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SOMEONE HELP ME
ok i have a bunch of friends and i love hanging out with them but i dont somethings missing like the only preson i can totaly be myself around and that feel's like a totaly good friend is my sisters friend i know thats kind of weird but she started talking to me one day when my sister ahd this huge sleepvoer anywho she's the only one i can hangout with have fun with totaly trust and what not why cant i find anyone else thats like her cause i really like all my friends but like yeah this is really hard to explain because i dont even really get all of it please help thoguh if you can
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Its difficult trying to find that "best friend". Some people never find one, and some people always have a different one each week! The fact is, these things will take time. Open up to people more, talk to someone different or just invite some girls for a sleepover and try to get closer. As long as you have a group of friends, you fine. That one special friend will come someday, all you have to do is wait.
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Its really hard to fit in sometimes and find friends that are just right for you. All you can do is be yourself and hope to find some really good friends that love you for you.
Although you may not feel that you can be your complete self around your friends right now, thats perfectly normal. But you shouldnt have to be someone else.
Another thing is that different people, bring different parts of our personalities out... like, with your sisters friend, she might bring out a side that you like about yourself. and with your friends, its probably not the full you, but still, they are your friends.
I dont no if this makes since, but i mean there is a difference between close friends and just friends. and thats okay to have only a FEWW close friends that you can be your complete self around. like your sisters friend. hopefully you will be able to hang out with her more and stuff, and maybe you can hang out with her friends too.
But thats just how life is. Everyone only meets a few people in there lifetime that they feel like they can be there complete self around. and those are called best friends. thats why they say they are hard to find.
i really hope to help, and i hope im not jsut rambleing on and on about this stuff that doesnt make since hahaha. I tryed to understand the best i can, let me know if i helped! :)
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