I am a fun and very outgoing person who loves to have a great time and i love going to parties. I am also very sociable and kind. I love to go to the beach and go shopping.
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: none
Age: 15
Member Since: March 20, 2007
Answers: 18
Last Update: March 22, 2007
Visitors: 1793
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I've got a great group of friends. Albeit small, but we're close. There's one flaw about them- you basically have to twist their arm off to get a legitamate compliment out of them.
It's always, Gosh you're so ugly. Haha, Kidding!
CONSTANTLY. Not occassionally, as a joke.
Just once, I want to her "Anna, you're beautiful" and not hear about my personality/physical flaws. But it's apparently too much to ask. How can I approach this without losing their friendship? (link)
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If they are your true friends then they would'nt do this to you. Try talking to them and if it doesnt work then you need to say screw it im done being treated like this. If they are true to you then they will apologize for what they have done and they will stop for good. Once they start then you need to say something bad about them. Once they realize how much it hurts then they will realize how much they hurt you. Ohh Yah "Anna, you're beautiful". And if not on the outside then definately on the inside.
Good luck
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ok i know that this is gonna sound really sick but im a virgin and well im forever reading sex books but im reading this book that isnt a sex book its called the "Painted Bird" and in this book there was a scence or a page rather of this gurl having sexual intercouse with a goat a goat how fucking gross but for some reason it kinda turned me on i mean i would never do it but it freaked me out i mean i got wet to it it really excited me something as tabo as that and then theres a whole lot of scenes when these guys are raping women witch i find totally disgusting and degrating it also turned me on am i some kind of sicko but when i read it in the paper i feel disgusted and horrified i dont know one of my fantasy's is to be taken advangate of you know dominated so what does this mean how can i get turned on from fucking a goat !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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ummmmmmmmm.... that is kinda weird but im sure that it is just a phase or something. You might want to lay off of the books and stuff. Im not sure if i can give advice on this cuz im not going thru this but im sure it will just pass by. Hopefully (lol)
Good luck
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About a week a go i was on the phone with my boyfriend of 3 months ( who, by the way told me he was planning on "spending the rest of his life with me") when we started talking about serious things that were going on in our relationship. Out of no where he tells me that hes been online talking to other girls about sex, and even using his webcam to masturbate while they watched him. Along with that he wouldnt stop lying to me. At first he told me it was just one girl. the next day it was two, then three. Every little thing was a lie. When i asked him about this all he could say was "thats a problem i have, when im talking about some thing big that im nervous about i some times lie a little" Now, even though we were only together for three months i fell in love with him. The night we broke up i told him to never talk to me again and to stay out of my life. well, i was doing fine... for the next two days, until he IM'd me saying "please talk to me" and we started talking again. It hasnt even been a full week yet but ive gotten back with im like 3 times then decided to be friends, with a couple of "i hate you. leave me alone. never talk to me again" conversations. Yesterday when i went up to talk to him he said "well what do you want to do between us?" and i said "i dont know, what do you want to do?" and he said "i just want to do what ever's gonna make you happy...but i would really like to be with you" so i told him that we would try to make it work one more time and told him this was it and i wouldnt change my mind again. Then last night he calls me and says "so we're quote-unquote friends, right?" and all i could say was "i dont know" I thought i had made it clear i wanted to be with me but it seems like hes just rejecting me. Maybe i didnt make it clear enough or maybe he just doesnt want to be with me. It seems like he never really loved me all the times he said he did and that hes trying to avoid me right now. All I could see is that he's taking the breakup way better than i am. I cant get him out of my head. My friends are sick of hearing about it and they hate the fact that im with him for 45 minutes then call it quits again then get back with him the next day. I dont know what to do. Its all so confusing because Ive never felt this way before. Im 15 and hes 17 so its not like it was "meant to be" or anything like that but he truely had me believing it was just by the way he would talk about "our future" together. Everyone is telling me im a drama queen and i need to get over it, but its not that easy. He was the only person i could talk to in my life. im not close with my parents, i dont have that many friends,so i dont have 'close friends' im just too shy to go out and meet new people, so he was the best thing i had going in my life and in a way i thought hed always be there for me (because he told me he would) and i really depended on him for a lot of things. now it just seems like my whole life is falling apart and i dont know what i should do. please help me. (link)
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Wow, um i am really sorry for your situation. I think that when he said that you were just friends that he might have done something wrong again and that is why he wanted to make sure that u were just his friend so he wouldn't have to apologize. Also the age difference probably plays a big part in it. The lying to you all the time isn't fair to you and personally i dont think that it is right and i think you need to dump him. He is probably only in it for one thing and maybe if he isn't getting it then that is why he is doing what he is doing. And the whole thing with the i lie just because i get nervous thing is total B.S. You need to try to get over him and if you guys keep on fighting like that then maybe is wasn't meant to be. I hope you find the perfect guy.
