ok my big brother has this friend right
his friend comes to the house at times
he comes into my room when my brother isnt paying atention
he lays on the bed when im there
and he starts talkin about my body parts
like that i have big tits and stuff
and then he starts feeling on my lips
and then he starts touching me were i dont like to be touched
i dont want to tell my brother because then his friend will tell everyone that im a snitch
then when i use to go out wit my brothers friends best friend he use to ask for a kiss and i use to say no
now that we broke up he wants one and more
what should i do?
You should never let something like this slide because you are afraid of what people might think of you. It is more important to protect yourself than to worry about things people might think about someone they probably wont know for more than another 3-4 years. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
GalPalNessa answered Monday June 11 2007, 6:06 pm: sweetheart....
Please, please please please tell someone! because this boy is basically sexually harrassing you! If you don't put an end to this he'll keep doing it! If anything, your brother is going to defend you!
Or at the very least he should... No matter if this guy is his friend, he can't be doing this to you! If its not something that you want, it difitely shouldn't be something that you should do, or have done to. Stand up for yourself hun. Don't let him touch you again. Tell someone what he's doing asap! Or things could really get worse...
Krazy answered Sunday June 10 2007, 8:07 pm: In my life, there is no such thing called a "snitch". Seriosuly. Would you be a "snitch" if he raped you? Uh,no, you would be doing the right thing. Honestly, tell him to stop. If he doesnt, threaten him that you would tell. So what if he calls you a snitch? Those words mean shit. They dont even matter, atleast he would stop doing it. If he doesnt, then your going straight to your brother and Parents. This is a serious issue, and you shoudlnt be worried about the fact that he would call you a "snitch" cuz that word dont mean anything if you are doing the right thing.
LM answered Sunday June 10 2007, 7:56 pm: Tell this kid to stop. If he doesn't, tell your brother or your parents. What he's doing isn't right and he really should stop, but if you haven't told him to he thinks its okay. [ LM's advice column | Ask LM A Question ]
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