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Okay, i wiegh about 146 pds, im 5'3 and the scale says my body fat is around 12.0. I was wondering if that number is good or bad for my weigh and height.
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Im like the same as you except i look wayy skinner then what the BMI calculator says
It says im overweight, but when i look in the mirror, i think i look fine. If you think you look okay then stay as you are, and if you dont liek your body then loose weight.
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im 13. i love scary movies its mainly what i watch. i saw the scariest movie of the year just now. im so fuckin paranoid im shaking so badly i cant even see straight i dont wana be alone i think ill die tonight by rape or torture HOPEING NOT!. what can i do!?! (link)
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Just think of it like
The whole movie was an act
They were all ACTING
Its all for entertainment
Hope i helped :)
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I weigh 130 pounds and i'm around 5'3. I think I really need to lose weight, but whenever someone guesses my weight they always say 110 or 115. I don't understand why they think that when I can tell I weigh a lot more than that. I do play softball, but I don't exercise daily or anything. Could it be muscle? (link)
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Hey thats the same for me as well
Dont pay attention to the scale, if you think you look good, then you probably do :)
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ok so i was playing around with this guy and i gave him a hand job. and i had to go so i guess i didnt finish. unless for some reason i didnt notice. but my shorts were on but they are really short shorts and i might as well of been wearing underwear. any way i cud be pregnant?? i know it sounds stupid but im just stressing a little.
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nope
dont think so
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How can i dress more feminine/flirty. What are some good stores to shop in? (link)
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Well skirts obviosuly!
Umm, accersories are a must, nice flip flops or heels. Tight shirts, low cut or something along those lines. Well, i live in Canada so i dont really know the stores in America if that is where you are.
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my face is uneven i think? it looks so in pictures but i look normal-ish in the mirror when i see myself.
my question is, when other people look at you, is that what you see in the mirror or a flip of you?
also, what about when a picture is taken of you?
i need to know so i can umm somehow try to help my situation and not be such an eyesore. thanks peeps.
i can clarify if i need to. this is a source of frustration to me.. badly. (link)
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Well, what you see in the mirror and how people see you are totally different. You will notice every little thing in a mirror but people just gaze over you and dont focus on the little details. This applies to pictures to an extent as well. In my opinion anyway. Maybe it is the lighting or the camera that is the problem and making your face look uneven in pictures.
Hope i helped :]
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ok, normally i am good at love dilemmas, but this one stumps me.
I have been with a guy that I really do love for 7 months. Before him, I dated a guy a state away from me. Now, my ex bf was very caring, nice, etc...or so it seemed. We talked through webcam and instant messages. Well, he wanted to see me on webcam one day and I guess he didnt like what he saw, so the next day he txted me and said it was over. I didnt love him, but i was infatuated with him and that just broke my heart. I got over him and months later i found my current bf. Well, just now while I was on the phone with my bf, I got an instant message from my ex. And it kind of feels like those feelings could still be there. My question is, is it something I should be worried about? I think they could be just friendship feelings, but im not sure. Any help is appreciated! (link)
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I think you should end everything with your ex because he basically showed that he was not a good boyfriend by judging you from your appearence and breaking up with you after! Try to stay away from him and focus all your attention on your new boyfriend because from what you wrote, it sounds like he is not worth your time.
Good luck!
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ok so i started a job back in march and met this guy there. The girls who work there would talk about him alot, because almost all of them liked him and he had hooked up with 2 of them and liked another. He sounded like trouble, but he was just so cute i couldn't resist. To get to the point we started hanging out outside of work alot and one day he asked me out we went out for about a month and one day he texts me saying "can we not go out anymore but still be together because i dont have time for a girlfriend and it doesnt feel like were even going out" i was sooo confused because things were fine with us. After our breakup we still hungout and acted like boyfriend and girlfriend just without the title, i guess you could say we were friends with benefits. me thinking that it could lead to us going back out again. well that lasted for another 2 months. So the other day i went into work to get my paycheck and he was working so we were flirting and acting like our normal selves, so when i went to leave i went to give him and kiss (like normal) and he was like "stop your not my girlfriend" so i was like "well you had no problem with it before" he was like "well im a changed man now" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? do you think he likes some other girl and not me anymore? someone help cuz im really upset and i dont know what to do. i want to move on from him but i still like him sooooo much. (link)
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Ahhh, this problem has happened to me numerous times! Boys are soo confusing! Anyway, what i did one time was ignore the guy though i liked him SO much and just made it seem like i didnt care about him and i can flirt with other guys too and have fun without him. I did all this in front of his face so he could see that i was not going to be treated like trash from him and i have way better guys that treat me better and actually are friends to me. Anyway, he wanted to get back with me but obviously i rejected him and it felt so good, cuz during this process i actually go over him! Unbeliveably, i actually did and it was great!