Good luck
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I am going to Alton Towers with my friends on the weekend but my parents wont let me go up in the car so i have said that i am going up on the train, but they want to see the train tickets and even take me to the train station but ive said that i am sleeping up my friends house and then we going to the train station together but really im going up in the car, what can i do to get around this i need help!!! (link)
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Lieing to your parents is never the right way to do things. You have to realize that if you lie to them then you will most likely get caught. Every action has a consequence. Small lies turn into bigger ones and you dont want that to happen. Try to sit them down and compromise. You dont want to get mad at them because they are only saying no because they love and care about your safety. You always want to look at it from their point of view. Maybe it will help your decision.
Good luck
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Ok.. I have this REALLY REALLY BIG crush .. (this is kind of embarrasing) on this guy on youtube. Like I wish I could meet him cause he seems like the perfect guy! He's sooooo funny and when I look at him it's like "this is the perfect example of what my perfect guy would be like". I even get jelous when other girls on youtube post comments with like "your so hot and cute omg". I know he's my age and everything. I even start to cry sometimes cause i'll never ever get to meet him. Also I cry because he has such a good personality and i'm so shy and even if I did meet him I would seem like a loser. What should I do about this? Should I try and forget about it? (link)
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Well im not sure what you should do but you should be careful about who he is. He might seem like a great guy on youtube but he might be just the opposite. But on the other hand he might be the perfect guy. You might want to post a comment or try to find out if he has a myspace and become one of his buddies.
Good luck
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ok me and my bf have been goin out for like 3 weeks now and he wants to hav sex but i dont know if i should do it or not esp. this early. I need help on if i should have sex with him or not? Do you really think he likes me because he asked me pretty early in teh relationship? Please help me out
thanks~! (link)
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If he asked you early in the relationship then that means he probably only wants one thing. Maybe he does like you for who you are. Every girl is worth waiting for. Have you heard the song S.E.X. Its a really good song and it is so true. Maybe it will help you out a little bit. You get the final say in what you and your body do. If you want to then you do what you want but be aware that every action has a consequence.
Good luck
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my sister just came out to my parents that she was gay. my dad and mom dont even talk to her any more and my dad said he wanted nothing to do with her. i dont care. i love her no matter what. but my sister wants to run away or move out. she wants to live with my principal whos are really close friend but i dont want her to move. shes turning 16 monday and she said that its legal then to move out. i told her i didnt want her to but she keeps saying that she cant live at home anymore. not with parents who dont even talk to her anymore just because shes gay. i dont want to loose my sister! any advice would help! tanxs(im 14 if it helps) (link)
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Well that is a shocker but its good that no matter what you will always love your sister. I know its probably not what you want to hear but you have to think about what your sister wants and what makes her happy. You love her and because of that you have to let her go her own way. I know it is hard but you have to sacrifice for the one you love. Your parents need to love your sister no matter what.
Good luck
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I'm skinney but I have really fat thigh that hang out. What are some excercises to get rid of them? And please tell me about how long and how many I need to do them. (link)
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Well i kinda have the same issue as you. If you have a bike then you should ride it a lot. It works out your thighs and it turns the fat into muscle. You should probably ride your bike like 4 times a week. I ride my bike everyday and it really helps. Hope it helps you
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well im friends with this group of people
and when my friend lets call her Sally got in a fight with her best frined lets call Susan.
well they got in a fight for like 2 weeksish and me and sally were always close but then we got really close, and like when her and susan became friends again now im like discluted.
And shes talking on the phone with lets call him Steve. and me her and steve were really close
and im really mad cuz she like ignores me, talks to them and they are to busy talking to her so they cant talk to me. and they are like the whole group so i dont like have anyfriends now
I go to a small school/town
what can i do to get there attention? i dont want to like tell her i feel discluted... soo help please!
xox
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This is kind of a hard question to answer. Some people say that bad attention is better than no attention but i dont agree with that. Maybe you should get a boyfriend and hang out with him and maybe she will realize that she hasn't hung out with you as much as she should. Or you could get a new friend. OR just get her jealous or something. Im not quite sure how to help you with this but if this is the way you feel then you need to tell her and if she is your true friend then she will listen and start hanging with you a little more.
