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He's great but....
So I have this really awesome guy friend. He's sweet, cute, funny, good looking, rich (doesn't matter, I know), and really really smart. The but part about it really sucks though. We have been dating for about 4 months now and it's great. Two months ago he started talking to me about having sex. I'm super christain and I don't believe in sex before marrige (sorry if that offends anybody). I told him that, but he keeps on talking about it. He drops hints constaintly when we are in the moment and I hate it. I don't wanna have sex before marrige. Then like a month ago he tried to feel me up. I told him no, but he begged and begged so I kicked him out. Since then we haven't made out or talked as much. THings are tense. And I keep feeling like he's cheating on me. I know he wants more and if I can't satisfy him why doesn't he cheat on me? So my question is...How do I patch things up with him? How do I get in embedded in his mind that I don't wanna have sex? And how can I keep him on his toes and still feeling physically attracted to me? It's kind of lame that I have to keep telling him no, but I really really like him. I don't love him, but he's my number one and I don't wanna lose him.
Any help will be appreciated!
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hunny..i know it might be hard for you to loose him because of this so try your very best to let him know that you don't want to have sex yet.stick with what you want too its not all about him in the relationship.if he continues with this behavior then i guess he isn't right for you..you will find someone that respects your descisions and everything
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I know this isn't what you want to hear, but he's not the guy for you. Your values are very important to you and you can't be with someone that doesn't respect or accept them. If you stay with him things will just get worse. Don't worry, there are a lot of other really great guys out there. I'm sure you'll find someone that will accept, or even share your values. :)
Good luck!
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