i am a very outgoing person, i love to talk and to listen, dancing is what i do for fun with friends, i usually help poeple (classmates,friends,family members) out with their problems. i enjoy fixing bad situations, even when i am in them sometimes...just hit me up wen u get a chance..!!
E-mail: cutechika_05@hotmail.com
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Location: CNMI, SAIPAN, SAddok Tasi..
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Age: 14
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well im friends with this group of people
and when my friend lets call her Sally got in a fight with her best frined lets call Susan.
well they got in a fight for like 2 weeksish and me and sally were always close but then we got really close, and like when her and susan became friends again now im like discluted.
And shes talking on the phone with lets call him Steve. and me her and steve were really close
and im really mad cuz she like ignores me, talks to them and they are to busy talking to her so they cant talk to me. and they are like the whole group so i dont like have anyfriends now
I go to a small school/town
what can i do to get there attention? i dont want to like tell her i feel discluted... soo help please!
xox
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why wouldn't you want to tell your friends how you feel? first of all they are your friends but in the future they might not be because they need to know how you feel..2nd they should be considerate enough to listen to what you have to say.it isn't fair for them to continue ignoring you, just talk to them.
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when you wear a tampon
and its about that time to pull it out
how is it supposed to look
im new at wearing them
so yeah
is it supposed to be like stretched out or kinda the same way you had it before you stuck it in except a little bigger and with blood !!
helpppp (link)
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i guess it is supossed to be stretched out because once it goes in you it expands to absord the "blood"
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okay. well all my friends have really cute underwear and i don't! i buy only black cause i'm so scared that i'll get my period and then i'll have to throw that underwear i away...
well, i was just wondering, how do you know when youre gonna get your period so you can put on black underwear like the day before? my doctor told me you can find out if you press the center of your nipple. if it's sensitive, you are either getting your period or you have it. so i've been doing that, but sometimes i'm like a day off and then i have throw my underwear out again!
so my question is... how can i wear cute underwear without risking that it's gonna get stained? ANY advice i'll take! and i'm not a mean rater either so if you don't really know i'll give you a five anyway (link)
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if you keep track of your period like on a calendar or if you know when you get your period like usually the middle of the month then on the week of your period schedule or before that just wear pantie liners..you know you don't have to throw away your underwear when you have a stain. if its light then just hand wash it with soap and water then throw it in the washing machine..
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I've been contemplating becoming a Catholic missionary priest for quite some time. I'm scared to tell my friends and family that this is what I'm going to do. I'll be leaving a lot behind, but I feel called... (link)
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if you feel that this is what you truly want for like the rest of your life, then you shouldn't worry. your family and friends should accept your descisons so don't be scared to tell them. and good for you if you do become a priest! that is a very strong and respectful thing to want.
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I don't get this college thing how come there's people that gets a degree on something but gets a job that is not related to it? (link)
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i gues when they finally accomplish what they always wanted they've come to realize that the subject they majored in was not fulfilling. they think they could do somehting else in their lives. or they just went to college majoring in something their parents wanted them to then deciding to choose a career for themselves
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does anyone have a story about their use of steroids that would let me use it as sort of an interview for my research paper?
it doesnt have to be your story but maybe a friend or something??
it would be greatly appreciated (link)
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well my younger sister was on steriods perscribed by a doctor for about a year.she was extemerly sick but from using these steriods she got very buff..lol..like BIG!..and her appetite increased and she started getting hairy..hehe..if you want to know more just message me back or something..
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15/f
OKAY.
So whenever I'm about to kiss a guy, I get a little voice in my head that's all, "NO, what if he thinks you're a bad kisser?!"
I've kissed people before, and it was fine, so I don't know what the problem is. Just sometimes I stop myself because of that stupid fear even I WANT to kiss that person.
Do you think this a legitamate worry? Even if a girl isn't the best kisser in the world will a guy care that much? How can I stop being so paranoid?
Any help is appreciated. THANKS. (link)
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i had the same exact problem!.so you're not alone!!.lol..what i did when i was about to kiss this boy and i started thinking the same thing..well i calmed down and followed how that boy kissed for example just play with his tongue or lips.. or you could have a boy teach you how!..its kynda fun..don't be ashame.
*sori if this isn't much
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alright, so ive had my period for half a year now and 2 months ago i tried putting a tampon in. it went in, but now i cant do it anymore. it hurts alot, and i guess its by popping my cherry.
are there any ways or tips for putting a tampon in?
thanks, your help is appreciated. (link)
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maybe the tampon you are using is too big? for me it helps alot when i am relaxed, like i take a deep breath or something then the tampon goes in easily..you could try that..
