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I'm in 7th grade and have blonde hair and green eyes. I live in Georgia.
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Hey Ok well I have a problem with my hair. I'm 13 and I want bangs like the bride in this picture but when I tried to comb my hair like that it didn't work. Plus you know on the left side of her hair beside the bangs? That part on my hair is dead so..

Do you think my hair stylist can comb it like that? I'm not sure if it looks good on me though because I always have my hair in a low pony tail so I want those bangs when my hair is tied but my head is big and it's like a strawberry shape or like the robot's head in I ROBOT (that's why it's in a low pony tail because if I put it up high, it'll look stupid). Would it match with my head?

http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/hairlikethat.jpg (link)
You have to get your bangs cut as side bangs it cant be with normal bangs.


Any good hair or makeup ideas please! (link)
Try blow drying your hair then straiten it, then put in big rollers, then take them out shake your head and hair spray it.


that you have no classes with, barley see, and how do you make a girl laugh? and please dont say tell a story or something it doesn't work. (link)
Compliments! Try to get her attention! Tell her a joke to her not to her friend that is standing right by her. Girls laugh a lot!


when you are griding with a guy, can you like hold hands with him like intertwine your fingers? is that ok? (link)
Well...ya. You usually just put your hands in front of you and he puts his on your hips. Just move your hands toward his.


I'm getting my tonsils out on February 15th. The day after that is a half day at my school, so I won't miss any school. Then I have the whole week off after that for winter break and I go back to school on February 26th. I think the doctor said it should be better by two weeks after they are removed, but he said my throat will still hurt for a few days after. The thing is, I'm in chorus and singing would just make it hurt worse. So what do I do about that? On the 28th my grade is going on a field trip and I really want to go, but I don't want to be uncomfortable. We've already payed and everything, so I'm going. Is there anything I can do while I'm there to relieve the pain in my throat so I'm not miserable for a whole week away from home? (link)
When I had my tonsils out I had no trouble speaking. You will definatly be better in a week just don't eat spicy or hot foods or swim, run, or do any super strenuous work. (Thats how my stiches ripped let me tell you throwing up blood is no fun!). And p.s. EVERTHING tastes awful except chocolate pudding.


I am 29 yrs old. I dont have any friends.I have a wonderful boyfriend who is very outgoing and confident.Every now and then he says I need to make some friends. I cant. What do I do, call some girl up and say will you be my friend?? How cheesy. I go out with him where his friends hang out but no one engages conversation with me.They do for a minute then go. I am an attractive person that is not the problem. But how does someone who was abused as a child, not allowed to have friends, phonecalls or sleepovers, and a 10 year marriage where I was not allowed to work or have friends, change and get friendships. It seems so out of reach for me.Help!!! (link)
try making friends at work. Or maybe in the park. For workbe like "Hey. How are you I am so starved do you want to grab some luch" or invite a few people "Hey! My boyfriend and I are having a dinner party can you come?". For the park if you see someone sitting on a bench reading a book sit down next to them and say "What are you reading?" if you have read one of their books be like "Oh I love he/she have you read...?"


When my boyfriend is playing with my nipples, they dont always stay erect, sometimes they just go flat. I think it looks funny. Is this normal? They just kind of go flat like they usually are unless im cold. (link)
It is normal.


I need to find a floor length dress that is inexpensive and has straps and is a light color. what are some places in southern California that have dresses or what are some websites that have dresses and pics would be great.
*Christie* (link)
Saks Fifth avenue, Dillards, Macys', Nordstroms. Hope I helped


does anyone have any tips on convincing my mom to let me pierce my bellybutton? i already have 6 piercings in my ears and she said no more after i got my 5th hole (cartilage).. i pierced the 6th one (other cartilage) myself hehehe woo but she didnt like it (that was like a year ago). so she said no more but i want it soooo bad. i already tried asking for it as my 17th bday present (in september). no. i tried askin if i can get it if i keep a job for so many months, get all A's in school, etc. no. i tried researching and telling her the facts/risks/care/faqs/etc. no. so basically whenever i ask i get yelled at to quit asking. ahh but i want it lol! any ideas? :D (link)
Why dont you just get it pierced. Then dont tell her and when your showing your bellybutton around her take it out. You are going to colledge soon so then you can have it all the time


