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He used to like me alot and I kinda did too until he got annoying to me ((asking questions like if he can come to my house which i told him he cant n he keeps bothering me about it)) but when I told him I liked him, few days later he had a girlfriend. I cant believe I lost him just like that because I didnt give him a chance, please help me get him back to me.
He didnt really have a girlfriend, I just assumed he did I misunderstood.
i'm 16 years old, almost 17 in about 3 months, and i've never had a real boyfriend or been kissed.
yeah :\
SO. there's this kid i like. and last year in school (sophomore year) we had one class together but i NEVER talked to him. so this year, thankfully, i have a 2nd chance, and we have history together! and even better, i sit RIGHT next to him. problem: i don't know what to say to him. AND i have like no chance to talk to him in that class because my teacher is kind of scary and talks the whole time and gives us notes.
what should i say to him? i'm pretty shy at first, so i have no clue how to start a conversation with him. there's just nothing to really talk about? i was thinking of dropping my pen (i know, lame) and hoping he'd pick it up so i can at least say SOMETHING to him, but i haven't done that yet. also, i think i'm joining ski club, and he does it! so i guess that will be something to talk about. there was a meeting last week, and he was there. so i could say something like ohh i didn't know you did ski club. but... would that be weird? idk, i should stop caring what he will think. but ahh it just seems so weird to randomly say something to him out of nowhere!
ugh plus there's this girl who apparently has a boyfriend in another school, and i always see the guy i like and her together. i think he likes her, but wtff she has a boyfriend. so whatever, i need to step up my game :]
there's also these 2 girls that sit right near where i sit, and sometimes they talk to him, so i guess i'll somehow have to get in their conversations..and yeah i don't know. it just sucks because all we do in that class is sit there in silence and listen to my teacher lecture on anyway. what do i do/ say!?!?
Well from what I've learned,
You can't get him to notice you if you never talk to him.
Try to be near him as much as you can.
Pass a note saying hi, or ask him about what he likes about the class or something.
Or flirt with him. Poke him softly and smile, and say hi.
Ask him if he wants to be friends, you never know until you give it a chance.
I go to a small catholic school in indiana. I play volleyball for the school. I'm a freshmen, and im really starting to not like this school at all. almost everyone lives close so they go home almost every weekend, but i like 4 hours away and I don't have a car so im always stuck here.
I was wondering if its possible, and what the chances are of transferring to a new school next year, a bigger one, and playing a sport.
And how should I go about telling my parents about this? I don't want to let them down, and I do have a large scholarship for volleyball to this school. but i'm really just not happy here.
One thing you can do is try to like it.
The other thing is think of your happiness. Its better to do what makes you happy.
SORRY THIS WILL BE LONG! some of you might know me... as mwalnutss on here (yes there is spose to be 2 s's). but anyways, i need help. i have been dating a boy named bobby for a month and a half. and he means the world to me. and we were UBER close before we started dating. like friends since septemper. and i care about him ALOT! but lately the tables have turned. i made a new friend and i am friends again with my exbff and they take up ALOT of my time on the phone. and bobby has stopped calling me, so since he stopped calling i have REALLY reduced the amount of times i call him down to like 3 times a week instead of racking 10 hours of phone time with him every week. since then me and my best friend, who is a guy, have gotten even closer, we goof off (not in the hooking up way) like we use to but know like its more often. and bobby gets jealous and just ignores me. and then he claims i ditch him, like dont walk him to his classes. but i do!! i put SO much on the line for him. and he makes me cry alot. and feel bad. and ARG!!! i hate it. and he never listens to me. what should i do? dump him?
Question: Do you want to dump him?
Talk to him (like you should always when you got a problem) and ask him why he thinks that. Tell him what you really feel. I mean if you want to make time for both then talk to both of them to let them know.
sorry this is long but lpease read itwell me and my cousin sings together like a group and i write or pick songs to sing and choreograph the whole thing we did this new years party and i should her all the dances and stuff and everybody said oh stephani is the best and she did all the work after i heard that i was pissed i told stephani she just said so i did do everything i just want to punch her and everybody found out that it was me that did everything and they said i was the better singer but when we are both together they said we both are great but she sometimes gets the credit and goes to far what should i do
Tell her how you feel, and ask her how she would feel if she did something but you got the credit for it. It wouldn't feel good would it? and tell her that she needs to be more honest and if she keeps going far and taking your credit , it will lead to a place we call "nowhere".
i had this gigantic red bump on my nose [i asked another question like 1 hr ago about it] and i just popped it and as gross as it seems ALOt of stuff came out, and then put toner on it and covered it up with 10% benzoyl peroxide cream and a bandaid and i HOPE the swelling and the redness is gone by tommorow.
can this be possible?
was it good to get everything out of it?
Well I'm not sure if it will be gone but (this happened to me ) and when you pop a bump or pimple (whatever) then it gets even bigger , but as long as you put a recommended cream on (you did) then I'm guessing you should be fine , if it doesn't then contact a doctor maybe for a recommended cream. What I used was NEOSPORIN , it did help , try it if you have it. You can buy that at WalGreens or wal-Mart
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can somebody define fake (regarding people)..because i called my friend fake today, and she said "Im not fake, how about you define fake then." and it was there, but i couldn't do it. can somebody define it and then tell me if this is a fake girl.
--My freind who told me to define fake, over the summer she made me basically hate one of my BESTBEST freinds from 8th grade, and then she told them i have been talking about them which started a huge fight. Then she became freinds with the girl who she and I were both talking about, and are now best freinds. Also over the summer, she told me everything (which now she hasnt) and she said how much she hates these certain girls who she was friends with in 8th grade. Anyways, now she became freinds with them since 9th grade starts and is now freinds with them and the hole group that she said she hates..and is denying she said it. Also, to add onto this, she used to say over the summer how people who d drugs and get drunk all the time and party alot disgust her, but now, shes one of those people. latley ive noticed shes changed and basically is fake (as i see it) and does everything she says she hates and loves everyone she says she doesnt...we dont talk anymore either...and she has the nerve to read my blog about her on myspace (we was on my prefered list and i forgot she was) and had the nerve to yell at me of how she changed and how shes now fake..
i dont know what i should do.
You were right , she is fake. Tell her how you feel and tell her that first you tell her something but it becomes completly oppisite. Ask her why? She doesn't sound like someone I'd be hanging out with. And to define fake , someone who poses to be someone else and your right , your friend is a fake and she knows that and tell her to quit the act because in life , she is getting to NOWHERE!
ive been friends with this girl for like 3 years..shes really bossy to me and all my friends. like if we say something she doesnt agree with shell say something like are you friggen retarded? or your so stupid. but she says these things like constantly. and alot of the times when we say something shell like slap our arms or something and shes a big girl and were all pretty small and it hurts and if we tell her to stop it hurts she just say oo boo hoo. she told me once i treat her like shit because i leave her out of the crowd and i wanted to say mabye if you were nicer i wouldnt but i knew if i said that she would get mad. how do i deal with something like this. me and my friends are tired of this.
I understand your feelings and If I were you I would try to talk to her about it , tell her and if she was a true friend then she would understand. If she doesn't then you know who your REAL friends are and she isn't. Remember, a real friend wouldn't hurt you seriously , and even if she thinks it is a joke she wouldn't do that.