Good luck
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I'm the leader of a VERY important clique (its the best clique in the school) anyway one of the people in it walked away to join a dif. clique I dont want her back I need to find a new clique person to replace her how do I find a new person? (link)
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It depends on how much this person helped the group out. If you want someone like her than you need to find one of her friends that is a lot like her and ask her if she be in your clique. If you dont want a person like her than you find someone who is totally opposite of her and ask if they will join your clique.
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theres this girl that i reeeaally like a hell of a load. she recently broke up with her bf who i am ferinds with they both know that i love her and i kept thinkin i was part of the reason that they broke up although they said it wasnt me, anyways she loves me ...she thinks... but she also still loves her ex bf who will take her back and shes going back to him althoguh it hurts its still her choice so i am okish with it lol and she thinks that she souldnt get back with him because of all the arguments so i asked her this simple question "what do you wan from me a best freind or a new hope of love?" and she said both... so i was a little pissed seeing as i would be jelous as hell about them both getting back and once again...leaveing me with nothing i love her to shit so much but as my question stand do i try? or say goodbye as in do i try to make her mine or do i try to just get over her even tho she was hurt when i sed i might as well stuff this then if your gonna keep going back to "mr argument machine" (ex bf lol) so please help i could do with it (link)
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You definately need to try it. Cuz if you really love her then you would take advantage of the moment and tell her everything. This might be the only chance you have. If she doesn't feel the same way back then you need to forget her once and for all and try to find another. For all you know you might find a girl you like better. It's not the end if she says no. Dont worry because you can get thru it.
Good luck
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I'm a teenager who is single and completely miserable and hating it. I can't get a boyfriend because i'm so overweight. Everyone is automatically unattracted to me because I'm so fat. No one wants to date a fatass like me.
I want to commit sucide, but I don't want to have the pain. And I'd be afraid to anyway. So what should I do?
I've seen several therapists and counselors about my depression but they don't help. (link)
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This probably seems a little cheesy but you need to know that you are the only one that can help you. You need to realize that everyone has something wrong with them. Some of it is physical and some of it is emotional. You need to find a guy that likes you for who you are on the inside and not on the outside. Everyone girl has their romeo somewhere. Sometimes it just takes a little bit longer to find him. Please dont try to commit suicide. I wanted to for the longest time just because my mom died and i felt like she was the only one who loved me but i didnt because i realized that i was wrong. Their are people out there who do love you. And anyway if your overwieght that just means their is more to love (lol). I mean their is Queen Latifah and she is overweight but she is one of the most beautiful women out there. She had every chance in the world to kill herself but she didn't and now look. She is rich and famous and she has many fans who love her. Trust me when i say that you have fans out there too.
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I am doing a paper on how to raise money to build schools in Africa. What are some ways to raise the money? (link)
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You can ask your school if you can put boxes into each classroom so people can start putting money into it. If you really want to raise a lot of money and if you have the time you should create like a slideshow and show pictures of the hardship of the people there.
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One of my friends introduced me to a guy that goes to the school I might have to switch to next year. My best friend(who goes to that school) got us together after we had hit it off really well the first few times we saw each other. Before we broke up, we talkedto each other everyday. We talked about everything, too. When we broke up we still talked to each other everyday, but about a moth after that he got a new girl friend. I stopped calling him and didn't talk to him for about 1 month. When I was going out with him my best friend who htes him, tried to get me to break up with him saying "He's not a virgin, all he wants from you is sex, and I didn't really think he would actually ask you out." And now she swears it saying I would be a whore or something to get backwith him. Then just about a week ago he calledme, saying "I'm sorry for hurting you, I never really wanted to but it was a long distance relationship and I thought I actually liked her but all she wanted was sex, and I'm not giving that to her." And I believed him. When I told my friend she said he was just faking it and that he probably wanted the sex and she wouldn't give it to HIM. I've always believed my ex, and my friend, but i don't know who to belive now. And just the other day, his brother who is my freind, one of the best ones I know, was teasing me and him because we are virgins. Who do you think I should believe and should I ask him about it? and shout I not get involved with him, even though my friend would probably kill me, but sh'e sgoing out with someone I dislike and wish she wasn't going out with. And my other friends and I have talked about it and I agreed I wouldn't get back with him until I've talked it over with her, and him both, together. PLEASE HELP ME. Thank you for your help
Jenn (link)
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Well Jenn you have a big choice to make. First you need to ask yourself if your ready to have sex with him when he is ready. Personally i think that the whole thing with him not wanting to have sex with the girl is BS but maybe im wrong. If you really care about him then you will forget what your friend is saying and do what you want to do. Then again she is probably just trying to help you out so you should'nt get mad at her if she is mad at you for dating him again. You need to tell her that she is entitled to her opinion but end the end you get the final say in what happens in YOUR LIFE. Its good that you and him can still talk to each other even when your broken up. That shows that your not just some girl he dated but your his friend. Maybe you should try it and see what happens. If you feel like he is pressuring you then you need to tell him enough. And if your friend is really your friend then she will be there for you with open arms.