Ok, this is pretty wierd, but whatever. I am a HUGE HUGE HUGE fan of Britney. My room is covered with pics and stuff of her. But, here latley I been wanting to take my stuff down, because my room is keeping me from having certain friends over because i'm afraid of what they'll think. I always do what i want and i never care what people think, but this is one thing i can't do that with. i have these big boxes that i keep under my bed, and i was thinking i could put some of my stuff down there, so i would still have my stuff for memories and things like that. but the only problem is that some of my stuff is way to big for the huge boxes under my bed. for example, these limited edition gold cd things that are in a frame. they would deffinitly break if they were under my bed. another example is these life size pepsi britney spears cut-out things. those don't fit in the boxes. and one more thing is these big really pretty drawings of britney. i don't know what to do with all of the big expensive things (my parents also helped buy some of these, so i don't think they would be to happy with me, yeah, i haven't told them about all of this). and i forgot to say that even though my room wouldn't show it, i would still be a HUGE HUGE fan of britney. i'm sooooo confused. i don't know if i should sell some of it on ebay, and i also don't know how to tell my parents. i'm in desperate need of help!!! thank ppl!!! (link)
I know how you feel. I had lots of kid kinda stuff. I just packed it in boxes and sent it to the attic. I suggest the same for you.


i have wavy hair. ive tried a lot of products but my hair is ALWAYS frizzy! wat products or things can i do to it to make the frizz go down?? its sooo poofyy! i always have to have it either up or straighten it or curl it with moose but i can never just let it down wen its wet. please. i need to get rid of this FRIZZ!!! (link)
Spray conditioner and if your hair dryer has a ion switch turn it on.


i have thick hair and i don't want it this thick. is there any way to thin my hair out or make it look/feel thin? thanks. (link)
Layers! Or ask your hair dresser to thin it!


i want to get my hair like this:

http://www.paybest.com/jpg9/curly3.jpg

but the problem is i have naturally straight hair :[ i tried scrunching it once but it didnt come out curly at all. does anyone know how to get your hair like this? thanks. (link)
Ok, I have the same hair as you. I tried sponge curlers. They work great! If you want that size curl get large one. Just take a shower before you go to bed then either you or your mom put them in very tight. Sleep with them in(its kina hard but not much)then in the morning take them out shake your head and hairspray it. (Bring the hair spray to school and when you feel its wearing off go to your locker and spray!) Hope I helped!


ok,i have NO idea how to style my anymore![it goes down to the middle of my chest and i have side bangs] these are all the things i've done so far- pigtail braids,thin black head band,striaghten it,half up half down. [these are all with my bangsdown] ok,so basically im lost at what to do now. my hair is naturally wavy. i want a variety. i dont like putting little bows or clips in my hair,thats just not me,and i hate how everyone does that.so basically something that is really cute but not too common. any sggestions? thankyou! (link)
For your hair pony tails are great. I suggest wearing it in a low pony tail and putting it over your shoulder. half up is also great. down is good to. Hope I helped!


can i get anything from starbucks? im 13. i heard it was really good and stuff.. but quite expensive, too. but what are some good things on the menu.. that perhaps arent so expensive? like the coffees and stuff. i wanna try cappuccino cuz the name sounds good. does that taste good? also all those frauppuccinos and etc, lol. thanks! (link)
Starbucks is pretty cheap. Which is good because it is great. Actually today I got a grande(medium) Mocha Frappicino for $4.12. See told you it was cheap.


hey! ok I have this boy at my school that I go out with and there is this other boy at my school that I really like and he likes me.. but I dont have the heart to tell my boyfriend that I like somone else! and I want my boyfriend to break up with me. so please help me! (link)
Just tell your boyfriend that you just want to be friends. But dont go out with the other guy for at least a week.(It's been 5 monthes and my ex still likes me.)


