you need to take the time to tell him about all of you because it might be the last time you see him and if you dont tell him you might regret it later which would really suck. Im sure you'll make the right decision when it comes time. Good luck with your dilemma.
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Awh, it's fine. What you need to do is call him up or send him an email or something, and let him know that you can't get him off of your mind. Tell him you know there's an age difference and an hour away differnce, but you just want to hangout with him and get to know him. Don't bring up the topic of liking him just yet, just get to know him and open up to him so he knows you trust him, and then do the same for him, let him open up to you so he can gain your trust. Then eventually, let the relationship build. =] Good luck; and don't rush anything. I hope i helped.
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