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ok so right now i feel like my mom totaly doesnt trust me right now and it pisses me off because everytime i ask to hangout with my friends or something she thinks were doing bad stuff and i know that she thinks i did some bad stuff because the chcik i was hanging out with does that stuff but i'm trying to stop doing stuff and change my life but everytime i try it's like she just makes me want to do more stuff like that because she thinks i'm doing stuff and i know i shouldnt want to do bad stuff like drugs or alcohal but i mean right now in my life i feel like i can trust anyone like i barely have any TRUE friends and like i'm trying to change but people wont let me what am i supposed to do
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Invite your friends over to your house when your mom is home (with her permission) and openly do stuff around her, and let her know that you guys aren't doing any illegal stuff or whatever.
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Well some things that the first to people answered are true. You should just tell your mom everything that you just wrote and CALMLY explain everything. The best thing to do is stay calm. && For what the first person said, staying away from her, i know thats not the easyest thing in the world. I've been there. I know how it feels not wanting to end a friendship like that, and you dont have to, you shouldn't have to. If you honestly feel like she is your friend expain to her that you want to stop what you are doing and change, give her examples. If you continue doing drugs or drinking your going to mess up your life big time. Right now your mother doe snot trust you, But if you keep your life going the way you are a lot of other people are going to not trust you- like other family, or friends you currently have. && thats not what you want in life, turst me. My brother went though all of it.
Maybe you can help your friend change. But thats probably not going to happen. Try hanging around a more positive crowd, what can it hurt?. It may save your life.
If you have any more questions or just want to chat. feel free to inbox me, && my email is on my site.
I hope this helped.
-- Amy.
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Tell her everything you just wrote down and add that you REALLY want to change and you would appreaciate some help doing it.
Even if you feel that your mom doesnt trust you, do good deeds around the house, dont give attitude to her, bring the grades home, things like that.
If you need advice on how to talk to your mom about it, dont hesitate to inbox me :].
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Well, if you're doing this stuff, obviously your mother is right. She's trying to help you, and you're trying to change. Why not let her? And stop hanging out with this so-called friend that's making you do things you don't want to do- people like that aren't your friends. Hang around people who are the kind of person YOU want to be- their behavior rubs off on you, whether you'd admit it or not.
Let your mother know that you want to change, and you want her to help you.
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