ok soooooo. im in modern world history honors.(freshman) i absolutely hate it. ok so first of all, we don't have textbooks. because there's not enough or something. and the teacher gives these question sheets out almost every night, and to answer them we have to find the information online, or we recently got these documents books that are so boring and hard to understand that i don't even bother looking at it. so basically, we have to find everything on the internet. which is COMPLETELY unfair. my friend who is in CP history, has a textbook and sometimes my other friend & i (who is also in honors) would look at her textbook to find answers. suddenly, our teacher has caught on and says how we're in honors and we have to learn how to generate our own answers blahblah. (other kids use the textbook too, see like everyone thinks this is retarded and hates her homework) i also think the way she teaches is bad. ok well what she does is give us the question sheet the night before she goes over it in class, which makes it soo hard to do the question sheet, cuz when we go online we're not sure what to look for and we're not sure if it's right. sometimes the question sheets take me up to an hour. and i just hate ittt! i have a test tomorrow and i'm completely confused! well what should i do? this is really starting to annoy me. it's soo unfair. just because we're in honors doesn't mean we're geniuses. what should i do?!?! (link)
You could buy a txt book like your friends online. Maybe Im not sure. And you should ask your teacher for help thats why their there


I have really small boobs
They look un proportinate to my body
Becuase I look like the type that would have really big boobs
Im 5'6 and I am an 34 A!
I wear a push up bra but honestly it doesnt seem to create cleavage at all
Is there anything I can do?
and Another question, I wear those bra padding things but they are constantly coming out during the day, is there a special way to make them stay in place? (link)
first off push up bras can make it so that your boobs dont grow. Girls get boobs at different times. I have never had to have this but I have heard water bras are good. But seriously big boobs arent that great. Especially when you run! Just be patient.


Well to start off I absolutely love milk! White or chocolate, I still love it. I drink it every day, getting my recommended, 3 glasses a day (and at a lot of times even more). I've been drinking it since I was 2, since before that I was lactose-intolerant before, but now I have no problem with it..

Until a few days ago I drank milk one morning. Not thinking much of it, I started getting really bad stomachaches just a couple of hours later. They were so awfully bad I couldn't pay attention in class, I felt like I was trembling inside. Laying down in the Health Room did not help. I tried drinking water, but it just made it worse. Later on, just before lunchtime I got sick in the bathroom. A half hour later it went away.

Again, the next day (wasn't realizing the milk was causing the problem), I drank a small glass of milk, because I had to do some driving lessons, and when I get nervous I usually drink something before I leave and it helps. Later on, my stomach aches were coming back. They hurt really bad but not as bad as the day before. Then I was assuming it was the milk so I stopped drinking it for a couple days.

And just this morning I tried a little milk again, and I felt no pain at all. I was completely OK. I had no idea what happened there! Could someone help me out?

And to help this never happened before. I was assuming it was either the milk, or if I am becoming lactose-intolerant but my parents doubted what I thought was happening. And when I drank milk after a couple of days it wasn't the same milk (it was meyer brand) I had from the other day with the pains. Also, I have been drinking that same kind of brand of milk (udf 1% fat) for years (the one that gave me pains).

Any thoughts what it could be?

Sorry that this is long! Thank you so much for reading this. I appreciate your time. Thanks! (link)
You may have just had something wrong with your stomach. But maybe there was something wrong with the milk. Hope I could help.


okay im crying right now because i called my friend earlier today an no one picked up, so i called 3 hours later an she picks up(i was suppose to be going to her house) she picks an says,"why d you keep calling?!!??! can you please stop!!!! like please!!!! your distracting me" i say okay an then she hangs up
well she is a really great friend but gets mad easily
im really sad because i htink she hates me now
for sure
what do i do? (link)
im not saying this is true but maybe your being a little to clingy. Sometimes my friends and i talk about going over to each others houses but were not totally sure about it. Maybe at school you should try to be less clingy or find new friends.




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