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well im friends with this group of people
and when my friend lets call her Sally got in a fight with her best frined lets call Susan.
well they got in a fight for like 2 weeksish and me and sally were always close but then we got really close, and like when her and susan became friends again now im like discluted.
And shes talking on the phone with lets call him Steve. and me her and steve were really close
and im really mad cuz she like ignores me, talks to them and they are to busy talking to her so they cant talk to me. and they are like the whole group so i dont like have anyfriends now
I go to a small school/town
what can i do to get there attention? i dont want to like tell her i feel discluted... soo help please!
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This is kind of a hard question to answer. Some people say that bad attention is better than no attention but i dont agree with that. Maybe you should get a boyfriend and hang out with him and maybe she will realize that she hasn't hung out with you as much as she should. Or you could get a new friend. OR just get her jealous or something. Im not quite sure how to help you with this but if this is the way you feel then you need to tell her and if she is your true friend then she will listen and start hanging with you a little more.
Good luck
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okay well honestly i know exactly what its like to live in a small town; my town is full of cliques. and if you dont fit in with one of those groups-your a "loser" "geek" or anything else they come up with... if i were you, dont fight for there attention. if you all were really so close adn true friends to each other y0u wouldnt have to fight to get there attention back. as much as this may suck to here; either they want you to chase after them or they may not even worry about being friends with you because they used you when they were fighting with there friend, and now that their friend is back your nothing to them.. people that use you as a side friend-you shouldnt even give the time of day to. try to make new friends & if the oppertunity comes to talk to them again talk to them; dont be mean or hold grudges, dont give them dirty looks. just be normal. they have their friends & you have yours-doesnt mean you have to be enemies, because growing up is all about losing and gaining new friends... hope this helps :]
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why wouldn't you want to tell your friends how you feel? first of all they are your friends but in the future they might not be because they need to know how you feel..2nd they should be considerate enough to listen to what you have to say.it isn't fair for them to continue ignoring you, just talk to them.
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