Anyway, good luck in your decision and hopefully my story helped you in some way!
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i need new music only rab and r&b thanksss (link)
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The ones below are really good
I just wanted to add:
Party like a rockstar- Shop boyz
I try- Akon
You make me better- Faboulous
If you need more, inbox mee :]
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I've known this guy, let's call him A. Then I have this friend that's a girl, let's call her B. I've known them both since kindergarten and A never acknowledged me, while B and her other friend just made fun of me and beat me up EVERY RECESS. It happened right in front of the teacher every time, but the teacher blamed me :( They'd pull on my hair, I wore a ponytail on each side of my head and they'd both take each side and pull on them. I used to try and hide from them every day because I was so afraid. Now I'm going into 8th grade when Summer's over. In 6th grade, I became the best of friends with A, and I was friends since first grade with B -- shocking, I KNOW! So anyways, B transferred over the Summer before 7th grade. I missed him the entire time. I sent him an e-mail, I IMed him frequently, but almost never got a reply. I tried to stay in touch, I REALLY DID! But whenever I IMed him we'd either talk for a minute or he'd just sign off after I said hello. I never got a reply from that e-mail back. He said hi to me months ago at a hockey game, but he only pays attention and IMs B. And they talk all the time! B knows it bothers me. A LOT. Well... now B just treats me like crap. When we were waiting for the bus, I ran up to her and said hello. She looks all sad every morning, says nothing to me, and turns away. But when my other friend, (Let's call her C) gets to school she gets all hyper and happy and expects me to be happy with them.
Ever since kindergarten, nobody ever liked me. In 4th grade, A would make fun of me all the time, so would a lot of other people. But it really picked up in 5th grade. All the kids would make fun of me until I cried, one of the ones that did it the most was A! Then in 6th grade, none of my classmates really liked me and the 8th graders made fun of me because I was younger than them. Now B is making fun of me again and C just laughs. In fact tonight, we were all planning to go to the movies but they went without me! I'm so upset.
I don't want to re-live this freshman year, or 8th grade for that matter. I just don't know what to do! I want new friends! Do you think it's mean of me to say that? Or do I deserve new ones? I'm just tired of being treated like crap ALL THE TIME!
Sorry this was so long. But how do I get new friends? (link)
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Ditch them and make new friends.
Simple.
How do you make new friends?
Talk to different types of people
If there is a new person, talk to them because they dont know your past at all. Stay away from the bitches and talk to new people. Join groups and teams and DONT rely on them.
Dont make someone a priority in your life, when your just an option in theirs.
Good luck :]
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ok i have a bunch of friends and i love hanging out with them but i dont somethings missing like the only preson i can totaly be myself around and that feel's like a totaly good friend is my sisters friend i know thats kind of weird but she started talking to me one day when my sister ahd this huge sleepvoer anywho she's the only one i can hangout with have fun with totaly trust and what not why cant i find anyone else thats like her cause i really like all my friends but like yeah this is really hard to explain because i dont even really get all of it please help thoguh if you can (link)
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Its difficult trying to find that "best friend". Some people never find one, and some people always have a different one each week! The fact is, these things will take time. Open up to people more, talk to someone different or just invite some girls for a sleepover and try to get closer. As long as you have a group of friends, you fine. That one special friend will come someday, all you have to do is wait.
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ok so right now i feel like my mom totaly doesnt trust me right now and it pisses me off because everytime i ask to hangout with my friends or something she thinks were doing bad stuff and i know that she thinks i did some bad stuff because the chcik i was hanging out with does that stuff but i'm trying to stop doing stuff and change my life but everytime i try it's like she just makes me want to do more stuff like that because she thinks i'm doing stuff and i know i shouldnt want to do bad stuff like drugs or alcohal but i mean right now in my life i feel like i can trust anyone like i barely have any TRUE friends and like i'm trying to change but people wont let me what am i supposed to do (link)
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Tell her everything you just wrote down and add that you REALLY want to change and you would appreaciate some help doing it.
