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my friends a bully
ive been friends with this girl for like 3 years..shes really bossy to me and all my friends. like if we say something she doesnt agree with shell say something like are you friggen retarded? or your so stupid. but she says these things like constantly. and alot of the times when we say something shell like slap our arms or something and shes a big girl and were all pretty small and it hurts and if we tell her to stop it hurts she just say oo boo hoo. she told me once i treat her like shit because i leave her out of the crowd and i wanted to say mabye if you were nicer i wouldnt but i knew if i said that she would get mad. how do i deal with something like this. me and my friends are tired of this.
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you deffinitly dont need her. If she continues this, tell her straight up "we treat you bad, maybe because you basically harass and assault us." because basically if someone hurts you physically on purpose, its assault..even if you are 'freinds'. she hits you, its assault. and calling anyone names is harrassment. and then maybe you could say "if you change your additude and how you act towards people, maybe they would want to be around you and include you.."
it might sound mean but if you dont do it, no one will, and she will continue to walk all over you guys.
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im not sure about you, but what i would do is tell her to stop and stand up for yourslef. You have a group if friends so when she acts bossy to you, just ditch her. You shouldnt be treated like that and you dont have to take it. Youll survive without her. Just dont hang around her if shes acting like a bitch. After you and your friends keep ditching her, she'll probably realize what shes doing and stop. Remember you dont have to be rude about it, Say stop nicly first and if she still acts rude to you, then ditch her. Make shure your friends agree with the plan though.
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-Krazy
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I understand your feelings and If I were you I would try to talk to her about it , tell her and if she was a true friend then she would understand. If she doesn't then you know who your REAL friends are and she isn't. Remember, a real friend wouldn't hurt you seriously , and even if she thinks it is a joke she wouldn't do that.
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