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Guy Friend no longer?
I've known this guy, let's call him A. Then I have this friend that's a girl, let's call her B. I've known them both since kindergarten and A never acknowledged me, while B and her other friend just made fun of me and beat me up EVERY RECESS. It happened right in front of the teacher every time, but the teacher blamed me :( They'd pull on my hair, I wore a ponytail on each side of my head and they'd both take each side and pull on them. I used to try and hide from them every day because I was so afraid. Now I'm going into 8th grade when Summer's over. In 6th grade, I became the best of friends with A, and I was friends since first grade with B -- shocking, I KNOW! So anyways, B transferred over the Summer before 7th grade. I missed him the entire time. I sent him an e-mail, I IMed him frequently, but almost never got a reply. I tried to stay in touch, I REALLY DID! But whenever I IMed him we'd either talk for a minute or he'd just sign off after I said hello. I never got a reply from that e-mail back. He said hi to me months ago at a hockey game, but he only pays attention and IMs B. And they talk all the time! B knows it bothers me. A LOT. Well... now B just treats me like crap. When we were waiting for the bus, I ran up to her and said hello. She looks all sad every morning, says nothing to me, and turns away. But when my other friend, (Let's call her C) gets to school she gets all hyper and happy and expects me to be happy with them.
Ever since kindergarten, nobody ever liked me. In 4th grade, A would make fun of me all the time, so would a lot of other people. But it really picked up in 5th grade. All the kids would make fun of me until I cried, one of the ones that did it the most was A! Then in 6th grade, none of my classmates really liked me and the 8th graders made fun of me because I was younger than them. Now B is making fun of me again and C just laughs. In fact tonight, we were all planning to go to the movies but they went without me! I'm so upset.
I don't want to re-live this freshman year, or 8th grade for that matter. I just don't know what to do! I want new friends! Do you think it's mean of me to say that? Or do I deserve new ones? I'm just tired of being treated like crap ALL THE TIME!
Sorry this was so long. But how do I get new friends?
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Ditch them and make new friends.
Simple.
How do you make new friends?
Talk to different types of people
If there is a new person, talk to them because they dont know your past at all. Stay away from the bitches and talk to new people. Join groups and teams and DONT rely on them.
Dont make someone a priority in your life, when your just an option in theirs.
Good luck :]
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First off, forget everyone you mentioned in your question. They aren't real friends. They don't care about them and you don't deserve them. I know it hurts, but they aren't good people.
Now what you need to do to get new friends is be outgoing! Next year talk to as many people as possible to see you click with. Try to talk to people who you don't know so they won't make fun of you. Keep as far from A, B, and C as possible. Most importantly, don't let anyone take advantage of you again. Walk with your head held high and people will automatically notice you.
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