Even if you feel that your mom doesnt trust you, do good deeds around the house, dont give attitude to her, bring the grades home, things like that.
If you need advice on how to talk to your mom about it, dont hesitate to inbox me :].
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ok so i was in summer school and this kid i dont even know started talking to me when no one else did and well i mean he seems really cool and all and he's not that cute but not that ugly but he talks to me all the time and like everytime i looked at him today he was either doing something or looking at me do you think he likes me also i was wearing this low cut shirt and him and this really cute kidd kept looking down my shirt it was kinda funny cause everytime they would talk to me they would look at my boobs haha well anywho thats not the point just so you know i'm not the type of girl guys usualy like (link)
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Well, hes definielty showing intrest in you if hes always looking at you and talking to you.
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Ok so here is the deal....my husband got paid today and i whent with my aunt for 2 hours well my husband (this morning) said he would wait untill i got home to go to town and spend his check well what do i come home to find? Him gone to yakima......im sooooo mad......what do i say to him when he gets home? do i ignore him? do i yell at him? or do i just forgive him?
Redfaced (link)
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Hmmmm,
Well i think you should ask him calmly first, why he ditched you and went. I dont think yelling at him will do any good, because it would just make him mad and thats not you want. You want him to realise what he did and how he hurt you. You should ask him calmly first, get your answer, then tell him how sad/hurt that made you and walk away to your room or somewhere to cool off. Then hopefully he should patch things up again.
Sorry if this wasnt the best advice for you but hopefully this helps you in some way.
Good luck
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i like End of the Road and On Bended Knee by Boyz II Men A LOTTT! what are other songs by them that are similar to these two songs? (link)
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Its so hard to say goodbye to yesterday
Water runs dry
four seasons
If u want more mssg me!
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ok my big brother has this friend right
his friend comes to the house at times
he comes into my room when my brother isnt paying atention
he lays on the bed when im there
and he starts talkin about my body parts
like that i have big tits and stuff
and then he starts feeling on my lips
and then he starts touching me were i dont like to be touched
i dont want to tell my brother because then his friend will tell everyone that im a snitch
then when i use to go out wit my brothers friends best friend he use to ask for a kiss and i use to say no
now that we broke up he wants one and more
what should i do? (link)
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In my life, there is no such thing called a "snitch". Seriosuly. Would you be a "snitch" if he raped you? Uh,no, you would be doing the right thing. Honestly, tell him to stop. If he doesnt, threaten him that you would tell. So what if he calls you a snitch? Those words mean shit. They dont even matter, atleast he would stop doing it. If he doesnt, then your going straight to your brother and Parents. This is a serious issue, and you shoudlnt be worried about the fact that he would call you a "snitch" cuz that word dont mean anything if you are doing the right thing.
Keep me informed of how everything goes.
Be strong.
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ok so im bi rite
i like thos girl
which is my best best friend
but i heard she talks about me
i like her though
but i know that she is gonna get grossed out
because when i was just playing telling her i was bi
she took it real serious
and was like ewww
ive hangin out with da wrong people
this and that
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Leave her, shes not a real friend if she cant accept that fact. Hang out with other people.
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Is there any way to have your period go faster? Im going on an overnight trip with my class in a few days and im on my period. but it will be really uncomfortable. HELP!
thanks in advance
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No sorry there isnt
I got mines when i was ON a a 5-dy trip
I got mines on the FIRST day
When you have funn there, you woudnt even realise it :)
Have funn
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I 'm a 17 year old girl and my brother's wife tried to kill my brother while driving today. I wanted to know how many years can you get for attempt murder? (link)
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im not excatly shure but think about this if you were not going to report it.
She tried it once. It failed. She will try agian.
It MAY be sucessful.
Report it please if you werent going to before.
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my girlfriends anorexic. she weighs 75 pounds and shes seventeen. i try to get her to eat but she always tells me to fuck off. you can pretty much see every freaking bone in her body. she looks like shes gonna drop over dead any day. i wanna help her but i dont know what to do. she always accuses me of hinking shes fat also. which isnt true everytime i see her i tell her she looks too thin and to eat something. what can happen to her body if she doesnt eat and only weighs 75 pounds? and alos how can i help her? thanks. (link)
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Check in with the doctor because you never know.
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