Good luck
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16, female, 105 lbs., 5'4"
am I extremely underweight?
I don't think so.
not at all.
yet my parents are considering sending me to in-patient rehabilitation for anorexia.
any thoughts?
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If your parents are serious about sending you away then what you should do is eat a lot in front of them. Like gorge out just to show them that you have fine eating habits. And if you want to stay the same weight then do a little exercise or something like that.
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To start yo off I have a BIG crush on this guy. Me and him are both kind of quiet, sweet, down to earth, and try hard in school but not the best grades. He's AMAZING, and I like everything about him. Honest - if you asked me what about him I liked and why I liked him, I could write 2 books on it.. Anyways...some boy I'm kind of friends with knew I liked him and he told the boy I like and some other people. Now, its okay if some people know but the boy I like himself... It ruined everything. Now I feel as if I try to talk to him, he will just think its because I like him and I'm trying to date him.
My friend is kind of friends with him and wants to say to him we are great together but I'm not sure if its a good idea, does it put pressure on him?
I wan't to go to the dance with him this Friday so bad. I haven't even ever talked to him before so is it weird that I like him so much? I constanly think abut him... also what should I do about the dance? I'm scared to just ask him sine I've never talked before, and it would be kind of weird to suiddently just start talking to him now after all this time. (link)
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Thank you for the ranking.
Im glad that you are puting his feelings into consideration instead of just thinking about yourself which is what most people might do.
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Hi im a 16 year old guy and a sophomore in hs..i have always kind of liked this girl since i met her in 6th grade..we went out a couple oftimes but ended up breaking up..i tried other girls but none compare to her...ive told her in the past but she said she didnt want to risk losing me as a friend even though i told her that would never happen...now shes dating this senior and hes done some really wierd things and idk ive seen him when she wasnt around and it seemed to me and another friend that he was flirting with three girls that are sophomores as well...i dont tell her becuase i dont think she'll believe me and i dont know if he was flirtiing or not i ouldnt hear just see..so should the real question is should i tell her how much i care for her while she has this boyfriend of about 4 months or wait until they break up which my guess would be when he goes off to college? thanks in advance (link)
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Wow that is really hard to tell because if you tell her she might not like you anymore especially if it is not true. If i were in this situation i would go up to her and say that i heard someone say that they saw your boyfriend flirting with these three girls and if she asks who you heard it from then just say i dont know who it was. Just say you heard it from someone else. I've done it before and me and my friends are still really close. Also, if you really care about her then you need to tell her that. For all you know she could be going out with this guy just to get you jealous or something. Dont lose hope. Everything happens for a reason. I hope i helped.
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ok, i met this guy at a competition for debate and he is a junior and im a freshman, he lives an hour away but has a car and his license. those are the problems. i really like him and there aren't any other boys in my life right now and i want to see him but the last debate competition this year is 180 dollars and i dunno if i can do it or if he will. so my question is should i even bother still liking him. i mean i know he hasn't forgotten about me but i can't help feeling that this is pointless. i also kind of feel like he doesn't know me that well. i spend three quarters of m life being angry or depressed and only one quarter happy. he has only seen that happy side and i feel like he likes only a part of me. should i tell him what im really like? how do i approach this topic. im just so lost and confused. (link)
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Well i definately know what your going thru. You probably feel like even if you pay 180 dollars for the debate, you dont even know if he is going and if he doesnt go then your hopes will be crushed. BUT if he is there and your there then you need to take the time to tell him about all of you because it might be the last time you see him and if you dont tell him you might regret it later which would really suck. Im sure you'll make the right decision when it comes time. Good luck with your dilemma.
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