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what do i say?
i'm 16 years old, almost 17 in about 3 months, and i've never had a real boyfriend or been kissed.
yeah :\
SO. there's this kid i like. and last year in school (sophomore year) we had one class together but i NEVER talked to him. so this year, thankfully, i have a 2nd chance, and we have history together! and even better, i sit RIGHT next to him. problem: i don't know what to say to him. AND i have like no chance to talk to him in that class because my teacher is kind of scary and talks the whole time and gives us notes.
what should i say to him? i'm pretty shy at first, so i have no clue how to start a conversation with him. there's just nothing to really talk about? i was thinking of dropping my pen (i know, lame) and hoping he'd pick it up so i can at least say SOMETHING to him, but i haven't done that yet. also, i think i'm joining ski club, and he does it! so i guess that will be something to talk about. there was a meeting last week, and he was there. so i could say something like ohh i didn't know you did ski club. but... would that be weird? idk, i should stop caring what he will think. but ahh it just seems so weird to randomly say something to him out of nowhere!
ugh plus there's this girl who apparently has a boyfriend in another school, and i always see the guy i like and her together. i think he likes her, but wtff she has a boyfriend. so whatever, i need to step up my game :]
there's also these 2 girls that sit right near where i sit, and sometimes they talk to him, so i guess i'll somehow have to get in their conversations..and yeah i don't know. it just sucks because all we do in that class is sit there in silence and listen to my teacher lecture on anyway. what do i do/ say!?!?
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Well from what I've learned,
You can't get him to notice you if you never talk to him.
Try to be near him as much as you can.
Pass a note saying hi, or ask him about what he likes about the class or something.
Or flirt with him. Poke him softly and smile, and say hi.
Ask him if he wants to be friends, you never know until you give it a chance.
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Well you could say something about the teacher!! When your walking out of class catch up to him and say "wow, our teacher gives me the creeps! how about you?" and a whole cute funny convo may start. If you cant catch him after class then during class you could say "what was yesterdays hw? im not sure if i did the right thing? (you can say this even if you know!). OR if you r doing a sheet just be like hey, do you understand this cause i dont..and then he could explain it 2 u!! so these r some ways to start convos and after that he might think ur great and try to talk to you more! if u need more advice just ask!
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