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alright, so every saturday a group of kids goes over this one girls house. It seems like they have a blast everytime they go, and it seems to be all they talk about.
I know the girl who hosts this little gettogether, and we're friends and stuff. But not really "friends" just "hi ____" "___ i love you!" |[around here we use iloveyou with our friends alot if you havent noticed]| It's like that with most of the people that are there too.
I really want to get invited, and be friends with them. But I just don't know how? =/
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I know how that goes, I know lots of girls who I'm kinda friends with but I don't really know them too well and blah blah blah---but anyway, if you have any classes with this girl it would probly help a lot. If you wanna get to be freinds with these people try doing some of the things they do. Is there a certain school club or something that they're in? Give it a try. Continue to be friendly. When you feel comfortable enough, just casually be like "Well, what are you doing this weekend?" and it should come into the conversation. When she tells you, just be like, "Oh sounds like fun. I don't really have a clue what I'm doing this weekend," and hopefully this should leave the doorway wide open for you.
Be forwarned though, make sure these are people you can like and can easily get along with, and that you're not doing this to up your social status, thats a really horrible reason for befriending someone.
Hope I was helpful,
-Kayla Jay
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talk to her more. seem open and friendly. nobody wants to invite someone who they will think will mope around or ruin the party in any way.
Compliment her alot, and be really nice to her whenever you talk to her. aslo. if you have to suck up to be invited to a 'cool' party, then its not worth it.
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