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theres this boy i like we have broken up 4 times he recently broke up with me and im trying to get him back the first time because ............. well im not actully sure but he did and the 2nd because i was "suposably" flirting with other guys the same for 3rd and becuase we were fighting and this time because i kised another guy witch is why he broke up with me for 3rd time and i gues he thinks im gona do it agian i want him back i know he stil loves me and i stil love him ive said that i would change when he neds time to think i would give it to him but he wont talk to me and work it out what do i do and dont tel me to move on tel me how to get him back! (link)
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if you love this boy why would you kiss another boy?? obviously he is insecure, maybe he just needs to trust you again. I know you said not to mention moving on but hello he broke up with all 4 times right?? i've been through that already. pretty soon if you two get back together he might be too contoling and too jealous when you are around other boys. but if you want him soo much i suggest change your ways and show him that your love for him is REAL!! by sticking with him
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How do I stay on a diet..? I'm 13 and HUGE, and it isnt healthy.. I want to look awsome by the begining of school of next year. Im tired of the way people look at me, Im 13 and weight probably 215 pounds and Im not exadrating! And I like this kid well im a joke to everyone so Im thinking if i look thiner and prettier maybe they wont so, that and I have low self astem so.I was thinking if my friend Josh called me fat maybe I would stick to it but he refuses to do it because he says im pretty. Flattering as it is i know its not true.Im Huge in the belly area but no where else.. my arms are like greenbeans and ok my legs could use some work too. Well first is my stomach my mom has a ablonge how many do u think i should do and what should i eat and how much.... sorry im being really demanding.... and I want an butt! I dont have one and i only have one in sweatpants and in certain jeans so how do i gain weight it the butt part too...
Please help me!!! (link)
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first of all you shouldn't care about what people think about you!! you should loose wait because you want to, not because of what people say..you could start by following your mom or who ever does the grocery shopping and pick out healthier food like veggies and fruits, stuff that are low in fat and don't have your food cooked in alot of oil. maybe eat veggie burgers for a while or fish. you could excercise by walking around your neighborhood with a friend, playing sports, go swimming try everyday for at least 30 mins. or more
*don't worry if you are really serious about loosing wait and you stick to the healthy ways you will get what you want but it won't be so easy..just try your best!!
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So I have this really awesome guy friend. He's sweet, cute, funny, good looking, rich (doesn't matter, I know), and really really smart. The but part about it really sucks though. We have been dating for about 4 months now and it's great. Two months ago he started talking to me about having sex. I'm super christain and I don't believe in sex before marrige (sorry if that offends anybody). I told him that, but he keeps on talking about it. He drops hints constaintly when we are in the moment and I hate it. I don't wanna have sex before marrige. Then like a month ago he tried to feel me up. I told him no, but he begged and begged so I kicked him out. Since then we haven't made out or talked as much. THings are tense. And I keep feeling like he's cheating on me. I know he wants more and if I can't satisfy him why doesn't he cheat on me? So my question is...How do I patch things up with him? How do I get in embedded in his mind that I don't wanna have sex? And how can I keep him on his toes and still feeling physically attracted to me? It's kind of lame that I have to keep telling him no, but I really really like him. I don't love him, but he's my number one and I don't wanna lose him.
Any help will be appreciated! (link)
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hunny..i know it might be hard for you to loose him because of this so try your very best to let him know that you don't want to have sex yet.stick with what you want too its not all about him in the relationship.if he continues with this behavior then i guess he isn't right for you..you will find someone that respects your descisions and everything
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I've been on the Depo shot for a while now and I haven't had a period since October. My normal periods are only 3 days long and I've been having one for the past 6 days. It doesn't continue throughout the whole day, just for a little while each day. Is that normal? It's very light and I'm having severe cramps. Thanks. (link)
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since you're on depo it basically screws up your period..for some girls they don't even get there periods maybe just little spotting though.so ya it is normal. if you don't trust the depo and not having your period regurlarly then i suggest do a pregnancy test monthly or switch to the pill.
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I've been fat my whole life- exept for a 1-week period when I was 11. My weight makes me feel sad, unwanted, unloved, depressed, worthless, and basically a failure as a person. I'm 14 now. I've considered suicide so many times.
I'm actually a shapely person (meaning i'm close to a bottomheavy hourglass- not a pear or apple) so I feel liek I look "fine" most of the time... but ultimately i feel like a complete fatass.
The thing is- I can't stick to a diet and keep the weight off for more than about 3 weeks. I was 160 in september- but I gained it back without even trying.
I've been all the way up to 183.
I take 4 dance classes and I work out on my elliptical trainer/treadmill as often as I can (usually about 2-4 times per week). I really don't even eat that much at all.
I DO NOT eat junk food or candy-type things.
why am I fat? is it because I'm negative and depressed?
ps: i'm pretty (facial features, skin/hair) but i don't feel pretty because i'm fat. (link)
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i don't know if you've heard of this but SUICIDE is NOT the answer. although you say u don't eat alot and you don't eat junk food or candy there are still things that can screw up or body. like food that contain alot of oil.and in order to stay healthy you should at least excercise 20-30 mins a day and if you wana do more then hey go for it!!maybe every day? if you take a car or something to the nearest store or your nieghbors house then i suggest you can walk or ride a bike ...hope i helped!!
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me & my boyfriend make out and he feels me up & stuff.
well im looking for something enjoyable for both of us for me to do while were doing it.
please as many ideas as possible. (link)
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i don't know if this might be weird to you, but while you two make out he can finger you or something..
