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I'm so confused...
ok, normally i am good at love dilemmas, but this one stumps me.
I have been with a guy that I really do love for 7 months. Before him, I dated a guy a state away from me. Now, my ex bf was very caring, nice, etc...or so it seemed. We talked through webcam and instant messages. Well, he wanted to see me on webcam one day and I guess he didnt like what he saw, so the next day he txted me and said it was over. I didnt love him, but i was infatuated with him and that just broke my heart. I got over him and months later i found my current bf. Well, just now while I was on the phone with my bf, I got an instant message from my ex. And it kind of feels like those feelings could still be there. My question is, is it something I should be worried about? I think they could be just friendship feelings, but im not sure. Any help is appreciated!
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of course your still going to have some feelings for your ex-boyfriend. naturally, your going to remember the good memories you had and miss him. whats important is that you know how much you love your boyfriend, and you know what he did to you was wrong. its obvious that the guy your with now is a much better guy, and i think that you know that. dont fret it. just trust the way you feel about your new guy and try to forget about the old one.
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ive gone through this before also. but what i always just think is okay its not that i like him its just whenever you talk to him you think about times you had and i guess you could say miss them. dont be worried about it, its just normal for this to happen especially if you havent talked to him in a while
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I think you should end everything with your ex because he basically showed that he was not a good boyfriend by judging you from your appearence and breaking up with you after! Try to stay away from him and focus all your attention on your new boyfriend because from what you wrote, it sounds like he is not worth your time.
Good luck!
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