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Hi im a 16 year old guy and a sophomore in hs..i have always kind of liked this girl since i met her in 6th grade..we went out a couple oftimes but ended up breaking up..i tried other girls but none compare to her...ive told her in the past but she said she didnt want to risk losing me as a friend even though i told her that would never happen...now shes dating this senior and hes done some really wierd things and idk ive seen him when she wasnt around and it seemed to me and another friend that he was flirting with three girls that are sophomores as well...i dont tell her becuase i dont think she'll believe me and i dont know if he was flirtiing or not i ouldnt hear just see..so should the real question is should i tell her how much i care for her while she has this boyfriend of about 4 months or wait until they break up which my guess would be when he goes off to college? thanks in advance
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You should just flat out tell her how you feel. Maybe she's doing what you did and just seeing if there is better. You never know, she might feel the same way :]
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Wow that is really hard to tell because if you tell her she might not like you anymore especially if it is not true. If i were in this situation i would go up to her and say that i heard someone say that they saw your boyfriend flirting with these three girls and if she asks who you heard it from then just say i dont know who it was. Just say you heard it from someone else. I've done it before and me and my friends are still really close. Also, if you really care about her then you need to tell her that. For all you know she could be going out with this guy just to get you jealous or something. Dont lose hope. Everything happens for a reason. I hope i helped.
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I know how you feel, but since you're friends with this girl, it is okay for you to be honest with her. You could try casually mentioning it to her, and just letting her know you're only saying it for her own good. One thing though, is that she might just brush it off, and just put it in the back of her mind. It'll still be on her mind, though.. but sometimes we tend to deny things. She may figure things out on her own eventually, and feel thankful for your honesty.
If you do your part, the rest is up to her.
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