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My vaginal walls seem to rip and become sore during foreplay and intercourse. This is a very recent problem. I would like to know if there is something that I can do to help or heal it.
Thank you, Kelly (link)
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i suggest you tell an adult maybe your mom. or you could see a doctor about this.
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i have this friend who is dating this guy and over the last few months, he started turning saying inapproprate things and acting like a total jealous boyfriend. Now lately since she got back from her trip she has really been turning into a jerk herself. She's pushy and mean. I mean we used to make fun of each other in a friendly way and now she's starting to get out of control, she's telling me when we're going to hang out and she's starting to take his side of things, like she's backing him up, but she continues to say that she wants to let him and he means nothing to her and she doesn't care about him, but she is really turning into a female version of him. I can't believe it because we've known each other since we were like 1. I don't know who she is anymore and everytime me or anyone else tries to talk to her, she either just pushes it off, or gets really defensive. What should i do? (link)
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i think that you should find a way to talk to her. be aggresive you know, like this is your friend here!!.i am sure you don't want to loose her because of a boy she says she doesn't care for. if she doesn't listen or want to talk to you and your friends then don't hang out with her anymore, i know it may seem kind of mean but it's her fault that she didn't want to listen to you.maybe in time she will come back to you guys, she might just need some time on her own to actually see that you're a much better friend than her boyfriend.
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I'm in my last semester of college, and have my hardest class yet to complete. Lately I've been having 'senioritis.' I tend to procrastinate a lot; I do get things done eventually, but I really need to stay focused. I'll sit around and waste time, and before i know it, a couple of hours have passed by, and i haven't gotten much studying done.
Does anyone have any advice on good study skills? And maybe time management too.. Thanks :) (link)
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usually what i do is join study groups, with the kind of people that i know will encourage me and not fool around. try studying in the right environment like the library.
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man man man let me tell you a story i was on the bus and i like this boy(he's my friend) i asked for his number then he gave it 2 me but he hesitated i called him at like 8:30 he was like call me back im busy so i called him back like a 1h n 30m later so he didnt answer so i told my friend to call him and see if he answers she called and she was like i got the wrong number so i waited 10m 2 call him back but he didnt answer from my number so iwas like alright then i never called him again but the next day i told my friend charisse to call him from block so he answer and she was like you like ravin and he said as a friend and she said yall 2 go 2 gether and he said no we dont so they kept on going back and forth i got mad so after mardi gras holiday i was on the bus and i didnt talk to him but after the homeroom bell rang he was staring me down i was like hey jeremy and he said hey sooooo i seen him all through the day and we never spoke but on the bus there were two seats left one next to me and one next to a girl michelle so he sat with her and he was like my seat buddy and he turned around and said hey ravin(was he trying to make me jelous?) i said hi jeremy so the boy behind me kept on askin for my phone number so i was like no then jjeremy started looking all in michelle's face when a slow song came on and she was smiling and laughing and saying move move but i reallly like him and i used to think he liked me but now i think he likes michelle !! im so mad i need advice please?
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if i were you i would just chill.don't make it seem like you want this boy soo much,maybe you should play his game too or forget about him. if you wana get back at him well don't pay attention to him and that girl, maybe be friends with other boys too u know. or you could move on becuase there ARE other boys out there.
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i would like to loose 30lbs by April. But i'm not sure how to do it.
I've been eating healthy, but lately i've been overeating. I need some tips on how to stop thinking about food all the time and grabbing another plate/serving of food. what can i do? (link)
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you can have friends help you with over eating like at school, or have your parents keep junk food away from you like hide them in a cupboard or something, even better ask them to only buy healthy food.
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i don't know if this is the right category, but i'm 15 - and i have a boyfriend. we've been together for almost a year now, and in november - his mom asked if i would like to join them on their spring break in colorado. my parents have been going along with it for the past 4 months, they haven't exactly said yes .. but they haven't totally declined it either. today, my mom said that she was leaning more towards no because "i'm only 15 and she doesn't think it's sending the right message .. staying with my boyfriend for a week" i TOTALLY understand their concern, but WHY didn't she tell me this earlier? my boyfriend and i have been talking about this since i first found out in october! we were SO excited! my parents said that i had to get all a's and b's .. and progress reports just came out .. guess what - i have all a's and b's! what can i do to prove to them that i am responsible enough to go with him? PLEASE HELP! (link)
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well i am going through a similiar situation, my boyfriend's family wants to bring me along to their family reunion this summer and my parents are still thinking about it. here is what you can do, sit down with them, show your parents you've done what they wanted on your progress report. if you do chores around the house show that you're trying your best. if you aren't a virgin and hiding that, in front of your parents dress conservative like. don't be to lustful..hehe..maybe if you keep talking to them about your grades and what they want, it'll help you. and try and get on their good-side once in a while too.and try to get your boyfriend's family and your's together, like a small get-together (BBQ maybe) so they can feel comfortable around them.
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